i understand tapsya---read why:MOD NOTE PG27 - Page 7

Originally posted by: ankit111

so now we sd analyse Tapu character excluding all her crime, becoz they r OTT things of CVs😆😆 of course thn our Tapu bitiya will be an angel, becoz whn it was shown her planning plotting and doing all sort of crime its OTT things of CVs, they r the main guilty😆. but whn they changed her DIVINE love to Veer in Divine love to her Rapist within few hrs, whn they made her goody goody without any repentance this is quite normal and no OTT things😆😆 whn they Show Ichchha dumb and over mahan its also becoz she is like tht no any OTT, we can criticize other character on the basis of wht hs been shown in serial, but for analysing Tapu the gr8, we hv to exclude all the OTT things of CVs😆😆 i dont think tht we need any psychiatric help😉to understand tht on the basis of whtever shown, not justify the psycho acts of Tapu. no any psychological thisis can convince us for this. and wht is this thakur and naukar things. a wrong is wrong either its done by thakur or by a naukar, we cant say tht thakur parvarish is like treating a naukar as slave, so we can justify it. Jogi is also a thakur, but why he is so kind. Thakur like Pushkar and Nani in todays days begging on the street and if Jogi was not they wd hv been also doing the same.😆😆

Originally posted by: Perfangel5655

I do not condone any of Tapaysa's action but I think the people on this forum tend to fail miserably when it comes to understanding the base of Tapasya's character. She has done despicable deeds but saying she had absolutely no reason to dislike or feel the hatred toward Iccha is not correct in my opinion. The parent thing is a huge factor. Jogi has always treated Iccha "like" his daughter but she has never been his daughter. Iccha has never been her sister. Tapasya never thought Iccha deserved the things from Jogi that she deserved, because to her knowledge there was only one person who deserved it all, and it was her. It's easy to say that's not a good thing. But little kids don't have the ability to understand that, it's easy to grow up with that mentality. In real life you see little kids start to cry as soon as you tell them their mom or dad love some other kid, even if it's their own sibling. I am so ashamed to say this but I myself told my parents to return my younger sister to the hospital when she was born, because I wanted my mom and dad to myself. Of course I love my sister to death now. I hated when my mom compared me to my neighbor's daughter. And first half of my life I very much disliked the girl. It's only after my mom stopped comparing, and after I moved far away from her I could look at things clearly. Of course the age helps too. But you need the right influence. You need someone to show you the right way, and influence you in a positive manner. You don't need someone like Nani at your weak moments saying things that make you even more insecure.

Again not condoning any of Tapasya's actions. She has over all been a negative character. Even if her hatred toward Iccha can be somewhat explained her other horrible actions make little sense. I just think because this is a Indian serial all character sketches are horrible to begin with. None of them make sense.


edit: Basically what made me want to write here, Iccha's situation is not the same as adopted children. Adopted basically gives them equal rights, Iccha didn't have equal rights. She was always the maid's daughter who was "like" a daughter. Tapasya never saw her as a sister.

Originally posted by: Devarshee

Honestly, even since I have started watching Uttaran. I have always understood and loved Tapasya. I am a daddy's girl. I don't like sharing him. I have and will support and understand every move of hers. Poor girl does not deserve this. Good thing its not a true story. :D

Originally posted by: trupat

Exactly icha was not adopted plus divya never accepted icha as her dAughter it was jogi who forced his family to have this relationship with icha when person adopts a child they r legally accepting the child as their own kid as for icha she was nothing but guilt jogi had this Karz On him and that's why he treated icha like his own daughter and ignored his family there many of us on this forum who r daughters in real life but how many of us would allow maid's daughter to be treated exactly like us it's easy to make fun of someone or use sarcasm but the truth is u wouldn't do the something as jogi did and I wouldn't do exactly what tapu did but I love her and her way of thinking it might not be right all the time but she has her own reasons

Originally posted by: arunima_luvdsky

BTW there may be people who may not as selfish as you are ...ehhh

there is no justification for being abnormal n criminal

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

Before twisting my words to form your own meaning Ankit ji let me remind you that I was answering some people's theory as to how Tapu grew up to become a criminal. But lets be honest here if it were real life these things like murder attempt blackmail love game etc etc would not happen. That cannot be explained. That is indeed just OTT dramatisation from the cvs. But as to why and how Tapasya grew up to nurture a deep hatred for Ichha...is what I asked my friend.

Originally posted by: ankit111

dear do u think i hv read ur long post?? Or i hv.patience to read such post which give nothing new, first few.sentences r enough to understand the.contents . I was commenting on the comment of my friend hermoine8. I hv my own meaning and not.need to.twist ur words. 😆 😆

Originally posted by: ankit111

dear do u think i hv read ur long post?? Or i hv.patience to read such post which give nothing new, first few.sentences r enough to understand the.contents . I was commenting on the comment of my friend hermoine8. I hv my own meaning and not.need to.twist ur words. 😆 😆