Originally posted by: veechafan123
Ichcha is doing what makes her happy. Whats wrong with that. She is amazing with kids. What is all this aaya/servant nonsense?
Want to tell you all a fact...The servant who works in my house in India is educated girl. She is doing her BA. She goes to college everyday after finishing her work ( 7-8 am ). For her its a part time job. She is getting married in a few months. We treat her like a human being. They too have a life of their own and dreams like any of us.
Here in US we dont have maids. We do all household chores including cleaning bathrooms. So does that make us unpaid servants? I look after my daughter at home...so does that make me an aaya? What kind of sick mentality do some people have! Grow up yaar!
Teenagers here in US take up part time jobs babysitting. They are treated with respect and dignity and pride. When I was in nursery school there was an old lady who used to take care of us. We used to call her aayah but she was such a nice and kind lady who took such good care of us. I used to like her so much almost treated her like my grandma.