Today was proof what Baby means to Tappu ! - Page 6

What can we expect from Tapasya ?🤢 she is a big black blot on the name of womanhood👎🏼 a worst possible daughter👎🏼 , a worst possible freind 👎🏼, a worst possible lover👎🏼, a worst possible wife👎🏼 , and now a worst possible mother 👎🏼 i am seriously amazed at Rashmi why she is playing such character ? 😕you are talented .you will get thousand better roles than this ? why are you destroying your career playing such a cheap woman or you don't trust your hubby thats why you are still chipku to this role which is moving without any meaning .. i am sorry i don't find any other reason for any person to play such a disgusting character ..this is extreme for anyone especially for a woman

Originally posted by: hermione8

Never seen any new mother decked up like that..😕.. When and where did she get the time or stamina or energy to think of other things or dress up as though she is going to a party, especially when even the unpaid 'Ayah' Ichcha is not there to babysit..

Originally posted by: DMGFan-2b-not2b

I happen to randomly go through this forum which I normally never visit an dhappen to randomly pick your post..

Can I just make a comment on one part of your post? Not related to the show cos i dont watch it but a generic one..

Just because you are a career woman it doesn't mean that you ignore a child / just give birth and focus on career? Just as a man has a right to a life outside of home, so does a woman.. so if a woman chooses to continue to work after having a baby it doesn't necessarily make her "that type of woman" who forsakes baby for career. :-)

In a relationship, as in the making of a baby, there are two parties involved - a man and a woman. And its not necessary that the woman should sacrifice her entire life - its for the two to share the responsibility that a baby brings and share the upbringing to.

Wonder why no one says the same thing for a man? Or is it that we accept that only the man is the bread earner while the woman is the home maker ? :-)

Originally posted by: sonali_dg

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Agreed. Both parents share equal responsibility in raising a child. But while we point out the chauvinistic male mentality aren't we also going to point out cases of women who loves themselves more than their babies. Lets get real, while today's women cry out "equal rights for women", one also needs to remember, that there are certain things a man cannot do, even if he tries. Frankly speaking, other than breast feeding, cant think of any! 😛 And that too there are enough stay-at-homes who are unable to do so for various reasons. And I know enough working moms who manage that balance. 😃

I personally believe its a boon to be born as a woman, if you are a believer of God & creation, it's a fact that after God, only women can actually "create". Actually it again takes a man and woman to create 😉 Even if its IVF, you still need the man to ...er.. contribute? 😉 No doubt, the woman puts in a lot more work, but it still needs two to tango, lol!

Nobody gives up career permanently to raise a child, but isn't it also unfair on the child's part to grow up in a child care from 3 months of age, just because maternity leave cannot go beyond that! You obviously value money more than your own flesh and blood. Whoa! Where did that come from? Thats unfortunately the attitude that countless women have to put up with! And whats even more tragic, more often than not, it comes from other women in their lives! Mercifully, many men in today's day and age dont share that view, and, are happy to pitch in equally :-) So your love for a child is measured by the sacrifices you are willing to make for the kid, not the love, care, attention and thought you put up in his/her upbringing? 😕 Yes, there are sacrifices made by everyone in the process but thats what being a family and sharing a life together is all about. Its how you handle it - emotionally and mentally - that should be imp, not whether you work or not 😊

What use is a career if your child doesn't respond to your own touch? Why bear a child in the 1st place for entertainment? Being a "home maker" is a personal choice, I don't apreciate people looking down upon women who choose to be so. Oh oh is that where this is coming from? Who says being a home maker is an easy job? My mom was a home maker and I always hold that she did a far tougher job than I do, cos she didn't have the option to walk away like I do from a job. I genuinely think that many women who stay at home, project their own insecurities with this "look-down" peeve. My mom is a stay-at-home woman, who is extremely knowledgeable, widely travelled, well informed and can hold her own in most conversations. Its what you chose to make of yourself - has nothing to do with whether you chose to work or stay at home.

I guess it takes a lot more effort to make a house feel "home".

Of course it does, but a home is made from the combined efforts of both the man and woman. No matter how hard she tries, a woman alone cannot build and nuture a warm loving home. As always, takes two to tango! And any relationship, be it filial, marital, begins to fall apart if its one sided.😔

If a woman cannot create a home, she is definitely lacking grooming- there's a life beyond board rooms and suits

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Indeed there is, just like there is a life beyond babies, daiapers and home, the trick is to achieve a balance and not eschew one for the other 😊

Originally posted by: DMGFan-2b-not2b