Today was proof what Baby means to Tappu ! - Page 2

Originally posted by: sonali_dg

Obsession till now was still ...i dont know what to say! But now she's a mother! There's a hell a lot of difference between a wife and being a mother! All I can say is the baby is really really unfortunate that she has got a mother like Tapasya. Sigh!

Originally posted by: serialjunkie

guys, i dont dispute Tappu's characterization or that she is using the baby to get closer to Veer. But some things in the topic need to be re-evaluated.

a new mother is not automatically bonded to her baby. many new moms suffer from severe post-partem depression and are unable to connect with the baby and sometimes feel shame, guilt and even depression.

the real connection happens in the months after child birth and mothers respond more naturally to the needs and wants of the babies.

Just wanted to add that as a foot note that new mothers dont automatically become motherly, just like any new relationship, learning to be a good mother takes time too.

For Tappu, I am sure thats not what CVs intend to show. Their intention is to show she is a callous and uncaring mother. So the actions fit.

Originally posted by: farah007

gosh yaaar... her baby was crying like anything and she was only thinking abt veer.. sicko woman!!! no care for her baby... feel like beating her up with dandas🤢

Originally posted by: serialjunkie

guys, i dont dispute Tappu's characterization or that she is using the baby to get closer to Veer. But some things in the topic need to be re-evaluated.

a new mother is not automatically bonded to her baby. many new moms suffer from severe post-partem depression and are unable to connect with the baby and sometimes feel shame, guilt and even depression.

the real connection happens in the months after child birth and mothers respond more naturally to the needs and wants of the babies.

Just wanted to add that as a foot note that new mothers dont automatically become motherly, just like any new relationship, learning to be a good mother takes time too.

For Tappu, I am sure thats not what CVs intend to show. Their intention is to show she is a callous and uncaring mother. So the actions fit.

Originally posted by: sonali_dg

@ Bold--I fail to understand your point 😕 How can a mother not connect with her Baby?? Unless its those exclusive cases I have highlighted who are still in denial that from being a wife they have become mother's (getting counted in 'Aunty' category) I don't believe any woman can say that!

Even if its so, in an extremely hypothetical situation, that they cannot connect mentally (which is impossible, even animals do fully connect the minute their children are born) but physically, a mother has to constantly keep nursing the child and coincidentally the baby is also hungry during the same time when the mother needs to nurse, else it cause severe clumps pain which is impossible to tolerate.

In Tapasya's case - ok she couldn't connect mentally, but what about it when she was hearing her Baby cry sooo loudly that Nani from else where came running! She being a couple of foot steps away didn't hear/ didnt WANT to hear! 👎🏼 Secondly, while she saw Nani pacifying the child.. a normal mother who would have witnessed it, would have snatched the baby from whosoever and hugged it. A single touch of a mother is enough to pacify a Baby!

Originally posted by: _Invincible_

@ bold red
i agree dat sumtimes dere r rare cases where we can see such disconnection towards baby by mom but in dose cases mother totally is under depression and dere is complete social withdrawal,.. in addition dere is sadness, fatigue, changes in sleeping and eating patterns, reduced libido, crying episodes, anxiety, and irritability.

but tapu isnt showing any other symptom ...infact she is alwz dressed up properly as if she has to go to party...she is totally lost in thoughts of how to get her husband's attention,again plotting and trying to use her own flesh and blood as a thing to get her hubby's love...

u urself said dat dey show guilt and shame...but dere isnt even a flicker of such emotions on tapu's face...even now she is busy wid valuing her and baby's importance to veer in comparison to iccha

so its just her selfish nature which is making her unable to connect to baby...not d post partum depression...

Originally posted by: dreamz12

@red -- small correction. Its not her hubby. Her present status is single-mom. Veer is not her husband.

Rest I agree with you completely,😊