Originally posted by: SRKLuvr
Well I agree with you Groucho ji...they have made Tapu's character a little too extreme but still...how can I forget the loving Tapu I used to once know and knowing how she became so bad...seeing examples of it even now...I cant HELP but feel soo bad for her and I cannot hate her because all I can see are a poisoned mind a burning hatred but not evil. I see no evil at all.
SRK, I am going to be very frank here and please don't take this personally because you know I have no favourites.
The young Tapu was sweet and friendly in so few and far between episodes that even I, who have a pretty good memory, can hardly remember them. I am sure there was a time when she genuinely loved Ichcha till Nani came into the picture.
From her childhood they have shown Tapu as a insecure, vicious little girl (maybe a tad unfair but who can reason with cv's) and the grown up Tapu again as initially a selfish girl till again Nani helped her to become the character she is today. A person can only let herself become what she is today if she was weak, controllable and had no strength of mind.
Whether members use the word 'evil' or anything else is really irrelevant and you should not try and justify the word itself. It is really what is projected as Tapasya character now that we are reacting to. Different persons have a different point of view which is to be respected in this Forum. It is not aimed at anyone.
I, personally would not use the word 'evil' to describe Tapasya. But I have a lot of other adjectives thanks to her extreme character. Does this sound like some sort of reason to you???