TAPASYA AND HER MENTALITY:OFFER SYMPATHY pg 6

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pinkdaisy

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: cjs369
Wow!!daisy👏

you'ev hit the bulls eye...what perfect diagnosis.....and yes as Shivani says the prognosis does look poor...😉😆
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hi charu...i think cvs will treat her well!!😆 taps is their patient.......her prognosis might be worst for us to treat...but cvs have to treat taps to get their creative uttaran going😆

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shivani9

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: pinkdaisy

way to go shiv👏👍🏼...

tqs darling it was my off, n had loads of fun..👍🏼

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pinkdaisy

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#23

Originally posted by: strongirl
very funny

enjoy😛

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pinkdaisy

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Posted: 15 years ago

#24

lets deal wid tapasya's illness in munnabhai way...bole toh Gandhian way mamu....phool dene ka...get well soon bolne ka!!!!😆😆😆😆😆😆

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@-SilverAngel-

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Posted: 15 years ago

#25

Though we all know Tapu baba is suffering from a mental illness, we can't do anything about it.... I wish the cvs give Tapasya what she deserves....she needs a huge huge blow in her thick head

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shivani9

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#26

Originally posted by: mahi0809
Though we all know Tapu baba is suffering from a mental illness, we can't do anything about it.... I wish the cvs give Tapasya what she deserves....she needs a huge huge blow in her thick head

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shivani9

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#27

offfoo this post needs 2 b seen by all...😆

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morel

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: pinkdaisy
Well guys, we have seen ms.Tapasya Thakur through..from the start...creating mess around others lives for her "happiness". She's all in love wid herself and is in a delusion that she loves(can love someone) someone else also - veer.If u people remember it was not outa love she forced herself on veer but outa jealousy on ichcha...jealousy that Ichcha will get Thakurs family,rich husband and rich household. now we r seeing all this mess cos she goes on to prove she's Tapasya thakur and whatever happens will go by her words n instructions. she has gone to the extent of killing someone brutally still without conscience and remorse slept wid veer........during these sad days..... now we name her differently for all that she does...1 thing she does not know or none of her family members know is that she' s suffering from a mental disorder....this comes outa depression!!!.....yes! depression!!!

this is called......Narcissism and Narcissistic Personality Disorder

there r different narcissistic behaviours.....list is given below:

i think cvs have understood her better...so they r showing a typical personality......lets not cram our brains....loose patience...get angry.........cos.its cvs headache to justify their serial title "uttaran"....they have to show our heroine ichcha as the true winner..... and those ppl who are overjoyed for "fraud consummation"😛..this is also a part of this disorder where the patient can be hypersexual/nymphomaniac or hyposexual ..now i need not tell u which category amongst these 2 taps comes into...cos she did move close wid sid...tried to do it wid veer...she failed...and today..she misused the situation....its her hormones and mental condition that has made her do this.....i hope she gets treated soon........why bring in unnecessary publicity to a psychiatric patient????.........see as veer-ichcha lovers we all know how to be kind and loving........wid good hopes.....lets sit back chilled n relaxed and at peace..😊
My Sympathies to Tapasya. Get well soon. Its very rare that these personalities are liked and adored by someone.....😲😛

Narcissism and Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Narcissistic personality disorder produces feelings of exaggerated
self-worth and personal importance. To the narcissist the world and
other people exist only to verify his or her superiority and to cater to
all his or her needs. The disorder is characterized by a lack of regard
or empathy for others, selfishness, and an unrealistic sense of
self-entitlement in all situations.




Narcissistic personality disorder affects between 0.7 and 1 percent of
the general population, and has a negative affect on the families and
life partners of the narcissist. Narcissism appears to affect men more
then women, but gender estimates vary different reports estimate
between fifty to seventy percent of narcissistic personality disorder
cases are male.

<h2>Causes of Narcissistic Personality Disorder</h2>
The cause of narcissistic personality disorder is unknown, but
narcissism usually develops in early adulthood. While elements of
narcissism may be present during adolescence, this can be part of a
person's normal development that diminishes with maturity. For this
reason, diagnosis of narcissistic personality disorder is not made
before adulthood.

<h2>Symptoms of Narcissism</h2>
Narcissistic personality disorder symptoms stem from the
narcissist's self-absorption and over-exaggerated sense of self-worth.
People with narcissistic personality disorder are quite willing to take
advantage of, manipulate, or lie to others to achieve their own desires
and gratification. When a narcissist values a person, it is only because
that person has something to offer. Narcissism reduces other people to
the status of servants or useful tools.

Common symptoms include: 

a lack of feeling, empathy, or concern for others

a willingness to take advantage of others

excessive feelings of self-importance

exaggerated personal achievements and abilities

an expectation to be seen as superior without cause

a fantasy or is preoccupation with power, wealth, beauty, personal abilities, or success

a demand for favorable treatment without appropriate reasons

an insiststance on being the object of admiration and attention. 

<h2>Narcissistic Personality Disorder and Relationships</h2>

The
attitude of a narcissist towards others is one of superior contempt.
Narcissism also makes people envy the accomplishments of others; the
success of others is perceived as stealing the narcissist's "rightful"
rewards or possessions.

People with narcissistic personality disorder demand that others
provide them with comfort, gifts, and other desires, but refuse to
acknowledge any indebtedness. Rather than offer thanks, the narcissist
will mock and degrade both gift and giver.


This contempt for others is also expressed towards intimate partners
and children. When narcissists feel family members are not meeting their
needs, they may resort to emotional, physical, or sexual abuse. Sexual
abuse of children is also a danger with severe narcissist personality
disorder, as the narcissist sees his children as extensions of his self
with no real individual identity or rights.

<h2>Narcissism and Reality Conflicts</h2>
The self-importance characteristic of narcissism and the
narcissist's demand for preferential treatment will inevitably come into
conflict with reality. Narcissists are adept at explaining
discrepancies between reality and their self-image, but occasionally
circumstances shake the narcissist's belief in his superiority. When
this happens, the person may become enraged, experience feelings of
emptiness, or develop clinical depression.

<h2>Diagnosing Narcissistic Personality Disorder</h2>
Seeking treatment for narcissism is rare. The narcissistic
individual sees nothing wrong with his or her narcissism; to
narcissists, their "natural" superiority is obvious to them, and
therefore should be obvious to all.

When narcissists seek medical help, it's usually because their
self-image has been disrupted by an occurrence that casts doubt on their
assumed superiority. Such a crisis can result in clinical anxiety and
depression, and it if for these emotions that the narcissist seeks
treatment.


Diagnosis of narcissistic personality disorder requires a thorough
psychological evaluation, the gathering of personal history, and
personal observations made by the diagnosing doctor. In accordance with
the DSM-IV, a diagnosis of narcissistic personality disorder is
considered when five or more of the following criteria are present: 

has a grandiose sense of self-importance (e.g., exaggerates
achievements and talents, expects to be recognized as superior without
commensurate achievements)

is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love

believes that he or she is "special" and unique and can only be
understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status
people (or institutions)

requires excessive admiration

has a sense of entitlement, i.e. unreasonable expectations of
especially favorable treatment or automatic compliance with his or her
expectations

is inter personally exploitative (i.e. takes advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends)

lacks empathy, i.e. is unwilling to recognize or identify with the feelings and needs of others

is often envious of others or believes that others are envious of him or her

shows arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes.

From the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, 4th Edition. American Psychiatric Association, 1994. 

A number of conditions can mimic symptoms of narcissism, and must be
ruled out before a definitive diagnosis is possible. These conditions
include: 

antisocial personality disorder

borderline personality disorder

histrionic personality disorder

manic or hypomanic episodes

obsessive compulsive disorder

paranoid personality disorder

personality changes due to an underlying medical condition

schizotypal compulsive disorder

substance abuse. 

<h2>Narcissistic Disorder Treatment</h2>
Narcissism treatment must overcome a number of challenges. People
with narcissistic personality disorder often resist treatment; their
self-concept refuses to accept that their narcissism is abnormal, and
they consider mental treatment "beneath them," or "demeaning" and they
adopt adversarial attitudes towards mental professionals.

Antidepressants may be used to treat anxiety and depression in the
narcissist, but as with many personality disorders, the patient must be
monitored carefully for signs of noncompliance or substance abuse.

Psychotherapy, both individually and in group settings, can help the
patient with narcissistic personality disorder identify and change his
or her symptoms. The goal of treatment is to help the narcissist become
more sensitive to others' rights and emotions. Treatment outcomes are
dependent on the severity of the disorder the less willing the
narcissist is to view others with any degree of empathy, the more likely
treatment will fail.

Amazing post Pinky. I usually dont read such long posts, but now I read the entire post before commenting. Really you did a great job !!! I am glad that you came up with this one and I wish everyone wld read this.

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ruchira maitra

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Posted: 15 years ago

#29

gr8 post daisy, i think you have researched a lot abt tapasya's mental condition....her ailment is very unique and equally dangerous.

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Posted: 15 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: shivani109
Today has been an absolutely rocking day for me in the forum ek sey bad kar ek posts were posted, but this post is intriguing and has its own charm, I honestly hope & pray it delivers the goods..👍🏼

as i have oft repeated shivani, truth always prevails and would prevail....we are on the right side of the line and are not hypocrites.....we oppose evil and in real or real life we do not promote evil, lies, deceit and frauds. we hate these traits and persons having these traits from the bottom of our hearts.

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