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Posted: 15 years ago
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@mkdeepa i agree wid u on mai's stupidity. shes so irritating just like her "laadali bahu". wen she was accusing iccha i felt like stranging her neck alongwid dracula. 🤢🤢and dat dracula was happy & feeling content wen iccha went wid divya & jogi.
and i undersatand iccha's condition 4 blaming veer as almost similar 'd happened wid us wen my dad died in an accident. our grandmother blamed sum of our relatives responsible 4 dis whom she was not on talking terms. though rest of our family & my dad never thought like her & quite frndly wid dem. so wen dis happened she blamed dem.but we never blamed & also understood our grandmothre's great grief as no mother can see her son's death in front of her. and later on she bcame fond of their little granddaughther so much dat wenever she came 2 our home in village she gave her sweets 2 eat.😊😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: tiny15

@mkdeepa i agree wid u on mai's stupidity. shes so irritating just like her "laadali bahu". wen she was accusing iccha i felt like stranging her neck alongwid dracula. 🤢🤢and dat dracula was happy & feeling content wen iccha went wid divya & jogi.

and i undersatand iccha's condition 4 blaming veer as almost similar 'd happened wid us wen my dad died in an accident. our grandmother blamed sum of our relatives responsible 4 dis whom she was not on talking terms. though rest of our family & my dad never thought like her & quite frndly wid dem. so wen dis happened she blamed dem.but we never blamed & also understood our grandmothre's great grief as no mother can see her son's death in front of her. and later on she bcame fond of their little granddaughther so much dat wenever she came 2 our home in village she gave her sweets 2 eat.😊😊



Thanks for sharing about your dad, I wish his memories give you strength.

In real case I understand blaming others even there is no evidence as due to loss of loved one it is their state of mind like your granny.

But Maie is driving her own family member out of house she is disguisting lady from the day one just like her laadli bahu.

In today's precap they showed Veer at Jogis house to say sorry to Icha and take her at home.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: mkdeepaa



But Maie is driving her own family member out of house she is disguisting lady from the day one just like her laadli bahu.

In today's precap they showed Veer at Jogis house to say sorry to Icha and take her at home.



ya they showed veer has gone to apologise to ichcha...but the state of mind in which ichcha is, i am afraid she will again start screaming n accusing veer of vansh's murder.....i dont want them standing against each other ...hope veer is able to convince ichcha that when he reached the spot vansh was already shot...i want ichcha n veer together shud cathch the culprit.......tapasya

n jogi shud not allow ichcha to go back
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Posted: 15 years ago
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This is not a correct time for Veer to go and meet Icha, these CVs
unnecessarily wants to show conflict between Veer -Icha so they will show Icha will insult Veer and all stuff 😡

The evidence and proof are on the way, no idea it will expose Tapu or save her. But it will sure grab for one month.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: mkdeepaa

I really felt bad seeing Icha out of home in yesterday's episode. As there is no place at husband's home with out him. In presence of husband no one can dare to speak or point. Though the husband is addict, physco his presence and absence makes lot of difference at in laws place.

Though it is a modern or educated world in most of the families it is applicable, either they drive daughter in law because they just find no importance in her without their son or are worried she will claim for the property. But do there are exceptional families, who love their daughter in law as their own daughter.



Very good topic Deepa hats off to u highlighting this malady in our society, i guess this is atleast one good reason every girl shud be well educated n independent...😳...hope ppl dont say I am degrading them bcoz they r uneducated n unemployed....i read from else where tht Mai was horrible to Ichcha, i cud nt expect any thing more classy from the uncivilised illiterate mean minded Mai, Baldev n Co..bunch...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Very good topic Deepa hats off to u highlighting this malady in our society, i guess this is atleast one good reason every girl shud be well educated n independent...😳...hope ppl dont say I am degrading them bcoz they r uneducated n unemployed....i read from else where tht Mai was horrible to Ichcha, i cud nt expect any thing more classy from the uncivilised illiterate mean minded Mai, Baldev n Co..bunch...



Thank you Shivani 😊. You are right education is the biggest strength and support of any person. But the fact is at in laws house no other person can be lovable and trustworthy than husband. Even in the both cases of educated and uneducated girl it is very bad to see there is no love and support from other family members at husbands side.


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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: mkdeepaa



Thank you Shivani 😊. You are right education is the biggest strength and support of any person. But the fact is at in laws house no other person can be lovable and trustworthy than husband. Even in the both cases of educated and uneducated girl it is very bad to see there is no love and support from other family members at husbands side.




Sadly thts true, but the chances of being treated like a door mat will be less i guess. Women generally are treated like door mats bcoz they are vulnerable n dependant on their husbands for their daily living, its a different issue tht most indian women dont admit 2 it (just like Ichcha), coz they wudnt want the society 2 pity them n take them for granted.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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nice topic 👏 👏 👏
i totally agree with u..usually in our society a wife's relation depends on husband's..n if husband dies/or even get ill than all blame on wife..this was so ridiculous that they thrown ichcha out even b4 vansh's chautha 😭 😭 😭 😭 didnt they saw ichcha's pain..her grief...wat trauma she is having? 😡
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: mkdeepaa

I really felt bad seeing Icha out of home in yesterday's episode. As there is no place at husband's home with out him. In presence of husband no one can dare to speak or point. Though the husband is addict, physco his presence and absence makes lot of difference at in laws place.

Though it is a modern or educated world in most of the families it is applicable, either they drive daughter in law because they just find no importance in her without their son or are worried she will claim for the property. But do there are exceptional families, who love their daughter in law as their own daughter.



sure there are many families look after their daughters in law and grandchildren after their son's demise.....we''ve come a long way.....WOMEN HAVE ALL RIGHTS😊
In this serial..its all bakwaas yaar.......they r showing people Who belong to primitive ages.....😆

u know ms.ichcha can sue b-toons and snatch their property, can put case against the injustice and cold response of her in-laws shown towards her,,,,there r many ways to stand up for rights....
this is serial and ms.ichcha ko utna chance bhi nahin milegi yaar....cos cvs tapasya ki puja jo kar rahen hain...they have no time to see things wid eyes wide open!!!!😛


Edited by pinkdaisy - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Recently I did a study on the Socio-economic conditions of Widows in the Holy city of Puri. One of the overwhelming observations that after the husband dies, the widows (especially the young ones) are driven out of homes. But I thought this happens in only poor households.

But today I was amazed that it happened in B-house. And who were responsible for it. One woman instigated (highly rational, highly educated with a brilliant brain under her khopdi, really???????) and the other one implemented it. It happened in a rich, famous and well educated household. That is the irony. It reaffirms the maxim is that "A woman is the worst enemy of another woman".

So the if the poor households drive their widows out of economic reasons, the rich and famous (at least Tappu baba-Mai combination) do it to satisfy their false ego and hiding their criminal activities.

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