Posted:
Jealousy , negative thoughts , negative attitude , haterd, possesiveness etc are some of the vices that we all possess and vent out at some point in our lives.
there is a bit of vansh in everyone of us : HOW?
ANS:
Arent fathers protective about their daughters? Arent husbands possesive about their wives? dont we get jealous if our gf/bf appreciate a third person in front of us??
we do.....the answer to all these question is YES WE DO EXHIBIT ALL THESE VICES.
AN EXAMPLE TO SUPPORT MY ARGUEMENT :
If I say that I dont like it when Rohit chats with or replies to any person other than me. I dont like the fact ....its simple....i get annoyed. then what will be ur reaction to it??
u l call me crazy , mad , stupid ........??
well i would call myself the same....but then there is something called LOGICAL REASONING ....
WHICH WILL ENTER THE SCENARIO N I WILL THINK THAT LOOK NEHA HE IS A CELEB A PUBLIC FIG SO HOW CAN U EXPECT SUCH THINGS FROM HIM....NO EXCLUSIVE TREATMENT CAN BE EXPECTED......
My anger n jealousy will be superceded by my logical reasoning......
WHAT MAKES VANSH DIFF:
A. LOGICAL REASONING
B. INTENSITY AND PERMANENCY OF JEALOUSY, POSSESIVENESS , HATERED ETC....
for vansh the intensity of such vices is very high and the permanency level is even more strong.
he is a soft target , a soft victim of such vices which are able to make a place in his mind n heart quite easily......N THEN THE LOGICAL REASONING....vansh is not able to comprehend n trust his reasoning.....its there but not utilised....not paid attention to.....considered FAKE N FALSE.
FINALLY:
the intenity of his vices can be cured only through treatment.....n nothing else.
I know its easy said than done....much much easy to say then to feel n be a victim .
i must be sounding philosophical n bookish but the fact is that all that i have said has been encountered by me many a times.....so i can relate to it to some extent..
THUS, THERE IS A PART OF VANSH IN ALL OF US THE ONLY THING BEING THAT WE HAVE THE POWER TO OVERCOME IT WHICH VANSH DOESNT .!!!!!!!