Tapasya ko 'Pati' chahiye YA 'Naukar' !!! - Page 5

And thing is she didn't even noticed all d rubbish & clutter she had done. It was only veer who took notice otherwise Tapu baba could have lived there with no problem at all na. She didn't even made an effort to look for a servant, Veer only had to ask watchman for that 😡

Nice post Morel.👏...Attitude of most people in the western society is to live n let live...Tapasya will not b allowed 2 survive even as a chaprasi in such a society..even if she goes begging on her knees.....thts her worth..useless creature..😡😡.

come on they probably hadnt even been in that place 24 hours! look at tapu's life...what does she have in it except shopping? she is utterly frustrated and I know its her fault but the thing is she doesnt even realise it! her mind is messed up! she probably threw everything around in her usual way not remembering that for the first time ever there were no servants around her to clean up...yeh she only realised when Veer pointed it out...I dunno...cvs are totally being weird about this! who thought they show her like this? i didnt! in fact i wasnt ready to accept she didnt even realise she had left food scraps scattered everywhere! she had thron her towel in a plant! that was a bit extreme by the cvs if u ask me😆

well nutmeg of course its her fault too! but the majority fault belongs to the parents! parents are responsible for teaching their children how to live properly! did divya never teach her to even put her towel properly and not throw it on a plant?

It can't be just d parents fault, u can't teach a child everything and many things u've to learn urself.

Actually being a parent myself I can tell, u can only ask ur child to do smth but ultimately they'll need to make a effort to do it na so just guidance is not enough they should have an attitute to learn also

and i can tell u as a child living with her parents that until two years ago my parents never made me do any work at all so when they finally realised that I was growing lazy and careless because they waited on me all the time and i used to leave my teacups next to my bed waiting till mum came and gave me water in bed and she would wash the cup, they became strict and started making me do work. They made me do the dishes, hang up the washing and take care of my own school lunch! at first I absolutely hated it! I refused to do it and just couldnt bring myself to do all this work because life was soo comfortable and I didnt want it to change! but then I realised I would have to go to America for further studies in a few years and my parents made me understand that when i was there alone I would have to do all this! Mum started teaching me cooking, cleaning, different responsibilities, how to look after my own bank account and mending clothes. Nowadays I balance my studies and do many of the household jobs also and am used to it!
tapu has never had a strict parent and thats not good! she has been waited on hand and foot all her life! now of course when she is asked to do work at the age of 23 when she has not done it b4 of course she will hate it! she is spoilt rotten and this is what I blame her parents for not being strict with her and making her responsible! I know cos i used to be just like her! fortunately I changed at the age of 14...tapu is 22 and has still not been asked to change! veer is again pampering her by saying he will do it all! let her live in the pigsti for a while and see if she doesnt clean it herself!