Originally posted by: Mages
i don't understand what is wrong with this women.....i know after marriage husband is means the whole world to every women well thats includes me wheen i get married in future....but for ichcha its the height's of madness.....she is taking all torture from that jerk vansh....and she is tolerating by saying this in her mind its patni dharam and kartavya....
patni dharam means to protect husband from difficulties and evils.....
patni dharam means to love your husband deeply mentally and physically without any sins in your soul
patni dharam means to understand and bring your husband to the right path of life...teach him the good ways of life
patni dharam means whatever comes in life you will standby and fight all odds with your husband
patni dharam means even if death touches your husband...you risk your life but save your husband.....
patni dharam means being a friend...lover...teacher...mother...sister...wife to your husband...when it happens in long journey of life when he looses his beloved ones....you will be the support and give him the love which his beloved ones have given him
patni dharam means a vow you give your husband...no matter what...whether its happiness...sorrows....love...passion...difficulties....you will standby him and you are only belongs to him.....
if the marriage is in danger...its also a patni dharam to save the marriage
there is no word of tolerating husband torture in patni dharam dictionary.....why the hell she is taking all the torture...there is this meaning of patni dharam that is stand up for the rights if you feel your husband is wrong...transform him and bring back him to the right way.....even if you have to use the harsh way to transform him.....
but what the hell ichcha is doing...silently taking all nonsense from her jerk husband.....she knows deep down he is a nice man....and loves her deeply but she is doing nothing to transform the beast again to the angel she knew.....she just silently accepting all torture from mentally to physically.......and now he have crosses limits....is she still going to keep quiet thinking its patni dharam and kartavya
i know ichcha's nature is reserved and selfless person.....even when she was in love with veer she was reserved....she hides everything in her heart....well at that time i can understand its tender age and at that time girls gives more importance to the family rather than lover......
now she is married....a another level up...which means being strong and fighting odds and evil....but here we see ichcha being reserved again...and tolerating all nonsense.....
she nows deeply loves her husband....loving deeply is not enough...she should help him overcome his battle and bring him to the right way rather than accepting all his nonsense and do whatever kraps he says.....
ichcha's patni dharam is worth applause....but then tolerating nonsense...its no sign of patni dharam but more of weakness....
sitting down and cry will not work....she have to stand up for the relationship if she wants to save it from going to the doom....she needs to be firm clears up every suspicion of vansh and confess her feelings to both vansh-veer what she feels for them......
i know now she loves vansh deeply...but that doesn't mean to prove her love she needs to do what he says....if she wants to prove her love to vansh and gain back his trust on her than she have to stand up firm and fight him...transform him and show him the right way......accepting his krap whether its mental torture or physical torture or now his new plan due to nani...to make veer stoop low infront of everyone's eyes....doesn't show to prove love....but showing it that she is weak.....
its high time...ichcha stood up firm to vansh and shows him the right way rather than accepting his krap
