ichcha's patni dharam is irritating me

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Mages

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Posted: 15 years ago

i don't understand what is wrong with this women.....i know after marriage husband is means the whole world to every women well thats includes me wheen i get married in future....but for ichcha its the height's of madness.....she is taking all torture from that jerk vansh....and she is tolerating by saying this in her mind its patni dharam and kartavya....

patni dharam means to protect husband from difficulties and evils.....

patni dharam means to love your husband deeply mentally and physically without any sins in your soul

patni dharam means to understand and bring your husband to the right path of life...teach him the good ways of life

patni dharam means whatever comes in life you will standby and fight all odds with your husband

patni dharam means even if death touches your husband...you risk your life but save your husband.....

patni dharam means being a friend...lover...teacher...mother...sister...wife to your husband...when it happens in long journey of life when he looses his beloved ones....you will be the support and give him the love which his beloved ones have given him

patni dharam means a vow you give your husband...no matter what...whether its happiness...sorrows....love...passion...difficulties....you will standby him and you are only belongs to him.....

if the marriage is in danger...its also a patni dharam to save the marriage

there is no word of tolerating husband torture in patni dharam dictionary.....why the hell she is taking all the torture...there is this meaning of patni dharam that is stand up for the rights if you feel your husband is wrong...transform him and bring back him to the right way.....even if you have to use the harsh way to transform him.....

but what the hell ichcha is doing...silently taking all nonsense from her jerk husband.....she knows deep down he is a nice man....and loves her deeply but she is doing nothing to transform the beast again to the angel she knew.....she just silently accepting all torture from mentally to physically.......and now he have crosses limits....is she still going to keep quiet thinking its patni dharam and kartavya

i know ichcha's nature is reserved and selfless person.....even when she was in love with veer she was reserved....she hides everything in her heart....well at that time i can understand its tender age and at that time girls gives more importance to the family rather than lover......

now she is married....a another level up...which means being strong and fighting odds and evil....but here we see ichcha being reserved again...and tolerating all nonsense.....

she nows deeply loves her husband....loving deeply is not enough...she should help him overcome his battle and bring him to the right way rather than accepting all his nonsense and do whatever kraps he says.....

ichcha's patni dharam is worth applause....but then tolerating nonsense...its no sign of patni dharam but more of weakness....

sitting down and cry will not work....she have to stand up for the relationship if she wants to save it from going to the doom....she needs to be firm clears up every suspicion of vansh and confess her feelings to both vansh-veer what she feels for them......

i know now she loves vansh deeply...but that doesn't mean to prove her love she needs to do what he says....if she wants to prove her love to vansh and gain back his trust on her than she have to stand up firm and fight him...transform him and show him the right way......accepting his krap whether its mental torture or physical torture or now his new plan due to nani...to make veer stoop low infront of everyone's eyes....doesn't show to prove love....but showing it that she is weak.....

its high time...ichcha stood up firm to vansh and shows him the right way rather than accepting his krap

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Shyam

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Posted: 15 years ago

Yes Ichcha need to come out of her maun vrat soon. She is not really helping anybody be being quite not d least Vansh himself 😡

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: shyams
Yes Ichcha need to come out of her maun vrat soon. She is not really helping anybody be being quite not d least Vansh himself 😡

seriously i am highly irritated with a maun vrat too....she is not really helping anyone...not vansh...veer or including herself...she is only helping tapwater...see how the witch has gain veer sympathy...he puts sindoor on her maang and accepts her and now they are going to US which will be ruined all thanks to Sid....

her maun vrat till now only helped tapwater-nani and noone else.....its high time she opens her mouth to vansh.....or its better go abck to her maayka rather than living with such a jerk....distance can transform him at times.....

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Mages

seriously i am highly irritated with a maun vrat too....she is not really helping anyone...not vansh...veer or including herself...she is only helping tapwater...see how the witch has gain veer sympathy...he puts sindoor on her maang and accepts her and now they are going to US which will be ruined all thanks to Sid....

her maun vrat till now only helped tapwater-nani and noone else.....its high time she opens her mouth to vansh.....or its better go abck to her maayka rather than living with such a jerk....distance can transform him at times.....

Yes she should go back to Jogi's haveli at least till Vansh starts missing her and may be realize he can't live without

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: shyams

Yes she should go back to Jogi's haveli at least till Vansh starts missing her and may be realize he can't live without

true i agree big time...i would love to see vansh wooing back his ladylove wife all over again...she is been hurt so much...its time to repent....

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Posted: 15 years ago

That Icha wont go out of B haveli. she will rot here till death. thats patni dharam for her like they say pati ke ghar se sirf arthi uthegi. Shes blindly following all dharams irrelevant of the treatment she receives. God knows which black and white times she comes from.

Thank God Sid entered otherwise that B**** wudve escaped to US or Timbuktoo with Veer in tow with all her crimes forgotten and her leading a happy married life after ruining Icha's. I feel like sending security to block her exit.

Bhagwan ke ghar der hai andher nahi. Even though Veer and Icha have forgiven her but God wont. And thats what I want to see the creatives proving. Tappu shd suffer so much that even her soul will beg for mercy.

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Gagori Chatterjee

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Posted: 15 years ago

I completely agree with u Mages,..she is making a mockery of Patni dharam...and what CVs r teaching out here..that a wife should go through all the physical and emotional tortures of a hubby in the name of Patni dharam ??

When Vansh did that emotional blackmail to Ichha yesterday that if she is not humiliating Veer in front of his family then he will go back to his world of drugs.,..Ichha should hv told him "Ok fine go back to your world of drugs..because I m not taking any more nonsense from you..As a wife I did enough for u but as a husband did u ever fulfill any of your duties ??..still if u hv no trust on me or this relationship ..its better to break it than going through this daily torture"😆😉...Its high time Ichha stands up for her own rights and reminds Vansh about his duties as a husband and also the fact that its his own brother Veer who brought him back from his addiction days..so instead of being thankful to his brother..he is asking his wife to humiliate that same brother..disgusting

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Posted: 15 years ago

And I fail to understand why is Ichha afraid of telling the truth to Ammo or Jogi here..I mean they r not heart patients or that weak that right after hearing all this they will go straight to their death bed😆😕...In real life circumstances whenever such problems exist in a relationship ..its always the elders who comes to the rescue and if Ichha had told the truth about her relationship to at least Jogi then I m sure Jogi with his maturity would hv explained everything to Vansh in a practical manner and then Nani would hv never got this opportunity to brainwash him..so Ichha's silence is working against her own happiness here

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: jyoti06
I completely agree with u Mages,..she is making a mockery of Patni dharam...and what CVs r teaching out here..that a wife should go through all the physical and emotional tortures of a hubby in the name of Patni dharam ??

its really a mockery of patni dharam....its too much now.....why can't ichcha stand firm for once...there is no change in her at all...why go through such torture....because she loves her husband deeply...that jerk doesn't even worth the love at all....how long will he stick to his addiction side effect till he dies...its just insane

When Vansh did that emotional blackmail to Ichha yesterday that if she is not humiliating Veer in front of his family then he will go back to his world of drugs.,..Ichha should hv told him "Ok fine go back to your world of drugs..because I m not taking any more nonsense from you..As a wife I did enough for u but as a husband did u ever fulfill any of your duties ??..still if u hv no trust on me or this relationship ..its better to break it than going through this daily torture"😆😉...Its high time Ichha stands up for her own rights and reminds Vansh about his duties as a husband and also the fact that its his own brother Veer who brought him back from his addiction days..so instead of being thankful to his brother..he is asking his wife to humiliate that same brother..disgusting

way to go jyoti👏👏👏👏👏.....kya baat kahi hai👏👏👏......thats what i want ichcha to tell vansh also so that his brains comes back from the planet he leave it....he wants humilliate that brother who did so much for him......just because nani brainwashed him...he stoop so low...its highly insane....i am beginning to disrespect and it will not gain till he comes out as an angel again

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Shyam

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Vaise is Ichcha really tell Veer all that Vansh has asked her to then knowing Ichcha I think she will start feeling guilty even more for Veer (even in the Sat special she was telling Veer she fells she is responsible for Veer's halat). I dono where will all this guilt lead her to 😕

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