The Reason Found - Page 5

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

yes her parents love her but they did not make it properly known to her. so naturally she thought they love icha more, and this idea ws planted in her mind by nani. now tapu cant change from someone who she thinks loves icha more thn her. and sid....i dont believe thats true love thats deewangee. all i want is the true tapasya thakur back..the humane one and the one who doesnt hate icha. however for thhat her inferiority complex will have to go away. it will be a challenge but i pray that it happens. and no shes not gonna tell veer to buy her diamonds becuase i feel she will juust be happy having him as her husband...who will be nice and understanding twards her

Ohh.......my Goodness do you think so??I doubt
Of course Tapasya knows Veer loves Icchha more than anyone else so how's that going to change her??She was comparing her 'Mangalsutra' with a 'diamond pendant' yesterday so you got what holds relevance for her
Now it's not Veer,it's about her STATUS in the B-Parivaar

ok look the basic thing is ever since nani poisoned her mind agaist icha shes been under the mind that icha snatched everything from her. nani always knew that adding fuel to the fire would make tapu do exactly what she wanted becuase she knew she had made tapu her puppet. she is under the impression that when one loves they must do anything to be with them...another misguided thing....who taught her all this? if tapu had been raised by jogi and divya she never wudve been this way. instead she was raised by nani and so that is why she is the way she is - exactly like nani and pushkar. i dont think she'd mind icha getting everything if she had veer but she feels that veryone who was supposed to be hers was taken away from her and when this sort of thing starts from a young age and is never removed then it stays. didnt we get good values from our parents at a young age that have stuck with us until now? well tapu is the same..only difference being that she has retained the hatred for icha and has thus develped an inferiority complex. i feel now that vansh also has one. she was saying i wear this mangalsutra for a man who doesnt love me and icha gets everything plus love. she used sid because all the time she thought...im doing this to get my love. and when bad things are inggrained in u they dont come out just like that.

Originally posted by: divy609

Ohh.......my Goodness do you think so??I doubt
Of course Tapasya knows Veer loves Icchha more than anyone else so how's that going to change her??She was comparing her 'Mangalsutra' with a 'diamond pendant' yesterday so you got what holds relevance for her
Now it's not Veer,it's about her STATUS in the B-Parivaar

no! omg she was saying 'i wear this for a man who doesnt love me''...i bet that mangalsutra is very expensive itself..since it seems to have diamonds on it. she want thinking about that! no she was saying that icha snatched veer's love (silly thought) and then vansh fell for her and now will she even take away the love maii has for me. the status thing is gonna develop if veer doesnt treat her nicely. if she believes now that she is the o nly person in veer's life then it might be enough....cos we know whts gonna happen now...vansh icha get married, veer will be forced to stay with tapu and will distance himself from her and tapu will feel more and more hatred towards icha. this is why i hope for divine intervention.....veer starts treatng her well and who knows...maybe she will see herself wht real goodness is

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

Yes I know but u know after uve been taught the same thing for ten years and been poisoned for ten years its very difficult to change urself unless there is someone guiding u so I dont reckon taps can change until she gets a humsafar that will guide her through this.😊

yeah srkluver that i can understand but she was with ichcha she'cd have learned many things from her but she dose'nt and i could have tatally agreed with you if atleast once taps'd have done a good job after her marriage but saddest part is that the cvs are tatally changing her character into an evil character (vilian) which even rashmi Desai had said in an interview so........ but i really miss their childhood friendship, the way they use to play and be happy. its no more found now not even in a single scene......... their friendship is totally lost and the initiative was nani....... feel sad for this poor serial no more facts left hights of everything is being done by taps by the cvs😕

Originally posted by: payel_roy

yeah srkluver that i can understand but she was with ichcha she'cd have learned many things from her but she dose'nt and i could have tatally agreed with you if atleast once taps'd have done a good job after her marriage but saddest part is that the cvs are tatally changing her character into an evil character (vilian) which even rashmi Desai had said in an interview so........ but i really miss their childhood friendship, the way they use to play and be happy. its no more found now not even in a single scene......... their friendship is totally lost and the initiative was nani....... feel sad for this poor serial no more facts left hights of everything is being done by taps by the cvs😕

there is no way that tapu is gonna listen to icha bcuz she thinks icha ruined her life (idea planted by nani) and good job after marriage? bechari did every possible thing to get veer to accept her....all the trating wounds and making breakfast and working and runnning in front of the knife...the vansh files and the coffee...........she did try ...i guess.....and she even did lots of the housework.....she used to get up wayyy early n stuff and even tried to do pooja in her dreadful voice😆 but oh well

Originally posted by: JayaV

well there had been days when nani said something against icha taps instead of acting rashly she held her ground and supported icah .....ok nani knoew taps would act rashly but nani is difently not aware which way taps would react in gud or bad did she ?? nani always knew wat taps did afterward not before and nani never predicited that kind of responmse from taps .....

Oh then wat would u ca,, that Mangalsutra(heard of it from forums) thing then ??

UIs taps surrounded by bad ppl all the time ?? forget icha , jogi loved her a lot which she is aware of ......

She loves her parents i never doubted that but she also did everything to hurt them and still cheating on them ..........

when Sid came back why did she lie and used him ??

One thing - doesnt she aware that elder babhu gets more respect and vaklue from family ? dont tell me she doesnt? when she knoew veer was only son she was jealous that icah would get everytghing

Her inferiosrity compl is only with icha but with no one else ... she never cared for the things which meant a lot in her life and she kicked things which are meant for her and running around things which are out of her reach ........................

well said yaar totally agreed👏👏👏. taps is havnng inferority complex.

lol we know shes got inferiority complex and I want her to get over this. i think its the fault of jogi he never realised what bringing another kid into the house could do to his little daughter and he didnt realise he'd need to manaofy her with love not send her to some boarding school and isolate her and make her hate icha more. going to boarding school wouldnt have helped her inferiority complex.

how ??
by torturing other members of the house an playing with their lives 😆😆

Originally posted by: vijaya_ls

how ??
by torturing other members of the house an playing with their lives 😆😆

sorry? lol which answer is this in response to?

^^ yeah bechari tappu..!!! she iz jst got da peson whom she luvz by ny meanz, a nice family, nice in-lawz n da best fren in da world..!!! poor her no..?!!😛