Does cheating have redemption? - Page 5

Originally posted by: sanjyona

I absolutely agree with you I don't think I ever forgive someone who do adultery. It's crime and you can't change the fact that it happened with willingness of person. It's not like you killed someone in self defense.

The most important thing how can people forgive cheating partner I mean they definitely having low standards to accept dirty linen of others .

No matter what redemption you do it's not justifying you being cheater.

For Fateh It's big no I mean If he didn't get truth out of Jas then He was happy to spend night with Jasmin in his house when Tejo is struggling. By showing Angad is bad you can't show Fateh in good light.

Absolutely even Fateh came back to Tejo as he realized that jasmine never loved him truly.If jasmin didn’t do all those things in her insecurity he would have never left her.So tejo is Fateh’sguilt not love.He and his family specially khusbeer is equally selfish as jasmin.Tejo is also stupid it was shown during Fateh and jasmin fake wedding track that she actually cares for her sister when Fateh left jasmin she even did not bother and then she is showing her love for Fateh .Jasmin is immature and shallow character but still she do what she says.

Originally posted by: Chir-Cute

Interesting points you guys. 😊

While I have never had second thoughts on forgiving a person if I felt that they genuinely mean well after apologising. Taking them back or making them my part of life has been the challenging part. Of course, it's all about the choices of the individuals about how they decide to go about that as well but, I for one noticed that I can never see them in the same light as before. Trusting them again, is totally another story altogether. I had my fair share of heartbreak due to being cheated on especially when the core foundation of the relationship had been based on the trust that if ever, one of us felt that the relationship was not working, we could talk about it and part amicably without causing unnecessary hurt to another. Nevertheless, shit happened. It's been years since that and I no longer have any grudge against that person. I have always maintained cordial relations with him due to our very close-knit friends' circle and also because we knew each other's families, so that too. I knew he tried his best to begin afresh and bounce back in my life by constantly proving that he had changed, and while I respected the change he brought in himself a certain part of me didn't budge at all. Like @Ashviniv said, it was no longer a matter of love, it became a matter of self-respect.

As for redemption, definitely, the cheating party decides how to go about it. Getting forgiveness is the victim partner's choice and how they go on from there is absolutely them and no one else with or without forgiveness.

The point being of that little TB, I just wanted to know what goes into the minds of the other partner, if and when they do decide to give the cheating partner a 2nd chance. Is it just a choice, love or something else? Let's assume that finance, children etc are not the factors here. I am just trying to understand that mindset. I am not even sure if what am asking for even makes sense. Had you been Tejo, what would have been your line of action?

Sorry to hear ur past heart break but happy u moved on. But not everyone can.

I think the will power inside the person is most important factor

How hard they can push themselves to move on.

Those with stronger will power they are determined to move on no matter what .

Those who have weaker will power finds it difficult.

Differs individually.

In tejo's case , she loves fateh. Earlier was one sided. Now there's a difference. It's both sided.

Most importantly fateh repented for the EMA but he needs to improve further . More independent and more stronger.

If tejo marries another guy she won't be happy and also shown not able to move on. So better she unites with the man she loves but not too soon. Send him on a roller coaster ride first after what she went through.

I always believe in second chance if the person accepts his mistake and tried to rectify the situation no matter how horrible his mistake was. At least he accept it . That's more important

So she can give him a second chance . After all he is a good human . Thousand times better than her own sister.

That clown need to be sent to the moon

Originally posted by: Meher_

I think if someone take you back. That person is a very strong-minded and compassionate enough to give you a second chances, don't abuse it. It's not a weakness to love your spouse unconditionally we are human that's where the weakness is we have urges and needs we need to be able to Communicate all are needs to our spouse partners or significant others God Bless you all

I hope it works out for them.

Reconciliation is a beautiful thing, and I have seen couples successfully navigate this. I am glad for them.

But I don’t think it is easy, and I don’t think reconciliation is always the right answer it always depends on your own circumstances and experience, nobody should/can help it this.

It is only them who has right to decide what they want and what they need and how they can trust back.

My god every time I accidentally see a scene of Fateh & Tejo together I want to throw up! I seriously cannot watch them together especially when they try to act romantic 🤢 In my eyes there is no redemption for fateh because he cheat her with her sister! that's the worst kind of backstabbing.

Ideal world no one would go back to the cheater wether intentional or not . But this is tv series where they have an audience who don’t believe in such value or logic so If you are wAtching you should not think about such theories and wait for what happens next sequence.