Does cheating have redemption? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Aniash

Well written on the situations.👍 It differs individually.

But for fatejo part i will disagree . Pardon me for that. Just my pov.

they were not written well with jasfa glorified too much. That's the reason why people find it difficult to accept them fully

On top of that jasmin non stop interference.

Tejo and angad were written beautifully initially so they garned a lot of attention but unfortunately the writers ruined them with fake engagement crap. Should have made it a short simple beautiful journey. He becomes her supporter and then leave. Another relationship wasn't required too fast.

The problem is they rush into things . Greedy for trps. Now face the consequences.

I like fatejo those days before EMA . I still like their chemistry but i need a strong story to ship them again.

They need to restart the jodi onc e again so viewers can accept them fully

I don't think hardcore fan of tejo and angad ever accept crappy couple ftejo

Originally posted by: Aniash

When i started watching this show i shipped Fatejo. After the EMA and the weak tejo and short fateh's redemption with sudden kvg butchering, i lost interest.

I don't know why but i find tejo written as a hypocrate . Say something else does something else. At least jasmin stick to what she says. No matter how evil she is, she stands strong. The one who was shown dependent is more independent now and the one showed independent , strong with full of self respect has become weak and dependent on others for emotional support.

The turnaround of characters. That's what the writers been doing all the while

The members who are happy with their reunion are cheering up in the forum when they used to bash fateh for the EMA but now are willing to ship them again.

That's their choice . No problem in that. Everyone has their liking.

But i have a question in mind

What if they went through what tejo did, will they still accept fateh in the first place??? They bash kvg like no body's business stating fateh is hotter and more charming . Will they return to their hot husband after his EMA with their own sister??

When i look at it . Wow , just wow.

There is so much difference in fiction and reality.

Only women who actually go through this knows the pain and sufferings. They won't only have sweet memories but more bitter memories of the. betrayal.

Here a strong independent woman is having sweet memories of her cheater ex and still rooting for him after all that happened between them forgetting her big talks of self respect.

The truth is itvs made a mockery of women's emotions and self respect.

Now i will watch to see how they reunite fatejo. If they give a good story i will carry on watching otherwise gonna drop it. There are other new serials coming.

I don't think they will be able to keep up with trps that long without a strong plot just with major twists and turns .

well said ani

only emotionally weak of dependency in any circumstances like ashviniv narrated cheater husband can be accepted. someone was saying that now love is from both side then its acceptable no its not like that or one couldn't move on in their life over first love. no need to shed buckets of tear for whole lifetime for cheater as per me. others thinking may differ.

they made all characters turn around for fatejo story. even KSV once i liked very much was butcher for his raja beta pyar. each n every character of both families done things for their selfish reasons covered under their so called tejo prem. only jasso was openly deed all things for herself. even angad character of good friend turned into psycho lover. only tejo maata left to do her mahaanta. stop butchering all characters kismet ki dor jaldi se kheech lo yaar and ek kar do fatejo ko. torture to khatam ho viewers ka

a former friend of mine cheated his wife for 6 years

he was a narcissist, lied to the gf about his wife fighting sickle cell anemia n dying soon so she wouldnt leave him

the day his son was born(gf had no idea he had a kid on the way) blocked and cut her out saying I love my wife

right after he went and confessed to his wife about his EMA

now its been 7 years and they live happily ever after lol

so yeah mahaan women forgive and forget, apparently she told him he can go back and start a new life with his gf if he wasn't happy but she gave him a choice I would never have

I don't see anything in black and white as I firmly believe that every couple is different and the right and wrong and boundaries are set by them. There is no set template for a relationship. Yes certain things are wrong regardless of a relationship and cheating is one of those things. Fateh hurt tejo badly and she moved away from him because of that. Jasmine whom he cheated with on tejo brought him down as a person so much that he couldn't face himself and that was needed for fateh to be free from jasmine mentally forever. If you guys remember, fateh was so deeply and blindly in love with jasmine that it was disturbing many times. He was gonna give up his life, family, dreams for jasmine which is not a healthy start for any relationship. People can see that as a sign of love but imo one has to have the space to do things that make them happy too. Anyways, him seeing jasmine for who she is burned all his love for her and now there is no way he can ever fall for her and now he truly understands tejo's importance in his life. Tejo went away from fateh and that gave her time to think and have some space to breath and truly ponder on what she wants. Its not a matter of self-respect here as I keep seeing in so many posts and frankly its annoying to read such black and white views. If tejo didn't leave him initially I would say she has no self-respect as she would have chosen to stay with someone who doesn't value her or love her or respect her. If tejo had decided to move on with angad or stayed alone it would have been okay too. If she has decided to move past all her hurt, anger and pain and give another chance , that needs a lot of strength as it requires her to open her heart to the same person who crushed it so badly in past. It is still okay at this point but makers have to have the brains to pull this off by going slow and not rush them and show that everything is fine now.

Originally posted by: Chir-Cute

I have a curious question. A lot of us have talked about Fateh and his proper redemption etc, but, my question is, does cheating on your partner actually have any sort of redemption? Cheating is a choice, never a mistake so does it really have redemption? If so, what form of redemption are we talking about? Thoughts on this please.

Also, clean discussion will be much appreciated 🙏

I absolutely agree with you I don't think I ever forgive someone who do adultery. It's crime and you can't change the fact that it happened with willingness of person. It's not like you killed someone in self defense.

The most important thing how can people forgive cheating partner I mean they definitely having low standards to accept dirty linen of others .

No matter what redemption you do it's not justifying you being cheater.

For Fateh It's big no I mean If he didn't get truth out of Jas then He was happy to spend night with Jasmin in his house when Tejo is struggling. By showing Angad is bad you can't show Fateh in good light.

Originally posted by: Ashviniv

Hey awesome..i was searching for this clip for ages...i now have saved it. thanks again

Yes its actually a good difference between the FLs of 2 serials.. Here Deepika was in a loving relationship for almost 3-4 years. everything was perfect between them and where he tried to dictate her life and crush her dream she refused to marry just days before the ceremony and in turn got disowned by family and parents itana ki her dad died and no one informed her. she did all this for her right to choose and right to live her life with respect.

I got hooked to UD because i thought Tejo be like this with all big big dialogues. it was such a shame to ruin what could have been a kickA** FL in ITV

fingers crossed they dont butcher Deepika

italic. the tejo in those 3 to 4 ep where awesome...her speech nd all about self respect but now its so boring to watch...

its sad shows like dhadkan gets 0.2 trp while some crap shows get

bold. ur most welcome😊

Originally posted by: kaninikabasuray

I hope they will restart Fatejo story.

Me too

Hopefully with olden days

I can't forget that scootie scene 🤣🤣🤣

I don’t think he can redeem himself, especially with the brutal way he hurt Tejo. Now you have to revisit Fatejo because that is where the TRPs are. The first time they were together was not by choice, and eventually it was one sided. Now you have to make Fateh’s love one sided, tell more stories and then maybe a female other than Jasmine interested in Fateh. Finally Tejo will realize her love again and they’ll get together. It’s obvious they are the endgame, even though we know Jasmine won’t go away. But his time Fateh has realized his love and he has to work for Tejo. I think it will be interesting to see Fateh trying to win her back while fighting off the always evil Jasmine and newly evil Angad!

Originally posted by: LoLo

I don’t think he can redeem himself, especially with the brutal way he hurt Tejo. Now you have to revisit Fatejo because that is where the TRPs are. The first time they were together was not by choice, and eventually it was one sided. Now you have to make Fateh’s love one sided, tell more stories and then maybe a female other than Jasmine interested in Fateh. Finally Tejo will realize her love again and they’ll get together. It’s obvious they are the endgame, even though we know Jasmine won’t go away. But his time Fateh has realized his love and he has to work for Tejo. I think it will be interesting to see Fateh trying to win her back while fighting off the always evil Jasmine and newly evil Angad!

Yep

I mentioned this as well

The love is both side so it does make a difference now

He accepted and repented. That matters more

They ruined fatejo earlier.

They should write them well this time.

For trps , need to wait and see .

Reason

Some viewers not happy with the short redemption after four months EMA. They expected better

They rushed into everything lately . So the tracks are not digestable. Messy writing. Turnaround of characters. Viewers are left confused. Too much to handle in a short period of time.

Fatejo lost their charm due to the EMA. Some viewers can still accept them coz of their chemistry others can't .

They were likeable as one of the most favourite jodi . Now we have to see if viewers like their reunion. There are some trp aunties or audience that would have preferred tejang.

Need to wait and see.

Does this show know the meaning of redemption versus whitewashing? Hero versus villian? Gaslighting versus true love?

Answer khud hi khud mil jayega.