Did Tejo ever loved Fateh? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Lovelydutt

Say that you hate Tejo and go lol!

Stay happy with your favourite ibaadat couple and their toxic romance🤣

Lol you might want to check their post history.

Heaven has no rage like love to hatred turned, nor hell a fury like a women scorned ..I guess willam congreve

Love is not something we give or get as a thing it is a feeling that is slowly watered and flowered... betrayal acts as cutting off the roots ...here it is more painful since one is man she has started to love ans other is the person she has given her life for.

It's perverse pleasure now to make them beg , until she sees jas and fa colours unravel..to see them feel the humiliation and then walk away.

Just becoz u loved once does not mean it does not hurt or unr self respect becomes less imp

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

Heaven has no rage like love to hatred turned, nor hell a fury like a women scorned ..I guess willam congreve

Love is not something we give or get as a thing it is a feeling that is slowly watered and flowered... betrayal acts as cutting off the roots ...here it is more painful since one is man she has started to love ans other is the person she has given her life for.

It's perverse pleasure now to make them beg , until she sees jas and fa colours unravel..to see them feel the humiliation and then walk away.

Just becoz u loved once does not mean it does not hurt or unr self respect becomes less imp

Do you think dts going to happen ?

Do you think Tejo will walk away after she has seen the two pay for their deeds .

Dese days it seems Tejo herself is also subjected to humilaition ....all thanks to Fateh !! The guy is ready to abandon his whole family for Jasmine once more.......such a pathetic and spineless character Fateh is. And Tejo is being emotionally blackmailed to save such a person. That in itself is humiliating. D person who cheated on her , who ditched his entire family in the name of love , put down his family's reputation infront of the whole world willingly.........Tejo has to save him ??? And for what exactly???

I stopped watching the show when she went back to the house. Very typical track and the cvs just want her to suffer. I have to say that when I did watch the scenes when she found out about their affair. She was very calm she is did not look like a person who was deeply in love.yes she was pain, she was hurt bt something was missing for me. It was just a terrible betrayel. One has to ask whether she fell for fateh simply coz they were married or whether it could have happened naturally. I am waiting to see her new guy know he is gona be special.

But back to your topic all 3 leads for me dnt know the meaning of love and neither are they in love with one another.All I see is ego and their zidd nothing else. So for me tejo does not love fateh she just wants him to see the true face of jasmine bt its not her problem she should stay out of it coz I think even fateh deep down knows what jas is and accepts her.

Tejo is not keeping fateh in a toxic relation. He started it. and when we love someone with a passion, we also hate that person with the same passion.

tejo loves fateh immensely. Now that he has hurt her, she wants to hurt him back. But, she still loves him and wants to save him from pain that even he cannot see.

Also, all things said and done about self respect, tejo is also human, and she surely would have a slight hope that fateh will come back to her. she is not a robot, to turn off her feelings in 1 day. it will take time. and till then she will keep swinging between her love and self respect. One day one emotion will be more powerful than the other, and the next day, the other emotion.

I believe Tejo did love Fateh that's why she is so hurt about all this cheating. She is a straightforward person. Like she told Fateh that had he just told her before that he loved Jasmine, she would have left him. I think she is immensely hurt and thus lashing out in anger. When the anger recedes, she will realise that it is better to leave Jasmine & Fateh in their own toxic mess.

Originally posted by: AwaamKiJaan

Those who love someone don't take revenge on that person when he/she rejects your love.

Where is the mahanta of Tejo now?

Why is she not giving Fateh divorce instead keeping him in a toxic relationship, which is not only making Fateh and Jasmin suffer, but also Fateh's family along with her?

Is it her ego which is making her want to make Fateh suffer? That means Tejo is no goddess. She's egotistical just like Jasmin. And if she's not giving him divorce because internally she still hopes that Fateh would come to her one day, then she has no self-respect.

The so-called heroine of this show is either egotistical or a doormat. Nothing else!

Heya! Hello back to everyone as well. i had stopped watching the show but caught a episode late last week. the beizzatti of every culprit of tejo's life including indirect ones like her family and the virks is very satisfying i must say so binged the last week before as well. good stuff and honestly no complaints.

now coming to author's post-

1) did she love fateh? yes...no...who cares? what matters is that she did every single duty by him and kept all her commitments. he did not keep his end of the bargain. the human to human relationship is bound by a code of keeping our words to each other in a social contract which tejo fulfilled and fateh did not. if he had 'rejected her love' prior to making the contract with her then it would be revenge. now it is penalty which is what you suffer from when you break the human to human contract. contrary to popular belief of entitled minds- we cannot just do what we want.

2) where is the mahanta of tejo? gone. she's become bad to the people who did bad to her. she's being like a normal person. isn't that everyones problem- bohut zyada mahan banti hain. so she's being petty now. problem solved. BUT being mahan is not what makes tejo better than fateh and jasmine. fateh and jasmine are actively bad people so just being somewhat ok would automatically qualify her as a better person and the character to root for.

3) why is she not giving fateh divorce instead of keeping him in toxic relationship making everyone miserable? why not? if she is miserable despite being the least guilty party then why should she leave others in peace? being a good person and trying to minimize other people's pain when they have pained you is not the same thing. she should spread the misery around till she's over it and then walk out with a divorce. why give them a free reign whilst she's miserable?

4) Is it her ego which is making fateh suffer? sure lets go with that theory...but so what? again why is it her obligation to make fateh's suffering less? when someone hurts you and you want to hurt them back- thats ok. the difference between tejo and jasmine is that tejo hurting them (keeping with the underlying assumption here) is provoked normal human reaction and jasmine's lash out at tejo is unprovoked and simply her being unable to take the consequences of her actions. normal people lash out at people who hurt them and bad people lash out at people for no damn reason. jasmine is the latter to the comparison again is moot.

5) Maybe she wants fateh back? Maybe she does...so what? fateh is her husband. and agreed he is a dirt bag that she should in no way want back but may be she has bad taste. does that mean she has no self-respect? no. the definition of self-respect is not in letting people who pain you live in peace. self respect is also in fighting for what is rightfully yours- whether that is fateh himself, the status of his wife, the virk house and family- thats on tejo to decide. taking a difficult stance for what you are owed is not being a doormat.

now that i have hopefully tried to answer the topic maker's burning queries, my own two cents. to me it seems like this post is trying to draw some false equivalencies between tejo and jasfa as if in some way tejo is just as bad. my apologies to the TM if that is not the intention and i'm misreading.

now i do not agree with much of tejo's decisions and giving into emotional manipulation but on no known earth is tejo in any way as bad as fateh who simply lacks morals and prioritization skills in life or jasmine who has pathologically low self esteem and is in need of medical intervention. if you are, or if anyone is a jasfa fan- guys there is nothing wrong with that but stop trying to moralize them and accept them the way they are. there are many cool 'wrong' couples in shows out there whom you end up rooting for more than the 'good' couple or the 'endgame' or whatever- one of my favourites in the world of the married is han so hee. she is cool cos she's shameless and fun. doesn't make her right or good nor will i try to draw moral equivalencies. you like bad people? you like them. its ok. but perhaps stop claiming some moral 'goodness' in your choice? not dictating, just stating options.

Originally posted by: tejaswiniwenham

Heya! Hello back to everyone as well. i had stopped watching the show but caught a episode late last week. the beizzatti of every culprit of tejo's life including indirect ones like her family and the virks is very satisfying i must say so binged the last week before as well. good stuff and honestly no complaints.

now coming to author's post-

1) did she love fateh? yes...no...who cares? what matters is that she did every single duty by him and kept all her commitments. he did not keep his end of the bargain. the human to human relationship is bound by a code of keeping our words to each other in a social contract which tejo fulfilled and fateh did not. if he had 'rejected her love' prior to making the contract with her then it would be revenge. now it is penalty which is what you suffer from when you break the human to human contract. contrary to popular belief of entitled minds- we cannot just do what we want.

2) where is the mahanta of tejo? gone. she's become bad to the people who did bad to her. she's being like a normal person. isn't that everyones problem- bohut zyada mahan banti hain. so she's being petty now. problem solved. BUT being mahan is not what makes tejo better than fateh and jasmine. fateh and jasmine are actively bad people so just being somewhat ok would automatically qualify her as a better person and the character to root for.

3) why is she not giving fateh divorce instead of keeping him in toxic relationship making everyone miserable? why not? if she is miserable despite being the least guilty party then why should she leave others in peace? being a good person and trying to minimize other people's pain when they have pained you is not the same thing. she should spread the misery around till she's over it and then walk out with a divorce. why give them a free reign whilst she's miserable?

4) Is it her ego which is making fateh suffer? sure lets go with that theory...but so what? again why is it her obligation to make fateh's suffering less? when someone hurts you and you want to hurt them back- thats ok. the difference between tejo and jasmine is that tejo hurting them (keeping with the underlying assumption here) is provoked normal human reaction and jasmine's lash out at tejo is unprovoked and simply her being unable to take the consequences of her actions. normal people lash out at people who hurt them and bad people lash out at people for no damn reason. jasmine is the latter to the comparison again is moot.

5) Maybe she wants fateh back? Maybe she does...so what? fateh is her husband. and agreed he is a dirt bag that she should in no way want back but may be she has bad taste. does that mean she has no self-respect? no. the definition of self-respect is not in letting people who pain you live in peace. self respect is also in fighting for what is rightfully yours- whether that is fateh himself, the status of his wife, the virk house and family- thats on tejo to decide. taking a difficult stance for what you are owed is not being a doormat.

now that i have hopefully tried to answer the topic maker's burning queries, my own two cents. to me it seems like this post is trying to draw some false equivalencies between tejo and jasfa as if in some way tejo is just as bad. my apologies to the TM if that is not the intention and i'm misreading.

now i do not agree with much of tejo's decisions and giving into emotional manipulation but on no known earth is tejo in any way as bad as fateh who simply lacks morals and prioritization skills in life or jasmine who has pathologically low self esteem and is in need of medical intervention. if you are, or if anyone is a jasfa fan- guys there is nothing wrong with that but stop trying to moralize them and accept them the way they are. there are many cool 'wrong' couples in shows out there whom you end up rooting for more than the 'good' couple or the 'endgame' or whatever- one of my favourites in the world of the married is han so hee. she is cool cos she's shameless and fun. doesn't make her right or good nor will i try to draw moral equivalencies. you like bad people? you like them. its ok. but perhaps stop claiming some moral 'goodness' in your choice? not dictating, just stating options.

Lol the person whose post this is, I'm sure, jasmine irl. You gotta see her history and logic.

thats totally fine! the TM is entitled to their faves! honestly i take no issues with people who like jasfa or don't like tejo or whatever. its totally on them. we can disagree, we can debate the quality or quantity or the definitions or appropriateness of their love or whatever. the TM's diversity in opinion is interesting. but i just don't understand the false moral equivalencies to rationalize the choice. these jasfa justification post cos tejo is lacking in some insignificant way is unnecessary. it awakes the lawyer in me and i then end up getting called 'triggered and rabid fan'. happened previously on this forum as well. idk why ppl who profess to believe that only love matters are so bothered with poking holes in tejo's character and taking issue with jasso's status as fateh's kept. legal status' should be irrelevant no? o

Originally posted by: tejaswiniwenham

thats totally fine! the TM is entitled to their faves! honestly i take no issues with people who like jasfa or don't like tejo or whatever. its totally on them. we can disagree, we can debate the quality or quantity or the definitions or appropriateness of their love or whatever. the TM's diversity in opinion is interesting. but i just don't understand the false moral equivalencies to rationalize the choice. these jasfa justification post cos tejo is lacking in some insignificant way is unnecessary. it awakes the lawyer in me and i then end up getting called 'triggered and rabid fan'. happened previously on this forum as well. idk why ppl who profess to believe that only love matters are so bothered with poking holes in tejo's character and taking issue with jasso's status as fateh's kept. legal status' should be irrelevant no? o

Oh I'm absolutely on board with people having different opinions, or liking some grey characters. However just throwing all rationale, logic or common sense just to fit your liking is... Absurd. I happen to know this about this person because I've had arguments with them. Just to give you an idea, this person maintained that jassu's false accusations weren't wrong. In their eyes, she's right.