THE EMA HAD TO HAPPEN & FINALLY FATEH IS GETTING OVER JASMINE !!

----------------OK I AM RANTING !!!! ------

BUT NO-ONE HERE IN AUSTRALIA UNDERSTANDS MY OBESSION WITH THIS INDIAN SERIES, ESPECIALLY AS I DONT SPEAK A WORD OF INDIAN/HINDI !! :) -----

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YES I HATED SEEING FATEH GET ALL LOVEY DOVEY WITH JASMINE !!! YES I HATED FATEH !!! YES I FELT BAD FOR TEJO !! ...BUT IT HAD TO HAPPEN FOR FATEH TO BE ABLE TO TRULY GET OVER JASMINE ONCE AND FOR ALL , AND TO BE ABLE TO GIVE HIS WHOLE HEART TO TEJO ... !!!

Those who say he was emotionally cheating on Tejo, blah, blah...The day he got married to Tejo while he was in love with Jasmine, he was ALREADY EMOTIONALLY cheating on her.

He married Tejo while he was still in love/infatuated with Jasmine, yes Tejo knew it, but it was still cheating emotionally, big deal if Tejo knew it, he was in love with Jasmine AND Tejo and everybody else knew it too. !!

Though Fateh gave it a good shot, trying to get over Jasmine, it was never going to happen without him seeing, interacting and experiencing with the REAL Jasmine.

........The Guy was literally Jasmine's slave, and she treated him indifferently, he was the one constantly chasing her. In his head Jasmine was the this "Pretty, Naughty but Innocent, Exciting Little Fairy" whose behaviour was indulged and supported by all those around her - her family, friends and especially by her grandmother and Tejo..... And Fateh just joined the adoring crowd of “Jasmine Worshippers”.

I didn't want Fateh to just forget Jasmine, just because she wasn't there at that moment OR replace Jasmine with Tejo as a poor second choice:

· FIRSTLY, - he would ALWAYS be thinking and secretly longing/wishing/hoping for his perfect first & exciting love Jasmine and

· SECONDLY - Doesn't Tejo deserve to be loved whole-heartly as a"First and Only" choice.?

So all those moaning and groaning about cheating and an emotional EMA, marrying while you love someone else IS a cheating emotional EMA , whether you ACT on it or NOT, it’s STILL an emotional EMA!

So without Fateh going back to Jasmine and getting to know the REAL JASMINE (THISTIME without Tejo covering Jasmine's bad behaviour and guiding/steering her to be have and treat Fateh correctly) HOW was he EVER going to have his ROSE-TINTED BLINKERS REMOVED to see the REAL Jasmine - a vain, nasty, mean selfish young woman who only cared about her own happiness, and didn't care who she used to achieve her goals.

SO WHILE I HATED-HATED seeing FATEH with Jasmine and hearing him say "ILOVE YOU, and all that hugging and touching , it had to happen. ☹ ☹

His saving grace was that he NEVER ACTUALLY OR EVEN TRIED to KISS her, AND Jasmine certainly tried to take it further many-many times !!!

When they were hiding behind that tree, and she was trying to kiss him, and he never even noticed, and when he finally did, he had a FB of Tejo, and quickly pulled away. So we have to give him some small credit there........ after all Fateh is meant to be a top sports person, a prize boxer, and those type of people to be successful HAVE to be very competitive !!

So gaining Jasmine's love was always a MAJOR CHALLENGE for him, and he never did quiet achieve it, even though she had agreed to marry him. So after being so publicly humiliated and rejected by Jasmine, to have her now so aggressively pursue him and say she loved him more than her Canadian dream, must have given Fateh’s competitive spirit and ego much satisfaction !! ANYONE Male or Female would have felt vindicated, NO MATTER how GOOD a person you are.

-----------------NEXT TRACK-----WHAT I WOULD LIKE TO SEE HAPPEN NOW-- ----

Tejo to ABSOLUTELY BLAST him, SOHE CAN FEEL how much he has hurt her with his betrayal. BUT then say calmly “I am going to give you your dream...... A divorce & my blessings for you and Jasmine to have a proper relationship and spend time together.

But not Divorce straight away, say after the official launch of the Gym club, and so the families can be told & reduce the shame if Jasmine’s 2ndnon-marriage.

And in the meantime, Jasmine can also move into Fateh's house, so to outsider's she will still be seen as Tejo's sister only, but to the family as Fateh's future wife/girlfriend.

So then, Fateh ( & his evil mum & aunty) can enjoy - ( see the diff of compared to Tejo)

· Jasmines cooking, (no more of Tejo's lovely food ad special lunches)

· the sharing of Housework chores - ie. her untidiness, laziness, lack of organisation/interst etc.

· Jasmine’s bonding with his family members, esp his mean mother and aunty hehehe

· Jasmines "caring" actions of love (the opposite of Tejo's concern takes care she used to give Fateh).

· Jasmines support and help with HIS goals & dreams with the Gym (or lack off 😊 )

And then I want to see Tejo

1. ignoring Fateh,
2. and moving on with her life
3. making new friends
4. changing her clothes (from aunty style to young profession goddess) and
5. then work closely preparing for the launch party and gym with that cute "financial backer" that was interested in her. ---Because he would have been told, that Fateh and her are just "friends" and it was a marriage contract only, and that now they will divorce as Fateh will be marrying her sister.

I want Fateh to be hounded by an ever-increasing obsessive Jasmine (in her lovely joker-clown make-up) and he tries to apologise and seek Tejo to forgiveness.

I WANT FATEH TO FEEL REAL PAIN, REGRET,JEALOUSY, GREIF, LOSS. AND MORE PAIN – especially as he now misses and feels the great loss of Tejo’s friendship and love, and now see the value of the wonderful caring, loyal Tejo, who now treats him coldly & indifferently, and no more – late night noodles – he can just watch while she moves ON & UP with her life and dreams.

PS. I do want them together – BUT only AFTER he has suffered HEAPS and HEAPS and cried !! 😊

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Well I have my apprehensions regarding Chammo being at Virk house as future wife of Fattu. But then who cares I am not watching this show since last two weeks so well they can show whatever they want .

Whatever you analysed about Fateh as character is true but it does not justify him . Even if he failed to move on and fell for Chammo again , he must have told it to Tejo rather then forcing husband wife tag on himself and Tejo. Yes he forced himself on Tejo. Everytime he felt insecure and attracted to Chammo he came running to Tejo . He use to hug her , touch her all in desperation to get rid of Chammo thoughts.

Tejo never called him husband ; she called him friend ! She knew he is lost and was helping him to get control of his life. She was in no hurry. But it was Fateh who was desperate and hell bent to put that tag of husband wife on himself and Tejo. He constantly clamoured Tejo is my wife and her husband , we are life partners , she is my best half blah blah . Constantly he reminded her of that. Followed her like lost puppy. That made Tejo eventually give in and she accepted him too . Now that she has accepted him physically as well mentally as husband . Mr. Fattu i is feeling guilty 🤔

What does he want ?!

Sorry but no sorry . Fact is Fattu does not deserve Tejo. He deserves a manipulative shrewd girl like Chammo who could enslave him for life time. And he dies thinking of better life he lost .

Ps. Sorry to call Fateh Fattu and Jasmin Chammo. It's coz I love those names and feel that since characters are so despicable better use other name to hate them.

fatejo being endgame will be a tight slap to tejo

Well I hope he goes through all that you mentioned. The realisation, the difference in the sisters...etc.etc.

But Tejo does deserve better. And trust once broken can't be mended. If my husband ever cheated on me it's over. He ain't coming back into my life. You can forgive that person and move on. No need to take in cheaters in your life.

Once a cheater always a cheater just as Tejo said. It's Jasmine today, tomorrow it might be someone else, you never know with cheaters. I as a person cannot stay with a cheater so no Fatejo for me.

I cannot see Fatejo in the same light again. Once broken can be mended but the scar remains always. Tejo deserves better life partner who not only matches her intellectual level but who trust and love her unconditionally. Fateh's love is going to be conditional even if he comes back. He is not going to be back to Tejo cause she is nice lady and he loves her and blah blah but he will be back to her cause Jasmeen is not what he thought about her. So Tejo is always going to be second choice, an option for Fateh, which I don't want. What if Jasmeen is shown repenting all her mean act then will he go back again? How can anyone trust such guys.

As mentioned by you I want him to regret, I want him to suffer, I want him to repent but I don't want him to be back with Tejo. As someone mentioned above he should regret and always think what a happy life he could have lived if he had not cheated Tejo. Cheaters don't deserve happy ending cause scar of EMA always remains with the victim spouse for no fault of theirs.

O behen aaj ka episode dekh le.....sorry you don't know hindi right !

What I mean was : O sister see today's episode . How tightly Fattu is holding his Chammo. Even though you can clearly see she is blackmailing him .Fattu is a lost case . Chammo is no more his love it's his addiction. The guy needs rehab to get rid of that.

Sorry ! Dare not consider Tejo that rehab centre again She had enough . We are waiting for her to realise the truth and run .

Originally posted by: ShanUlas

O behen aaj ka episode dekh le.....sorry you don't know hindi right !

What I mean was : O sister see today's episode . How tightly Fattu is holding his Chammo. Even though you can clearly see she is blackmailing him .Fattu is a lost case . Chammo is no more his love it's his addiction. The guy needs rehab to get rid of that.

Sorry ! Dare not consider Tejo that rehab centre again She had enough . We are waiting for her to realise the truth and run .

Yes! Women are not mens rehab centres!!!

Originally posted by: Show86

Well I hope he goes through all that you mentioned. The realisation, the difference in the sisters...etc.etc.

But Tejo does deserve better. And trust once broken can't be mended. If my husband ever cheated on me it's over. He ain't coming back into my life. You can forgive that person and move on. No need to take in cheaters in your life.

Ditto!

I do NOT see any single itv show who dares to show that.... it is possible to move on!

if you got cheated... and person apologize after years of torture.... it is NOT necessary that....you must be so mahan and forgive him!!!!!!!!!!!

Show us really progressive story - that a woman can move on ... if got cheated .... there is NO U turn.... she can be self dependent and if finds better partner in future... can move on.... no need to hang on cheater/abusive/criminal partner....

Originally posted by: Ashi_Naksh

Once a cheater always a cheater just as Tejo said. It's Jasmine today, tomorrow it might be someone else, you never know with cheaters. I as a person cannot stay with a cheater so no Fatejo for me.

I cannot see Fatejo in the same light again. Once broken can be mended but the scar remains always. Tejo deserves better life partner who not only matches her intellectual level but who trust and love her unconditionally. Fateh's love is going to be conditional even if he comes back. He is not going to be back to Tejo cause she is nice lady and he loves her and blah blah but he will be back to her cause Jasmeen is not what he thought about her. So Tejo is always going to be second choice, an option for Fateh, which I don't want. What if Jasmeen is shown repenting all her mean act then will he go back again? How can anyone trust such guys.

As mentioned by you I want him to regret, I want him to suffer, I want him to repent but I don't want him to be back with Tejo. As someone mentioned above he should regret and always think what a happy life he could have lived if he had not cheated Tejo. Cheaters don't deserve happy ending cause scar of EMA always remains with the victim spouse for no fault of theirs.

@ bold - I wish makers dare to show that.....

He should see true colors of jasso after she becomes his wife... fateh and whole family except his dad & sister.... should be tortured by jasso manipulations.... all of them should regret .... for bringing jasso in house.... rest of their life....specially fateh, his mom and brother!

You know why all hating Fateh now..It's because he is cheating.. Yes..From Tejo to everyone knows he loves Jasmine during marriage..But he was always honest about it..That was not cheating..He didn't go saying I am in love with your sister but will sleep with you..Don't expect love from me..He made her to believe that he moved on by cosummating their marriage..At least should have been honest after..But didn't..

Then now with Jasmine..Going behind Tejo meeting and being intimate and all..They way he hugs her without guilty and all..Why only kiss and sleeping alone is the yardstick for cheating??? Even talking and dating without physical contact is..That's ground for divorce if I am not wrong..Would Fateh be okay if Tejo did the same??? Definitely not!!! People would have started questioning her virtue..

And Fateh cleary knows how Jasmine is, after she abonden him in the mandap..And more so when she tried to win him back..He clearly said it's her zid when she said ILU to him..But all changed just coz she burned the passport..What even!!!

He is now okay with Gippy character assinaation too.. So what more??? He is in frame of mind what ever Jasmine does in the name of love its right..

They could have chosen million other ways to make him realize how Jasmine is..Not EMA!!!

I mean who chose EMA as a mean to move on..Revenge yes..But not this..

And one can never forgive cheater..Even if they do like to release them from the burden and letting him go..But can never take them back..It will like taking a throne in their heart which slowly and silently keeps poking..