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Aslesha99

@Aslesha99

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Posted: 8 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: KUTUR
Suraj never ever made fun of Chakor..😳

Yes he did when he made fun of her with Imli behind her back in that room.

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Chasa

@Chasa

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: Aslesha99

Ok I agree we need to watch the episode before judging Chakor. Suraj didn't respect Chakor's love and her feeling during the bachua track prioritizing Imli over her. Making fun of Chakor with Imli behind her back was also wrong. Chakor felt so guilty even though Suraj was at fault during the bachua track and on top of that he decided to guilt-trip her. He also made fun of her washing jeep and making halwa actions which she did with true heart. How dare he make fun of her feelings and emotions?

I think during that track Suraj learnt a lot from the bachua track and has started to value Chakor more to the extent that he drank poison. Just because Suraj decides to talk to Imli about Chakor in such a manner doesn't make Chakor any right in talking about Suraj back in a similar manner. If someone else jumped in a well will you jump in that same well? I guess not so no need to do things similar to others if it's wrong. Just because Suraj is wrong no need for Chakor to become wrong as well, or what would be the difference between Suraj and Chakor? She will stoop down to the same level as him.

Thats what the cvs wamt..tit for tat...thays where we are heading

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AISHA GUPTA

@-Euphemia-

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Posted: 8 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: Aslesha99

Ok I agree we need to watch the episode before judging Chakor. Suraj didn't respect Chakor's love and her feeling during the bachua track prioritizing Imli over her. Making fun of Chakor with Imli behind her back was also wrong. Chakor felt so guilty even though Suraj was at fault during the bachua track and on top of that he decided to guilt-trip her. He also made fun of her washing jeep and making halwa actions which she did with true heart. How dare he make fun of her feelings and emotions?

I think during that track Suraj learnt a lot from the bachua track and has started to value Chakor more to the extent that he drank poison. Just because Suraj decides to talk to Imli about Chakor in such a manner doesn't make Chakor any right in talking about Suraj back in a similar manner. If someone else jumped in a well will you jump in that same well? I guess not so no need to do things similar to others if it's wrong. Just because Suraj is wrong no need for Chakor to become wrong as well, or what would be the difference between Suraj and Chakor? She will stoop down to the same level as him.

I second your words here that chakor misleading ajay is definitely wrong. its not right. more than it is wrong to suraj it is wrong to ajay. but for suraj and chakor relationship to become sukor the writers want chakor to go at the same level. we have no role in that.I just didn't feel odd about that dialogue though I did feel odd about many of her actions in yesterdays episode

Edited by aishagup - 8 years ago

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Aslesha99

@Aslesha99

Dazzler

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Posted: 8 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: chasa

Thats what the cvs wamt..tit for tat...thays where we are heading

What is wrong is wrong and nothing justifies that for me. Only because someone else did wrong is no justification for becoming wrong or doing wrong to someone back. I know Chakor did not speak about Suraj being "hukum ka ikka" in order to take revenge or something like that but the way she spoke unintentionally was wrong.

The tit-for tat approach will make you vulnerable to negative emotions which end you ability to think things through properly and decide if the action was worth such a reaction. As Gandhi sad "An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind" so I would never agree to the tit for tat approach.

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binivenugopal

@binivenugopal

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#25

Last track was only of misunderstandings and heart breaks and no love angle.

Though Sooraj helped Imli,it is very clear that no romantic feelings between them. Sooraj hurts Chakor and he too heart broken and Chakor too knows that Sooraj only loves her and she blames Imli for the mess the most.

But here in love triangle,Chakor not speaking up on right time

and for anyone who watched last episode, would feel why she didn't tell the truth at first place itself, if she is so sure of her feelings she will have and sharing it with Sooraj not going to change anything as she needs to clear things not him.

She is concerned more about other person's feelings will again questions her love and above all ,the precap,she says Sooraj can't live without her so she will come back to haveli and it gives u the impression that Chakor wants Sooraj only to challenge KN and instead of that if she says she loves Sooraj so she will come back to haveli would give more sense.

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Chasa

@Chasa

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: Aslesha99

What is wrong is wrong and nothing justifies that for me. Only because someone else did wrong is no justification for becoming wrong or doing wrong to someone back. I know Chakor did not speak about Suraj being "hukum ka ikka" in order to take revenge or something like that but the way she spoke unintentionally was wrong.

The tit-for tat approach will make you vulnerable to negative emotions which end you ability to think things through properly and decide if the action was worth such a reaction. As Gandhi sad "An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind" so I would never agree to the tit for tat approach.

I remember ashlesha,during the imli -suraj night scene,many including myself wanted chakor to move on to another village and live for herself and marry someone else...its not that we actually wanted that to happen but then the anger towards the duo prompted us to feel so..it eventually lead to ajay..even though the track has ended still i have that bitterness towards suraj so even if i feel chakor is wrong here,the past makes me feel for the girl that i cannot bash her...many feel the same for her and it is the duty of cvs too to make it up ..i dont want to encourage this entire scenario...its payback for suraj..more its like..its time to do damage control on suraj...

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Aslesha99

@Aslesha99

Dazzler

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Posted: 8 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: chasa

I remember ashlesha,during the imli -suraj night scene,many including myself wanted chakor to move on to another village and live for herself and marry someone else...its not that we actually wanted that to happen but then the anger towards the duo prompted us to feel so..it eventually lead to ajay..even though the track has ended still i have that bitterness towards suraj so even if i feel chakor is wrong here,the past makes me feel for the girl that i cannot bash her...many feel the same for her and it is the duty of cvs too to make it up ..i dont want to encourage this entire scenario...its payback for suraj..more its like..its time to do damage control on suraj...

I was also disgusted at the Suraj-Imli car scene the time from when the ruination of Udaan began and the show started going downhill. I remember that scene made the entire forum alive. Sometimes we don't always mean what we say and also when Suraj choose Imli over Chakor I also said I wanted a new hero etc for Chakor but never actually meant it was my anger that prompted me to say that.

There was never a proper closure to the bachua track as the entire blame went on Chakor's head while Suraj got of scot-free without any proper explanation for his actions choosing Imli over Chakor, lying to Chakor etc. I still have that anger and bitterness somewhere deep down in my heart for Suraj as well due to that.

Still whatever the past may be if Chakor does wrong I find it completely acceptable to bash her. As I said before I would never accept the tit to tat approach and this is not the way to make it up to Chakor it's wrong. You cannot justify your own wrong actions with someone elses wrong actions. There are better and more mature ways to make things up to Chakor than the tit to tat approach. Whatever the scenario is payback or damage control to Suraj I don't like it the ways there are better ways to deal with it. I know you are not encouraging the scenario.

Edited by Aslesha99 - 8 years ago

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RINKA

@R_Ritz

Rocker

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Posted: 8 years ago

#28

Hahaha yes.. The way he said that made me smile that yes our real Suraj Rajvanshi is back...

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Eatifi

@Eatifi

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: Aslesha99

Yes he did when he made fun of her with Imli behind her back in that room.

Its said "making fun" when someone makes a mockery out of you and sometimes it even leads to disrespecting the person,whatever Suraj was doing was a healthy teasing which anyone is so very much entitled to do with his/her partner...

Whatever Suraj was staying to Imli,if anyone remembers his dialogue,it can never be said to be "making Chakor's fun behind her back"...it was a very sweet gesture of him,when he said that he was just doing everything for teasing her and intentionally irritating her,coz when she is miffed she looks very nice,just follow seeing her anger expressions,he was doing everything...he was so innocent in that...

It can never said to be that 'Suraj was laughing at Chakor or making her fun along with his bidding,behind her back'

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Aslesha99

@Aslesha99

Dazzler

+ 4

Posted: 8 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: KUTUR

Its said "making fun" when someone makes a mockery out of you and sometimes it even leads to disrespecting the person,whatever Suraj was doing was a healthy teasing which anyone is so very much entitled to do with his/her partner...

Whatever Suraj was staying to Imli,if anyone remembers his dialogue,it can never be said to be "making Chakor's fun behind her back"...it was a very sweet gesture of him,when he said that he was just doing everything for teasing her and intentionally irritating her,coz when she is miffed she looks very nice,just follow seeing her anger expressions,he was doing everything...he was so innocent in that...

It can never said to be that 'Suraj was laughing at Chakor or making her fun along with his bidding,behind her back'

Rabia di Suraj was making fun of Chakor making a mockery out of her and also it was disrespectful. Chakor was filled with so much guilt even though the entire Suraj-Imli fiasco was Suraj's fault for prioritizing Imli over Chakor, hiding the truth from Chakor etc. On top of that we witness Suraj guilt-tripping Chakor which was unacceptable not right to play with someone's guilt like that.

Chakor made that halwa and distributed it to the entire village so sweetly with so much love. feelings and emotions also washed his jeep, what did she get in return? Suraj making fun of her love, feelings and emotions behind her back with his best friend? That was disrespectful to Chakor's love, feelings and emotions which were true by heart. She was genuinely trying to lessen the pain of her blaming him, and what did she get in return mockery made out of her genuine attempt?

I don't accept what Suraj did as "healthy teasing" not right to talk about your lover behind their back like that. The is a line between "healthy teasing" and being disrespectful which Suraj crossed. It is not healthy teasing to make fun of your partners love, feelings and emotions and Suraj has crossed the line of "healthy teasing".

Edited by Aslesha99 - 8 years ago

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