Suraj's Insecurity

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Posted: 8 years ago
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It's so funny how Suraj is totally insecure of Chakor and Ajay's friendship when she's never given him any reason to be. In fact, despite the fact that she believes Suraj is father of Imli's child she's totally lattoo over him, whereas for him he claims to be father of Imli's child supposedly stays in the same room with her, every time gives priority to her over Chakor but Chakor has no problem with it, in fact should have no problem with it according to Suraj's logic. I wonder how he expects things to work his way when he doesn't communicate his pov to anyone least of all to Chakor. He keeps saying she would never understand him but as he ever tried to make her see from his view point, explained it to her, communicated to her? She always has been upfront with Suraj. Her relationship with Vivaan was always been transparent to Suraj whereas Suraj chose to lie to Chakor every single time about Imli (be it the car scene or about Imli's proposal). Seem to me that there are more reasons for Chakor to doubt his love for her rather than he of her.
Also looks to me there was more of rapport between them when they were enemies. I mean the scene where KN had them hanging on the rope, how with just a nod of head Chakor let Suraj know her plan and here on Wednesday's episode Chakor tried to keep him from letting out the truth that they are together. She had to resort to slapping him? I miss that easy rapport they had how they just understood each other and how their mind works.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Didnt watch the episode...just read the update...
Suraj was way overreacting...dumbass...anyway,I for one person is glad that he got the slap...he soo deserved it..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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even I didn't watch yesterdays episode or read wu..but you are so on point about suraj taking everything for granted!! and wanting chakor to understand.

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Edited by aishagup - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Suraj's insecurity mainly from knowing that she can easily find some one better than him . Ajay fits Chakor's dream match: educated, upstanding guy and he likes her. Before Chakor forgave Suraj, he was justified in his feelings; she kept insisting that it's over between them and that she doesn't love him any more so he didn't want her to move on before she knows the truth. Of course the loophole here is that he neither tried to tell her the truth nor worked on finding the truth behind the fake reports.

Yesterday was more about Ajay than Chakor, Ajay is interested in Chakor and doesn't miss a chance to get closer to her. Chakor's decision to hide her reconciliation with Suraj from him is complicating matters further. On Wednesday he said something like he's happy he's special to her. Suraj just wants to tell him to stay way from Chakor, but in his impulsiveness he chose the wrong approach.

If Chakor slapped him when he first came, I'd say he deserved it, but this happened later after Suraj has calmed down. This was a completely different fight, he wanted to stay and be part of their plan against Ragini and she wouldn't agree. Now what would Ajay conclude out of this?

Agreed Suraj has no empathy to how Chakor felt about his confession or about sharing a room with Imli. He knows that there is nothing between him and Imli but can't see it from Chakor's prespective.

Edited by meshmesh - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Suraj has alwaysbeen the most unexpressive and introvert guy in the show..
Respect is the driving force in his relationship with Chakor from his side..
He never considered himself worthy of her,that is why it has always been his biggest insecurity that she would leave him...coz he considered himself inferior to her...

At first,he would have never moved on in his relationship with Chakor after realising his feelings,if there wouldn't have been any green signal from her side...

Suraj knows it very well,that he does'nt fits the bill of Chakor's 'it guy' from any angle,still she loves him,thats makes him proud of himself...
On the other hand,Ajay from all aspects seemed to be tailor-made made for fitting into the parameters of Chakor's perfect man...thats is why he is bound to be more than effected with Ajay presence around Chakor,moreover the extra goody behaviour and care of Ajay towards Chakor gives wind to the fire...

On the confession day also,Suraj's words clearly echoed his insecurity..."Pehle hame kisi cheez se darr nahi lagta tha,par ab hame darr lagta hai,ki tum kabhi hame chhod kar chali jaogi,aur iske peeche hamaara swaarth nahi...kyunki tumhe toh hamse behtar koi bhi mil sakta hai,jo tumhaare kaabil ho,par agar tum chali gayi,toh hum apni doosri Chakor kahaan se layenge"..

Yes maybe he overreacts,but it occurs only when the love is unmeasurable...
And if Suraj has a problem with Ajay-Chakor bonding,then it doesn't means that he distrusts Chakor,HIS PROBLEM IS AJAY...


At heart,he knows that Ajay is better than him in every manner,but never accepts it..that is why he feels him to be his competitor...

WHATEVER HE DOES IN REGARD TO THIS MATTER IS TOTALLY JUSTIFIED

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: aishagup

even I didn't watch yesterdays episode or read wu..but you are so on point about suraj taking everything for granted!! and wanting chakor to understand.

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There is no point in making Suraj understand anything coz in any case,he won't...he knows it,we know it that he is a duffer...
But if Chakor doesn't understands anything,it will be a issue coz she has all the brains in the world...

And if Suraj has taken Chakor's love for him as granted,then Chakor has taken Suraj's respect for her as granted
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Posted: 8 years ago
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But suraj babu only is worrying for his insecurity.. he doesn't t care wife insecurity... he can do anything with ex in the same roof.. but chakor couldn't make friend with ajay for few hours .. what is this? .. he is really hypocrite . but chakor is right yesterday he deserved tight slap 😔

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