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SilverLove.

@SilverLove.

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Posted: 8 years ago

#311

i dont have any problem with age gap .

about ten years different (yeah i dont have any problem with that too as i saw many couples who have 10 years age gap between them )

chakor elder than suraj (no)

i would prefer to watch suraj elder than chakor .

if sukor are in same age there is no problem for me .but i dont want chakor to be elder than suraj .(it would look like brother and sister to me)

Anyways di i am waiting for ur next story .

and thank u very much for givings us different kinds of sukor .

different suraj and different chakor . i just love them in ur story

one of my fav suraj and chakor in ur stories is

the suraj in POD (i even loved chakor in POD very much)

and chakor in flechazo .

sorry di for going off topic i just wanted to tell u .

love u a lot .

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Subi51

@Subi51

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Posted: 8 years ago

#312

Love sustains two age group to remain a couple. Tbe age group may be same or different. It has both pros and cons.

PROs

There will be two individuals who can see the situation from different point of view one with experience, another with zest of energy. If two go hand in hand the output may be great.

The older can guide better and the younger can take better care. This will be good synchronization of each other strengths.

CONs

With the rapid development in the world, the mindset of age group is different. Lack of flexibility can cause problem.

Understanding each other can take time.

Depression

Eg: I have seen a case where the early marriage of girl (13-14 yrs) to man of 26 leading to birth of child with disorder. Only gene therapy can heal it whose success chance is few percent. Hence the mother is restricted to home taking care of the child until she is alive which led to depression.

After instance is life history of Princess Diana.

I think the age gap of 1-2 yrs is good. 5 yr ok. 10 yrs acceptable. What do you think about 30yrs will they remain happy?

I totally accept if the lady is elder than the man, She will transmit her sensibility . She will be more mature. Moreover, intuition of female is always right which gives her plus point. The limit 3yr

yes sure elder Chakor accepted. I think Suraj behaves more immature than Chakor

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sonali mishra

@Shivi_forever

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Posted: 8 years ago

#313

I think age difference is not a big issue

There are many examples of them in real life

10 years age difference is common in celebrity & normal life as well

I don't mind chakor being elder to suraj

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Maithili

@maithu_

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

#314

Hello!

Here comes my POv for the 1st question:

>> What do you think about age gap between a couple (advantages or disadvantages or both)?

Age gap between a couple is okay when the couple doesn't mind about anything else than love and care.

But sometimes it may have advantages and disadvantages.

Adv:

- Maturity of the Man in the relationship: helps to see things more easily or with a more mature view

- Understanding between them: for a long term POV, like when they plan things

- Fight or argument: can be solved with open eyes

DisAdv: Same three points but in another angle.

- Maturity of the Man in the relationship: sometimes makes the Man forget the age group of his partner and her thinking style

- Understanding between them: never less anyone judge them (it's applicable for kind of relationship) as one stick of fire can burn the whole forest.

- Fight or argument: never brig the age in it as it will hurt one or the another.

So! A relationship with age gap is like any other kind of relation with its own adv and disadv.

It's how the couple handle the situation which make the difference between a happy and ageing couple and egoistic and young couple.

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Sania_suraj

@Sania_suraj

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Posted: 8 years ago

#315

Hi sis..

Rather than chat it s a new idea sis..

Let start with ur questions..

1.For me, its advantage only..

-->becoz he can guide her as a father,teacher and everything..

-->both them will have an equal respect to each other..

-->Main thing is mostly girls looks little old after giving birth to a child..if we marry a same age guy he will look handsome after tat birth of child also..then both looks like younger bro and elder sis..they ll not look like made for each other..if we marry a guy who is older than us means after the birth of the child, they looks like made for each other couple..

2. for me 5 to 10 yrs is ok..

3.It will be good to look a couple of 10yrs diff..becoz they look like made for each other as i said before..And I m eagerly waiting for this story sis..

4. No sis..I don't like the couple with young men and elder lady..it will be disgusting to see and read about tat type of couple..becoz they look like sister and brother..somehow i can accept the same age group couple..but this i can't accept..

5.No sis..I don't want chakor to be elder than suraj..It don't look nice..I can't imagine them like tat..

sorry sis..if i said anything wrong..

Tq for this session sis..

Luv u..

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Maithili

@maithu_

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Posted: 8 years ago

#316

My answer for 2nd question!

>> What can be the limit of age differences according to you?

According to me the max it can go is 5-7 years but with love and understanding and trust everything is possible.

My parents and their siblings with their own partner have almost 5 to 10 years age differences.

Seeing them, I learnt that when trust and understanding is there, along with the essential LOVE, nothing matters.

And moreover with the changing world, everything is possible and acceptable with differences of opinion which is a great thing as we come to encounter great people with super ideologies.

To add to it, we can't all think alike and if we do, we will be happy but not for a long time as there will be nothing different to hear or discover.

And life is full of surprises and I'm just waiting for mine when time comes!

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Maithili

@maithu_

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

#317

What I think about the 3 question!

>> What do you think of this story where there is 10 years of age gap?

As the writer of this story I find it different to write this concept compared to all my other stories and it's a bit challenging.

I really want to thank Nithya for giving this idea.

I'm really enjoying sketching the story by putting myself in both the leads' place and how I will react if I have their mentality and age.

Not only age gap but also the situation and circumstances play games in every relationship and that's what I try to write it.

And as you all know me, as always the story will and may have emotional tracks but not a sad one as we all love happy moments.

To add more flavor there will be shyyshy scenes of our little Lady.

Moreover, we read stories to enjoy, so trying to do that(there will be still cliffhanging end for each parts just to leave you all imagine what can happen next).

I'm just waiting to finish sketching the story line and then I'm fixed for the launch! LOL

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Maithili

@maithu_

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

#318

Tricky question 4!

>> Will you accept if the lady is elder than the man in a couple? If yes, with which limits?

Even if I'm from a conservative family, my surroundings and environment is different and westernized.

So my answer is Yes. For me it's normal.

The people who are in the relationship are the one who had to decide and accept themselves.

When LOVE is there nothing to fear and that is what matters.

But to be honest, I'm not that much of westernized too.

If that happens to me, I may think and rethink billion times just for my family sake.

And the limits might be few months to 1 or 2 years as I will think about the acceptance of my parents even if I don't care about anyone else than them.

So I really don't know where I stand.

May be circumstances will help me to choose if I'm in that kind of situation.

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Maithili

@maithu_

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

#319

Last question's answer tomorrow!

As I want to see what you think about the idea!

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Eatifi

@Eatifi

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

#320

So now its my turn...you are already aware of my views regarding this topic,so only I am needed to elaborate..

First of all,I must say amazing questions..

I am never really thought about it,so I have little knowledge about it,I will be just answering the questions keeping myself in mind

Coming to the answers-

1.Advantages and disadvantages of a big age gap

Nothing in this world is homogeneous,and so a big age gap has its own pros and cons..

The pros-I have a very strong wish that my partner needs to be mature and intellectual,and a big age gap will certainly fulfill thus criteria,actually almost every girl is a princess to her father,and dreams to be the queen of her husband,as its the girl who has to leave her home after marriage,she wants to be pampered and taken care of,a big age gap would ensure that as well,moreover financial stability is very necessary that only an elderly man can provide,an age gap will always provide room for two different perspectives at one issue,fruitful for both parties,an age gap is actually the real bliss of marital life were two people never seeming to have get along live a life together sharing everything,it doesn't comes up when two people are of the same age...Actually the real thing is AT THE TIME OF ADVERSITIES,ALL YOU NEED IS TO REST YOUR HEAD ON HIS SHOULDER WITHOUT UTTERING A WORD...IT PROVIDES AN UNEXPLAINABLE FEELING OF SECURITY,I DON'T THINK SO THAT THE SECURITY WOULD BE FELT IF THE TWO ARE OF THE SAME AGE..

The cons-clash of opinions because of the different ages may happen,and also the hold of the elder one may turn out to be dominating,and if one dominates in a relationship without any consent,then it becomes a suffocation...this two are the only cons that I can see..

2.My idea of age gap-

The least should be two and the highest should be ten..personally I truly want my hubby to be 5 years elder to be...its perfect for me...

Only then I could be comfortable with him to strike a chord,any less then that I will take him very lightly,any more I will end up feeling shy to open up with my feelings...

3.My take on ten years age gap-

I already told that personally I never want that...but ten years gap is not something very unacceptable,as I have seen many couples of that age gap...one being my parents

The only issue that I see in having this much age gap,is the uncomfort in opening up fully...but then anything is possible when the relationship is held up by the divine feeling of love...so ten years age gap is not a issue for me in WWW,its just that we will get a much held back Sukor contrary of EMI..

4.What if the lady is elder to the man-

In the changing dynamics of the society,anything is acceptable...personally I never want to be elder to my hubby...

But if their is true and genuine love between the two..its good as NOTHING IN THIS UNIVERSE IS GREATER THAN THE FEELING OF LOVE...

But the woman should be only one to two years elder,not more than that,coz a woman's age is visible much more earlier than the man,so in order for the couple to look good,the woman should be elder only for one or two years...

5.My take on your idea-

As I always say,any out of the box concept always excites me...but I cant think Chakor to be elder to Suraj,as my mind is etched with the images of real Sukor...so its hard to imagine for me...but then if you really write something like that,it would definitely be interesting...so I am confused about it...need some time to sort myself out...

DID RABBI MADE HERSELF CLEAR TO MAITHILI????

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