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❤️ "MOHABBAT EK EHSAASON KI PAAVAN SI KAHAANI HAI,
KABHI KABIRA DEEWANA THA,KABHI MEERA DEEWANI HAI
MERI AANKHON MEIN AANSUN HAI YAHAAN PAR LOG KEHTE HAI,
JO TU SAMJHE TO MOTI HAI,JO NA SAMJHE TOH PAANI HAI...!"❤️
HELLO Friends,back with part III,after a week,and today in this one i will be discussing the 'different forms of love'.While going through forum topics i wonder that many really dont understand or rather dislike imvaan's love story,actually i dont get that,Why?
So guys lemme get a hand in expalining that from my point of view,and i'll be also discussing vikor's love story as well...so lets go...
OK,"LOVE",the feeling that makes the world survive,the feeling that resides everywhere,the feeling that can make you do anything.There are many kind of love-parental love,sibling love,friends love,materialistic love etc,etc...put the one kind of love that really tests u,brings out your true inner self is indeed "ROMANTIC LOVE".Now i am going to give my very own personal creation,a speech on the different forms of romantic love,{i swear i have given this one several times in front of my siblings,cousins and friends and they simply loved that}.And one more thing that i would like to mention one more thing that i'll be explaining everything with references,[i believe things are better understood with examples],and for doing that i'll be using my examples from SRK'S movies,[come on guys,i have already admitted this in part I that i am an srk fanatic,for me he just defines romance]...
So,"LOVE IS NOT THAT EASY,AND IT NEVER WAS..!"...we all in our everyday lives here some one or the other claiming to be in love,crying or complaining about its nuances,some are just content with their status in love,blah blah...But very few i guess really get to understand the phenomenon,very few can really enjoy love in its true and purest form.I believe that every individual's love can be easily be categorized in the 4 different forms,which i am going to mention,according to me love exists in 4 forms,i am not saying "stage",its "forms",and they are-
1.PASAND-
simply called liking,its the most common case which perhaps everyone encounters,mostly during their teenage,its that form where sometimes liking for one's physical attributes leads to liking of some personal attitudes as well,and sometimes liking for some personal traits leads liking to looks as well.One person may have a countable number of such flings and this form is totally passe.A very rare case is seen where merely liking leads to some serious relations as well.The feeling is truly genuine and one can easily get over it...
Ex-srk's feelings for Chandramukhi in the movie,'Devdas'
2.PYAAR-
the second form,which really drives u crazy,when this form of love is at its peak an individual ends up doing something very unexpected,but in due course of time as the highness fizzles,one generally regrets it.This form really takes on u completely but still some amount of brain is left within you.If the feeling of 'pyar',is further heightened,then its cool.But if for some reason,some kinda obstacle comes in between,one may have to think twice before doing anything thats worth testing.If one encounters a heartbreak,then time and patience is really required to get over it,it takes time,but if by destiny one once comes across again the same kinda feelings with anybody else then yes,"PYAR DOBAARA HO SAKTA HAI"...and even further more times,its just matter of feelings and not person...
Ex-srk's Rahul's feelings for his first wife Tina in the movie,'Kuch kuch hota hai'.
3.MOHABBAT-
the third one,its that form which i believe that one in 100 people comes across,its that form where love is experienced in its much more intensified and passionate manner,when it starts u really feel on the top of of the world and if due to some kinda misfortune this feeling is not allowed to ignite,then their is 'Heartbreak','Complete nervous breakdown'.Yes this feeling is responsible for the numerous 'love meniacs' or "Devdas".But if life gives you a second chance then yes "MOHABBAT BHI DOBAARA HO SAKTI HAI",but not further and its very rare or rather hard to experience it for the second time,ITS VERY PAINFUL...individuals who encounters this form of love are the extraordinary ones,they have their own set of conflicting and complex emotions and one may reall have to play very hard i order to get the core of it.
Ex-srk's Suri feelings for Taani in the movie,'Rab ne bana di jodi'.
4.ISHQ-
Now this form is experienced by one in 1000,or i should say one in lakhs or crores.It really consumes your entire heart and soul,leaving a gaping void within you,and even the person is also least bothered about the consequences.Individuals under this form have an entire different world of their own or they are just completely out of the world.The 'love at first sight' come under this one,people who do ishq are the actual 'psychos',once they are in the clutches they just think of nobody,not even of themselves,no restrictions,no facts,no logics,no relations,no terms for them...Its that kind of love that ordinary person has the guts...and mind you guys,,"ISHQ SIRF EK BAAR HI HOTA HAI"...aur jab hota hai to na rihaai deta hai na koi qaid...
Ex-srk's-preity's feelings for each other in movie "Veer Zaara".
So i really do hope that you were not disappointed reading my 'vishesh gyaan',and my point of writing all that was just to simply categorize,Suraj,Chakor,Imli,Vivaan's feelings under the 4 forms of love...
IMVAAN LOVE STORY-
My fav author in one of her articles had mentioned this once which even i was unable to understand in the first read-
"MOST INDIVIDUALS IN THE WORLD WHO CLAIM TO BE IN LOVE WITH A PERSON REALLY DO NOT LOVE THE PERSON BUT RATHER THEY ARE IN LOVE WITH THE FEELING OF LOVE ITSELF".
Yes this line is exactly true,we all have kept ourselves ready with a certain set of parameters for our future miss or mr perfect,we have in or mind a perfect framework set for that special one,and then we are in a constant search of that particular one who sets the bill or rather fits onto our frame...and when that really happens we just claim to be in love with the person.The same thing hapenned with Imli and Vivaan as well.
So Imli had always been infatuated with Suraj,which she claimed to be love.When she got pregnant with his child,she had got the motherhood feeling inside her and she wanted to give birth to the child.During that course she demanded attention,care,some tenderly love which naturally any pregnant girl or woman would like to have in that stage,She always wanted Suraj to provide her with that as he was the biological father but nope,she did'nt had him by her side when she needed him the most and then all of a sudden Vivaan did all that for her which she wanted Suraj to do.Thats why guys it was so easier for her to have an inclination towards Vivaan which resulted into love.Vivaan just set perfect in the framework of a lover which he had made where she desperately wanted suraj to set in,its simlpy geniune.
The same thing happened with Vivaan as well,he also always had the exact framework set for his perfect wife,where he had wished chakor to settle,but she was also least available when he wanted her the most,he out of sheer humanity and duty cared for Imli,but she to reciprocated in the wifey manner,she did small things for him,which he always wanted chakor to do for him and in that phase he also gave in for Chakor and fell for Imli instead,Its that simple.
The two just cant be accused for their choices,they were always more in love with the feeling of love itself and not an individual as they had claimed to.Both Imvaan's mutual feelings for each other are in the second form of love as i have mentioned upwards...
So this is it guys,for today, i'll be discussing imraj and vikor case in the next part,and sukor;s form of love for each other in the further one...
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thanx for reading,till then take care everybody and enjoy life...😎
"ITS BETTER TO HAVE LOVED AND LOST,THEN NEVER TO HAVE LOVED AT ALL."💔
-Rabia😳
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