Originally posted by: ipkrr
Suraj by acknowledging love for Imli - has absolved Chakor of her brideswapping decision. Right??? - she was the doing him a favor...and he also said in a dialog that you told me all along I loved Imli and I did not listen to you.
It's extremely annoying to see Suraj now - weak, drunk and ungrateful.
If he had refused to let Chakor save him today - I would have had respect for him...but no.
He talks about ego and self respect - where did that suddenly spring from? I have seen none to date.
He forced marriage on Chakor an unwilling bride - blackmailed her to keep her married to him
He was willing to walk away from his own child for money - treated the mother of his child so badly
He was happy to let Chakor earn money for him
He tried to get her to bed against her wishes - marital rape
He allowed her to save him from his dad - came back to the haveli hand in hand with her...and asked her to break her hand to save his mom.
He allowed her to help him keep his mom in a safe place
In spite of all this he's been ruthless in his treatment of Chakor...insulting her for all her help...like a little kid...takes the help and insults the one who gives the help
and suddenly now he has ego and self respect... Right??? He should refuse her help...no...again ego and self respect go for a toss when he asked her not to sign the papers?
Someone give me one example where he has kept his ego intact...answer is never!!
Please...Suraj's character has been beaten up pretty bad lately...and redeeming him is going to be an uphill task. I hope he grovels before Chakor decides to keep him for good.
I agree with your points, Priya.
Suraj's character is totally lost. This is no longer the character I used to like so much. I got really emotional attached to him and even if it is silly, it hurts so much to see him destroyed like this.
He was the smartest character in the show, his plans saved KN many times. As cunning as KN is, it was Suraj who had to explain to him many times what the situation is all about.
Now he is everyone's fool.
He used to have a mind of his own. He fallowed what he believed no matter what other peopel were saying.
Now he is a pushover. Everyone can emotional manipulate him. From Imli to Ranjana.
He used to be composed, the quality that I admired the most at him. He was not an angry young man, he was just negative. He was always in control of his emotions.
Now he has become hysterical, some copy of Imli (throwing tantrums all the time at Chakor). Even when he fights with his father's goons he no longer has a manly attitude.
He used to make plans all the time, from opening a factory to plan Chakor's victory on Asian Games. His mind worked all the time on how to make more money and gain more prestige in society for his family.
Now he is only planning on getting more and more drunk.
He used to drink but in limits. He didn't need anyone to tell him when to stop.
Now he is drunk day and night.
He talked to Chakor in a more respectful manner before marriage when she was his enemy than how he does these days. Even when he used to blackmailed her, he used to be respectful.
Now, what can I say, he is more than just disrespectful to her.
-> Coming to his love for Imli, well I think this is the most unnatural thing that CV could have done to this character. A proud man like Suraj who was educated to have the best in life, would have never fallen in love with an uneducated hysterical disloyal girl like Imli. Yes, disloyal. Many people think that Imli loved him unconditional, but Imli was after her own interest and betrayed him big time with that shooting competition which led to KN no longer trusting in Suraj's qualities. Suraj suffered a lot because of that. He knew that Imli betrayed him and that betrayal would have been reason enough for Suraj to never fall in love with such a characterless girl as Imli.
Edited by Etna_Dia - 8 years ago
