Where is the positivity ?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I am sorry but after watching today's episode I don't see where is this a positive ending.
Yes i am disappointed and I am biased so please don't be offended as these thoughts are my own. My heart goes out to one character in this show a person who has proven to be more selfless than Paakhi and that is Veer.
So they decided to have an amicable divorce, which every one accepts. Veer is moving out with Riya and it will be Paakhi and Aayan alone , with Veer at their beck and call should they need him.
What was the point of the whole second marriage , if they were to end like this. Would it not have been better had Paakhi from the get go say "Listen I am sticking to my guns and not marrying any one else!"
Veer is blaming himself saying she did not want to marry him, but she was the one who took his name. She was the one who agreed to this marriage. she had the evidence she had the tape.
Just as Veer calmly explained it to Aayan today about the divorce , he could have calmly explained it to him about not forcing the issue of his mothers remarriage.
Paakhi's speech today to Lavanya left me baffled at her mind set. Is that progressive thinking?
"I am Anshuman and I am Paakhi"
It is a good thing she is letting him go. But Paakhi has just decided to live the rest of her life waiting for the day when she will die and join her Anshuman.

I don't know what was the messag here ...but I am sadly disappointed by this!

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Posted: 10 years ago
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agree with u Vinnie. feeling very disappointed after watching episode and precap, poor Veer.
surprise to see Pakhi's dicision to live with dead.no offence pls. my opinion
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I haven't watched the episode but from the looks of it - it's taking a very regressive route. After Anshuman's death, the CV's were on the right track of showing that a woman can be independent and strong but the past couple of weeks has just squashed that aspect. Why is it so hard to show a woman moving on with her life after the death of her spouse - in no way does it mean that she loved him any less or never loved him at all. And what exactly is the point of living if one cannot appreciate the life they are given. Very regressive and very disappointing. 👎🏼
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Vinnie, today seeing veer and hearing his words, seeing his hidden tears, i felt so sorry i felt sad for him
What is positive here!?
I agree with you, he is more selfless then her
I wanted to hug him when he asked her to sign those papers
Anyways , its sad ending
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Tumhari paakhi I thought it was about pakhi being strong n independent women but it's not that if it was all strong n independent than why did pakhi needed veer's help.i am very disappointed with the way this show is ending.feel so bad for veer.he has been used :(
At least in the end pakhi shouldn't have sign the divorce papers n should have said can we give a chance to this marriage and tries to work out slowly as friends first.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I have not watched the episode but the following words caught my attention:
"I am Ansuman"

Ansuman was self centered - winning was everything, as long as he got what he wanted than it did not matter if other got hurt in the process.

And when you step back today and take stock Paakhi has got what she wanted:

1. She has got a role model for Aayan that is even better than Ansuman.(Veer has better relationship with Aayan after 11 months than Ansuman did after 11 years)
2. She has got someone to finish Ansuman's dream project and run his business so that she and Aayan can have a comfortable life without lifting a finger
3. She has got someone who will run and grow/protect the Rathod business for next 10-15 years until Aayan takes over
4 Best of all she gets to live reciting Ansuman's jaap and being mahan

And she has to give nothing in return.

And what did Veer get :
1. A relationship with his daughter her never had
2. His life

And for that he got:
3. Life long responsibility for Aayan and Paakhi
3. Oh yeah and a broken heart that will probably never heal as he will be in constant touch with Paakhi directly or indirectly

So Paakhi Ansuman Rathod you have lived up to the Rathod family traits of selfishness and winning at all cost.



How is them parting as friends a positive end when there is only one winner and soo many losers.

The winner is Ansuman. Paakhi is soo obsessed with him that no one and nothing matters except him.

Unfortunately everyone else lost:

- Aayan lost his beloved ND and his dream of Happy family
- Reha who has only just learnt to trust and open up loses her small family
- Veer has been left broken hearted (will he get over this heart break and seek love again I doubt it)
- Veer's family 's hope of seeing him living a happy normal life broken


BTW - So what was the point of her saying she was willing to take a bullet for him, the contemplation while he played the mouth organ etc if Ansuman is all that matters

Edited by payal7 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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agree with u Vinnie. feeling very disappointed after watching episode and precap, poor Veer.
surprise to see Pakhi's dicision to live with dead.no offence pls. my opinion
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Thank you Rakhi... I agreee hightly dissapointed in this ending
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I haven't watched the episode but from the looks of it - it's taking a very regressive route. After Anshuman's death, the CV's were on the right track of showing that a woman can be independent and strong but the past couple of weeks has just squashed that aspect. Why is it so hard to show a woman moving on with her life after the death of her spouse - in no way does it mean that she loved him any less or never loved him at all. And what exactly is the point of living if one cannot appreciate the life they are given. Very regressive and very disappointing. 👎🏼[/QUOTE

Thank You. It is highly regressive Paakhi's thought process today! Then what was the point of Veer ??
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: payal7

I have not watched the episode but the following words caught my attention:

"I am Ansuman"

Ansuman was self centered - winning was everything, as long as he got what he wanted than it did not matter if other got hurt in the process.

And when you step back today and take stock Paakhi has got what she wanted:

1. She has got a role model for Aayan that is even better than Ansuman.(Veer has better relationship with Aayan after 11 months than Ansuman did after 11 years)
2. She has got someone to finish Ansuman's dream project and run his business so that she and Aayan can have a comfortable life without lifting a finger
3. She has got someone who will run and grow/protect the Rathod business for next 10-15 years until Aayan takes over
4 Best of all she gets to live reciting Ansuman's jaap and being mahan

And she has to give nothing in return.

And what did Veer get :
1. A relationship with his daughter her never had
2. His life

And for that he got:
3. Life long responsibility for Aayan and Paakhi
3. Oh yeah and a broken heart that will probably never heal as he will be in constant touch with Paakhi directly or indirectly

So Paakhi Ansuman Rathod you have lived up to the Rathod family traits of selfishness and winning at all cost.



How is them parting as friends a positive end when there is only one winner and soo many losers.

The winner is Ansuman. Paakhi is soo obsessed with him that no one and nothing matters except him.

Unfortunately everyone else lost:

- Aayan lost his beloved ND and his dream of Happy family
- Reha who has only just learnt to trust and open up loses her small family
- Veer has been left broken hearted (will he get over this heart break and seek love again I doubt it)
- Veer's family 's hope of seeing him living a happy normal life broken


BTW - So what was the point of her saying she was willing to take a bullet for him, the contemplation while he played the mouth organ etc if Ansuman is all that matters



Yes Payal I agree Paakhi has used Veer for her purpose, They are ending it by turning her into a very selfish and self centered person. He got th deal.
There is nothing progressive here or positive.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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It may look like Pakhi is going to sign the divorce papers but I still believe that Pakhi will realize her love for Veer. Sometimes, people don't value what they have until they lose it and that is what I believe will happen to Pakhi. I think the CVs are just misleading us to give us a happy ending. Can't wait for tomorrow!
Edited by luvbbat - 10 years ago

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