Originally posted by: anonee
Here is part of a post I made about a week ago:
Anshuman cannot hold a candle to Veer
Logically Pakhi knows that Veer is a gem of a man and no matter what - Veer understands her.
Pakhi has lived with both Anshuman and Veer and she knows the difference between the two. I have listed below those that I have noted.
Pakhi-Anshuman Relationship | Pakhi-Veer Relationship |
Anshuman constantly made demands on Pakhi and set impossible deadlines. | Veer makes no demands on Pakhi. |
Anshuman made life difficult for Pakhi - it was difficult for him to understand why she smiled in the midst of difficulties. | Veer tries to put a smile on Pakhi's face and bring joy in her life. |
Anshuman was jealous at the mention of Rohit, Pakhi's childhood friend. | Veer has no problems with Pakhi living in the past. |
Anshuman gave Pakhi so much pain that he drove her away from him | Their togetherness is helping Pakhi forget her pain and move ahead |
Anshuman wanted Pakhi to change, example he wanted her to wear skimpy clothes. He was trying to change her to fit his expectations rather accepting her for who she is and enabling her to grow. | Veer does not expect Pakhi to change for him. He is enabling her to grow as an individual |
Pakhi worked at changing Anshuman so that he fit her expectations. She too could not accept him as he was. | Pakhi does not expect Veer to change for her. She is enabling him to grow as an individual |
Pakhi kept justifying Anshuman's actions to herself. By this I mean, she was uncomfortable with Anshuman's actions, and she was explaining away (or justify to herself) the discomfort. | Pakhi and Veer share a mutually comfortable relationship and are very honest to each other and respectful of the other. |
Anshuman hurt Pakhi verbally and emotionally | Veer treats Pakhi respectfully anytime he raises his voice (even in frustration at himself) he immediately apologizes |
Anshuman put little effort in the relationship | Veer and Pakhi are putting equal effort in the relationship |
Pakhi's and Anshuman's fundamental values and beliefs were different | Veer and Pakhi share the same fundamental values and beliefs |
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if anshuman hurted paakhi he also made up for it
Changing for the person you loved for years isnt anything bad
and btw Anshuman-pakhi's jodi was loved by everyone so after the introduction of Veer the CVs had to do sth to make people accept him so i guess they are doing that.
And anshuman put little effort into the relationship?? well that's a new discovery... thanks!
you are a veer fan i respect that but i guess even you should also respect that whom i like 😊
Even if i give a 100 reasons to like Anshuman you will still stick to veer because that's your choice so the same goes for me.
So i guess it will be better of you stay happy with your opinion and let me be happy with mine cause we are not learning life lessons over here 😊