Insenstivity to the hightest!!!

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Posted: 10 years ago
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When some one falls in love it is a very delicate and sensitive feeling...they are putting htier heart on the line, they are putting there innermost feelings out there.
Ok Paakhi I understand that you don't share the same feelings for Veer, that is fine Anshuman is still in your heart mind soul. But dose that give you the right to insult and trample upon some one elses feelings. Dose that makes Veer's feelings any more less valuable just because you don't share it.
I can't believe you told him all he sees in you now is a young thing he can get lucky with!!!
That every time he came close to you you lost something?? What did you loose? Today your husband's business is back on track... you have a son who is emotionally happy and doing well. You have a man willing to do anything for you... WHAT EXACTLY DID YOU LOOSE HERE???
Ok He fell in love with you, I guess that is a very big crime , seeing as the man never in all the time he has been there looked you in the eye or been inappropriate in any way with you.
He opened up his heart to you, cried in front of you about his love his family his relationships and you understood him then. All of a sudden he is a "gira howa insaan"

Lavanya WOW ...i am not sure i should be surprised bacause my dear this is your nature. You used Veer's emotions and painted him to be worse than anything you ever seen. because for you Paakhi has to spend the rest of her life serving your brother's memory.
This was the same man who helped save your marrage by butting heads with his daughter. This is the same man you once called brother. This is the same man, who felt sorry for your tears and asked you to tie a rakhi for him.
Indstead of showing some understanding and support to him, you are doing your best to break up what has so far been a good home.!!!!

Well it looks like Veer is not going to sit and be a door mat and I am happy. Cause you never know what you have until you loose it. And Lavanya and Paakhi needs a wake up call.
If you don't return some one elses feelings at least respect them !!!



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Posted: 10 years ago
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I second your thought and very disappointed with Pakhi's reaction..

I saw a reflection of lavanya in her today..

As you mentioned its good Veer replied her back .. when she will start losing for real what was worth it then her thinking mode will change..

Now she is acting like Veer committed a big crime ..she will be the one to not let him go in the end..we have to wait and watch..
Edited by saveeta24 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Vinnie

Agree, Pakhi "doth protest too much".

Is it a story of guilty conscience pricks the mind? Has she been having thoughts of Veer? Is she projecting her thoughts on to Veer?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Vinnie

I completely agree with you. As I said on an another thread... the one thing that this whole situation has brought into focus is the mindset of the Indian serial makers and audience that - if a man loves a woman and she reciprocates its love but if she does not feel the same way it is lust😡.

If you cannot reciprocate a person's feelings don't insult them, demean them but instead respect their feelings and deal with the person compassionately.

You are of course right - in every tussle between these two Pakhi has gained and Veer has lost.

I think his words and his expressions when he said thank for telling me what you think of me, thank you for showing me what I have to do, will make Pakhi realise that she has crossed the line!!! OR is that is what she wanted? Hurt him soo badly that he will walk away and will be free of her to live his life as she cannot offer him anything else because she knows that he will not leave voluntarily.

So after these bitter and cruel words these two are going to be forced to complete the KC rituals by their children and stay "together" (I use the word loosely).

Like many of you my first reaction is to say to Veer walk away. Let her deal with telling Aayan that his beloved ND has gone, let her deal with bringing up a young man with no role model, let her deal with the Rathod empire and all the other problems that life and her selfish in-laws brings her.
But actually I would like Veer to stay and fulfill his responsibilities without any interaction with her. She wants to be Ansuman's widow then let her be. Let her sit in that mausoleum with her thoughts and memories with no one to speak to except that air head Lavenya, nothing to do but to wallow in self pity, no one who cares about (apart from Aayan). Lets see how she likes it.

Perhaps its her loneliness and his determination to fulfil his promise from a distance that will strangely bring them together
Edited by payal7 - 10 years ago

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