Veer - Ria.... Emotionally challenged

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Posted: 11 years ago
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After watching today's episode, Ria's out burst. I know they have not been clear on her back story...but for some reason when she said today that "thank god she did not get emotionally attached " to any of them. had me thinking She never had that opportunity to bond with Veer as she should.
1 . because I think He him self seems to bee an akward sort of geeky guy, judging form what we saw of him recently. A sharp lawyer true, but shy when it comes to his personal life. As he told Paakhi today, he could not let the woman know how he really felt about her.
2. So he gets a ready made 7 year old girl to take care off. A bachelor and young Lawyer at the time. Focusing on his career was important. So what options he had?...leave her in the care of Naany's or Boarding school. Today Ria said she basically took care of her own needs. which led me to think maybe boarding school.
Having already lost both her parents, and having a person here now who was probably busy , akward and have no idea how to handle a girl child. He took care of everything that money could buy...but never really opened up to her.
Sure he probably corrected her when she did something wrong, like today, but failed to congratulate her when she achieved anything good.
EG. the Designs he was very proud of it and was telling Pakkhi how much... but never mentioned it to Ria her self. Instead he gave her a car.
Today he was quick to ask her to leave, after she told him she did not hurt Aayan.

Paakhi is right... it is important to show people how you feel at times not just say quite. Now her task is to some hw get these two to open up to each other and get past all that awkwardness, hurt and issues they have between them for the past 11 years.

Lets see how she dose this. And I hope soon, as Ria is on the cusp of her life where she can either choose the wrong path, destroying some ones marriage... or focus on her career and realize there are other fishes in the sea . And from the precap ... Anuja is going to push this child further onto the path of self destruction!!!





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Posted: 11 years ago
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Is Riya the stepdaughter of Veer?

Just started to watch TP as I am interested in the veer and riya track. I am sure Paakhi will help to unite them 😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ria is veer's adopted daughter ... he adopted her after her parents died in a car accident. He used to be in love with her mom but never told her how he felt.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Vinnie79

Ria is veer's adopted daughter ... he adopted her after her parents died in a car accident. He used to be in love with her mom but never told her how he felt.



So did he marry her mother at some point?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Vinnie your theory sounds interesting. I am perfectly willing to wait and watch.

@CharmGirl - welcome to Tumhari Pakhi Forum. To answer your question - Veer never got married to Rhea's mother. In fact, Veer was a bachelor until he married Pakhi.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Couldn't have summed up Veer and Rhea's relationship better. And what you said in this topic is exactly what I thought of from watching today's episode - that Veer and Rhea never really got the chance or were too scare to connect on an emotional level.
Rhea's statement about her not getting emotionally attached to anyone is very likely a repercussion of the fact that she lost her parents - the fear of losing someone you love dearly. And that probably is the case with Veer to a certain extent as well.

As I mentioned in another post, it will be interesting to see their relationship develop and heal the wounds that they have carried with them over the years.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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nice post vinnie,
i think u r rite , every word is correct !!! 👏
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i guess both - father - daughter have the fear of losing each other
that's why she is not letting him come closer and he is not able to open his heart and share his real feelings
poor veer :( he did not tell kirti about his love, that's why she married some one else... let's see how they deal with this issue
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Vinnie
You have set out exactly what I was thinking.

Veer can express him eloquently as lawyer and when he is angry like he does time and again with Anuja and he did when he was furious with Pakhi in the courtroom and frog marched her out but on a day to day basis he is not demonstrative about his feelings:

- there has been at least 2 occasions when Aayan has hugged him and said Love you ND and he has clearly been moved but has not been able to say those words to Ayaan
- even when he had to say sorry to Aayan for shoving him he had to use the vase to express his feelings. It took Aayan saying are you talking to me or the vase before he put the vase aside
- as he said he could not tell the girl he was in love with how he felt.

So he probably did things for Riya like birthday parties etc but probably never hugged her or told her he loved her.

Lets see if Pakhi manages to teach them to express themselves to each other.and how.

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