I have similar thoughts too,
I would have definitely married someone who had a child . but, if I was in Pakhi's places would have thinked over it.
but she did say Yes not because Anshuman had came for her but because he told her every truth of his life. that he was married n has a son who is very hard to handle... see any other girl will never accept a child from first wife cause its a symbol of there love!
which may hurt the eyes of any wife, and thats Wat Anshuman thought while telling it to her , but what Pakhi thought was different.
Pakhi understood that he never betrayed her cause he was not even aware of him being married on first place.(and it was a child marriage which is not valid on papers. so technically Pakhi will always remain second wife. )
she felt that Anshuman got to knew about it some how and came to get her back only to give her rights.
she believes He did came with truthful heart and thats what she felt!
I also would have felt the same. but Pakhi is more kind heartd , she can accept and give the baby more love like his mom used to give.
I would have thought over it personally , cause adopting a child and upbringing him is a lot more different than upbringing a child of ure husbands first. i feel that I may not b able to give him that much love n affection that his mother used to give. and that what made me make a second thought, and when ure heart is not ready fully u should never do it . but I always used to think about adopting a child for myself!!
if the situation is exactly like Pakhi, I would hv gave it a short n acceptd the child cause I would hv felt my husband didn't betray me all wrong was my destiny that I was alone all these years but it changes for good !!