Would you be with someone/marry someone who already has a child? - Page 2

Originally posted by: rasp_berry

Hey 1st of all hello zahara...seeing u after a long time...

Ok abt the post...i wud say LOVE matter the most...if u r truly, deeply n madly in love with each other n most Importantly if u faithfull with each other then these things least matter...but difficult part is to deal with parents bcs most of the time they r in negative side...actually they r not wrong either :p but still they want best fr their child

Originally posted by: ...Jes...

it simply depends on how much I LOVE the person & wants to be with him/be a part of his life .. & it is not a matter if he is married before ..it is totally cool..& about him having a boy,it depends on my circumstances & wish ..if i can go to that extent for the person(or for my desire) that i want to give up my career(in some cases) or other married life happiness .. so it depends on the Love & Compatibility i share with the person .. 😃

& abt Pakhi,though there is no logic but she would do ..😆 actually this is why we r watching the show..so though it has no logic but she wld accept it! 😳

Originally posted by: __smita__

Here they were already married..and if u ask me what i'll do..yup if it happens that the previous wife died behind which the guy wasnt responsible..than may be..but he has to be good looking..:-P ..and about child..thats awesome as i think i wont be able to bear the pain to give birth one..so its best..hehehe free mein..and i dont have that step or adopt issue..so no problem at all..

Originally posted by: -Alina.

First of all: beautiful topic Zahara. 🤗

For me it depends.. if I like the person deeply I will do anything for him. ❤️ Off-course if his wife died or they got divorced and the child needs a mother + I love the person.. I will definitely marry him. :) A person doesn't need to be perfect to be my partner.

Originally posted by: ZAHARA.

Hello! Haha, hey! Long time since EHM right? :D

And you're absolutely right! Love is the most important thing and if two people love each other despite their pasts, then why not?? And you're right with the parents part! Haha, even though I'm quite open minded about this (considering there's nothing shady about the guy lol), I doubt my parents would like me to get married to someone who was a) previously married and b) has a child.

Originally posted by: ZAHARA.

Hey Alina! I see you around a lot but never actually spoken to you properly, I don't think? Thank you! =D

I think you pretty much summed up perfectly how I feel! And you're absolutely right, having a so called stigma like being married previously or having a child doesn't concern me, like you said - to be a partner, he doesn't need to be perfect, just should be kind, honest and faithful.

:-)