May the real man stand up!

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Posted: 20 years ago
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You guys will be angry, but I kind of understand where Suhas is coming from. Our society is very cruel when it comes to a girl sitting home (her maika) after marriage. I can see why a mother would want to see her daughter settled. Suhas sees that DK has Pori in his life and Sumi accepts this. They have given Disha's position to Pori and as she sees it, there is no room for Disha there. No mother can handle this. (Although, this does not mean that she should rush Disha and get her married to the next available guy.)

The problem I see is with DK's character. I can understand his love for his mother. But this is going too far. They could have fixed this Sumi problem right in the beginning when she mistook Pori to be her bahu. All powerful DK can go and threaten Suhas, but is a bhigi billi in front of his own mom. They have created such a mess now by prolonging this that Sumi is now worse off then she was before.

DK, how long will you wait before you tell your mom the truth? What if Sumi doesn't recover for few months, years? Do you expect Disha to just wait for you? Do you expect Suhas to wait? What if your mom demands kids after marriage with Pori, will you go ahead and fulfill her wish then also? When will you have the guts to say anything? Please stand up and be a man. Fight for what is yours or stop this rona-dhona nonsense.

Yaha paani sar se upar ja raha hai aur koi terane ka naam hi nahi leta.😡😡😡

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Nisu, I can see where u r coming from...... but afsoos..... Dk cannot do a think unless Guhas ki kripa na ho! Gosh! ridiculous to the core!

I wonder what, impression the world is getting of India's successful male or female! Are we telling them we still live in the 19th cen. Where we don't go against our mom & do a thing. Guys, esp such successful will do silly things as Kasam & Knife se mara mari & go mute in front of mom! Probably we may have a handful of those in IN still, but when u r projecting your country to the world then they shd show that we r quite mature & know to pick our battles. Really girls any of this does not happen in the real world!!

Well, Nisu I have a different take on Suhas...... She is not listning to her daughter..... communication gap..... which doesn't happen in real life. We indian girls have high pitch & voice so r always heard. For Suhas to get so upset does not make sense..... she knows all abt the contract & that DK loves Disha. She has to give him benefit of the doubt & hang in there for a few days.

Rather they shd show how a modern mom supports her daughter in times of crisis. A wonderful bond that is shared b/w mom & dau should be projeted.

Isn't it coz of DK they r still under that roof !! Suhas baat karte hai....

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Posted: 20 years ago
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hi

Thanks the points nisu and mink i want to take up the point on Suhas i am getting a little annoyed with her as even now after so many things she can't really see where Disha's true happiness is and also she has always forced herself on disha while with rano she has always listened to her and fought for her happiness. I know Suhas is trying to put things right but she is making life difficult for disha, atleast she can leave her now as she is not having a affair or anything she wants to meet her husband or wants to justify his actions but Suhas is just not willing to listen to disha. I don't think she has ever understood disha the wayy her baba understood her and knew what would make her happy.

Regards to DK i think he shoul dhave told sum way before but i guess disha is a bit in the wrong here too becos whenever he tried she stopped him and i think there will be alot more rona dhona so girls get you hankies ready becos as usual i can see it coming..for me i was quite upset after reading today's episode as this is one serial that effects me alot.

Why to the guhas always wreck our weekends this is one question i have for them?

Samy

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Moms God yeah i think DK (Well story writer) is being a tinchy bit stupid i agree it is the 21st century kids do what they want not the 19th century lol. Sumitra is being really stupid because can't she say that Disha is his wife where did so called "Pori bahu" come from didn't sh see Disha's well cultured well mannered behaviour but no she see's pori the modern cat!!! U can't entirley blame suhasni nor anyone else its due to the circumstances on the other hand Dk is sweet because he loves his mum and don't want to hurt her. How long can Disha wait is it Dk's fault his mum couldn't see the truth I think it is entirley sumitra's fault.
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Posted: 20 years ago
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Don't get me wrong. I do understand that Suhas has her own problems. She will always differentiate between Rano and Disha as Rano is her blood. No matter the sacrifices from Disha, if she were to choose between the two, it would always be Rano.

I guess I was giving her the benefit of doubt and that she truly had Disha's best interests at heart. But after reading your views I'm not too sure if she's looking out for Disha. She is probably trying to get Disha married off because of Rano. She and everyone (except for Rano 😕) can see that Indy still holds strong feelings for Disha. She probably also realizes that when Indy finds out Disha's single status, he would be all over her….which from today's episode is very clear. God, I want to strangle him. Move on you fool….you are going to have a little joker of your own. Show some responsibility towards the unborn and your WIFE.😡😡😡

Mink, you are right dear…Suhas is ahesaan faramosh. Ungrateful towards DK and Disha.

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Dish has grown close to Suhas ever since Dev's death......................a Mother is a person you can talk to about anything....................Why the hell didn't tell Aia about the misunderstanding with the BAHU from Sumi................She would be more understanding and try and help them over-come this whole CRAP..............

misunderstaninds.................misunderstandings

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Why didnt Dish correct Sukanya when she said that Bonsale house is hers and Anil's.....................Dish lets everybody walk all over her................

Dish is like the DOOR MAT.........

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Posted: 20 years ago
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As Samy wrote I too think that it is not only DK who is to blame here it is Disha too. How many times Dk has tried to tell his mom but everytime Disha has begged him not to say a word or stopped him. No doubt she is a very nice, good hearted and unselfish person and she always considers others happiness before hers and sacrifices but it is good to be nice and kind but to be too good is not right either.

Suhas is a bit selfish person who actually never considered Disha as her own. She has always preferred Rano'n happiness, like first in Inder's case and now also her interest is not to see Disha happy but keep her away from Inder so that he does not get involved with her. Disha is also not telling everything clearly to Suhas that she wants to stay with DK and they both love eachother.

DK also instead of talking and explaining everything to Suhas calmly came with threats and spoiled the situation even more.

The most annoying is the fact that no one is ready to listen to here. They keep blaming others or put responsibilities on other. Even Ajuba if he really wants to help Disha then instead of telling Suhas to clarify the misunderstanding to Sum why dont he go himself and do it.

Guhas have made a habit of giving a shock to us on every Thursday and spoil our weekend but I have decided that I am not going to be affected no matters how hard they try because I am going to stick to the info we got from from mink that finally D'S will be togather and marry. I wo'nt give up the hope.

maja😡😡

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Posted: 20 years ago
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FUNNY thing is.. they take Sumitra misunderstanding something to be fatal enough to give her what ?? a heart attack?.. puhleeeeeez wake up.. I'm really irritated with this.. and I think DK babu now should think over and tell mom the truth... what really irritates me is. why everybody is avoiding a BIG truth??

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