Tujhse Hai Raabta Written Update and Daily Discussion Thread 11 - Page 61

Originally posted by: Dolly567890

Also i feel astonished to hear malhars father talking like dat to kalyani . As much as i hate kalyanis doings now, it was the entire family including malhars father who made her agree marrying to rachit. It is even ridiculous to pose such questions to kalyani. I dont understand kaka characterisation a bit if he want to adopt riddhi shouldnt he made dat clear to anupriya even during their courtship. In order to save him(though he is not guilty), it was considered okay to marry her and that time he needed kalyani to help him. Serioisly now heis venting all his frustration on kalyani which i think is not tolerable. Kalyani lieing to save her mother and son is understandable to a certain extent, but family members reaction to dat is horrible particular malhars father and kaka . I would say they were the reason behind all such scenes happening. Now i feel kaka has not really accepted kalyani as her daughter and nobody except malhar gave her soothing words and comfort !! It would be nice to watch kalyani keeping away from kaka ., seriously his characterisation has taken a downhill .

Yep, Kakas character has gone downhill since the Rane group has been introduced and I find myself not liking him anymore.

He is responsible for not telling Anu about Riddhi,he's responsible for hiding the truth as he knew it about the murder case of Radhe and marrying Anu the way he did... why is he venting his anger on Kalyani now if Anu doesn't trust?

Just like Riddhi and Malhar come first for him,so does Kalyani for Anu,why is it wrong for the women to put their kids first when the men did the same thing?

I know,Malhar has changed and I feel bad for the way he's being treated.

At the same time,I also remember some of the things he did in his anger when he refused to believe Kalyanis claims that she didn't help Sampada and Atharva in fleeing and gave her a new torture everyday,then when he was proven wrong by Sampada herself he left her without,once again, asking what she wanted or felt or even a decent,heartfelt apology.

OTOH,I'm pretty sure Kalyani will not only apologize,she'll be punishing herself all the time for hurting his feelings to save their son.

I'm not saying Malhar should forgive her easily for all these lies and hiding the truth... I'm just saying I'm sick and tired of watching a show where the FL forgives and forgets so easily and the ML is allowed to do the complete opposite.

Originally posted by: Kalma007

Yep, Kakas character has gone downhill since the Rane group has been introduced and I find myself not liking him anymore.

He is responsible for not telling Anu about Riddhi,he's responsible for hiding the truth as he knew it about the murder case of Radhe and marrying Anu the way he did... why is he venting his anger on Kalyani now if Anu doesn't trust?

Just like Riddhi and Malhar come first for him,so does Kalyani for Anu,why is it wrong for the women to put their kids first when the men did the same thing?

I know,Malhar has changed and I feel bad for the way he's being treated.

At the same time,I also remember some of the things he did in his anger when he refused to believe Kalyanis claims that she didn't help Sampada and Atharva in fleeing and gave her a new torture everyday,then when he was proven wrong by Sampada herself he left her without,once again, asking what she wanted or felt or even a decent,heartfelt apology.

OTOH,I'm pretty sure Kalyani will not only apologize,she'll be punishing herself all the time for hurting his feelings to save their son.

I'm not saying Malhar should forgive her easily for all these lies and hiding the truth... I'm just saying I'm sick and tired of watching a show where the FL forgives and forgets so easily and the ML is allowed to do the complete opposite.

Hey a neat write up ., exactly you hit the nail now., everytime kalyani and anu do something, it is benefitting malhar and his family. Will his father be happy if swara faced a acid attack? What i feel is dat the entire rane and deshmuk family dont have a sense of gratitude towards maai and kalyani which is very sad to watch. I feel they both should leave this stupid and wierd family and start fresh with malhar and kaka. As long as they stay together, the tracks would be moree sacrificing than a normal lighter version. I completely agree your point on the priorities by anu towards kalyani and viceversa., i wont blame malhar now since his character has matured in a beautiful way. But kaka should understand just because he loves anu she should reciprocate . Anu has clearly mentioned dat she gives a damn abt this marriage and her only priority is kalyani. Kaka instead of talking to kalyani and getting anger should talk with anu . Love cannot be forced. When he thinks of riddhi future, i feel it s absolutely right for kalyani to think about her mother and her son. Regarding forgiving part, i think malhar characterisation is like dat he is not vocal abt his feelings and atleast his intentions are not dat bad excepting sampada elopement.,

All I c as n saa as y this track is cringeworthy and very heartbreaking. There was no need of this much drama. They could have done it positively. But no CV had to kill the essence of the show. The simplicity and the excitement which used to be in the show is now completely gone.

Originally posted by: Kalma007

Yep, Kakas character has gone downhill since the Rane group has been introduced and I find myself not liking him anymore.

He is responsible for not telling Anu about Riddhi,he's responsible for hiding the truth as he knew it about the murder case of Radhe and marrying Anu the way he did... why is he venting his anger on Kalyani now if Anu doesn't trust?

Just like Riddhi and Malhar come first for him,so does Kalyani for Anu,why is it wrong for the women to put their kids first when the men did the same thing?

I know,Malhar has changed and I feel bad for the way he's being treated.

At the same time,I also remember some of the things he did in his anger when he refused to believe Kalyanis claims that she didn't help Sampada and Atharva in fleeing and gave her a new torture everyday,then when he was proven wrong by Sampada herself he left her without,once again, asking what she wanted or felt or even a decent,heartfelt apology.

OTOH,I'm pretty sure Kalyani will not only apologize,she'll be punishing herself all the time for hurting his feelings to save their son.

I'm not saying Malhar should forgive her easily for all these lies and hiding the truth... I'm just saying I'm sick and tired of watching a show where the FL forgives and forgets so easily and the ML is allowed to do the complete opposite.

Ek normal insan ko gussa ayega .In the case ofc 26 th july I did not support Kaka for certain things . But In matters of current track, i believe that his agony and anger is justified bcoz its not about only the raabta of Anuyani , sarthak and kalyani too had a bond and kaka had repeatedly been asking Anuyani about Rachit and his misdeeds . If they had shared theircmiseries to their respective husbands baat itni bigarti hi nhi.

And I am not at all surprised that Malhar had supported kalyani so much . Woh toh hai hi aisa . He will always support her. Malhar ko is bat ka gussa kabhi nhi hoga ki koi kalyani ko blackmail karke aise gandi bat bolne ko majboor kar raha hai . But is bat ka gussa hona quite natural hai ki things are being hiding from him . Chupane se use gussa ayega ! And rape in a unconscious state , yeh ek sangin jurm hai , rachit ne atleast yeh nhi kiya but uski tauhamat lag gayi . This also is unacceptable .

Originally posted by: pyaar2012

It was expected from Madhav . He is indeed an obnoxious and rudimentory character. I knew that he would b hurling such abusive thing to kalyani. But for Kaka , i am for the first time happy to see what he is doing . He is doing exactly a man would do after tolerating so much. Every person has a toleration limit and Kaka had had enough of Anuyani " s stupidity .He had been a rock solid support to Anuyani , but how long? He had loved Anu but his feelings remain unreciprocrated. Riddhi is an imp part of his life , she too is snatched from him due to Kalyani. By gones are by gones . But as of now i think Kaka is doing the rightful thing except forcing her to abort the child bcoz truly none but Kalyani had the aithority on her child. Even legally Malhar too can not ask her to abort the child unless it is a medical emergency ( which exactly they are showing).I for the first time had found Kaka right . I think his growth of character has been layered . Initially he was a friendly supportive parent , later he becomes an old lover who had hidden his feelings from Anu.But what he had said was right . Anuyani literally does not care for their husband' s respective feeling . Kisi ko vi bura lagega , gussa ayega ultimately woh vi toh insan hi hai god thodi hai! Kalyani ki stupidity ne sirf Malhar ko hi nhi sab ko affect kiya hai.

Same feeling titu di. The way she said Kaka I can't lie about the child itself was a lie. Every normal insaan would have the same. Questions. If the child or how the child came into her was wrong or forced upon why so possessive and protective about the child. Normal people would miss understand that she wants to keep the last nishani of rachit alive. Apni Bache keliye she snatched kakas daughter from him vo sahi nahi tha. And yes kalayni only saw the supportive version of malhar but she never saw him breaking down and dying inside it is only sarthak who witnessed it. So abortion is good option as a parent of both kalma according to him. The way he was forcefully pulling her was inneed wrong. Tarika galath itada sahi. I am not feeling sympathetic to kalayni beacuse it is all the natija of her blatant lies and she says she can't lie.

The funniest dialogue is after literally killing your husband mentally by totally destroying him for no valid reason she is saying that I can't hurt my malhar ji. Whatever is happening around is only due to the stupidity of kalayni and none of the family can be really blamed beacuse if a woman gets pregnant with a man other than her husband and at the same time denies to abort that kid and is sooo keen to keep it nobody will support her all will defo question her charechter as far as our society is concerned. Nobody will console.hwr and say it's ok.we will have the child no. Here malhar is supportive beacuse he is an ITV lead in real life the girl wouldnt have been alive at time. We do read such things in newspapers right.

Hiding information between husband and wife is the tactics the TV show writers use for creating drama. They are so uncreative and dull minds.

Not surprised that Kalyani is hiding. What is pathetic is the need of writers to keep creating situations which demand truth to come out but she keeps fibbing. This behaviour is dangerous. Malhar is now the desperate hurt guy. Sarthak is annoying. Anupriya hardly has a role.

Surely the master mind is Atharva. Who has now lost all humanity and become devil.

I also hate this medical drama of surrogacy. Its a serious life giving technique, respect that. For drama the police, the judge, the doctors all become corrupt and liars.

Killing is portrayed as fun. And not to mention knocking someone unconscious is child's play which is too much fun.

Originally posted by: pyaar2012

Ek normal insan ko gussa ayega .In the case ofc 26 th july I did not support Kaka for certain things . But In matters of current track, i believe that his agony and anger is justified bcoz its not about only the raabta of Anuyani , sarthak and kalyani too had a bond and kaka had repeatedly been asking Anuyani about Rachit and his misdeeds . If they had shared theircmiseries to their respective husbands baat itni bigarti hi nhi.

And I am not at all surprised that Malhar had supported kalyani so much . Woh toh hai hi aisa . He will always support her. Malhar ko is bat ka gussa kabhi nhi hoga ki koi kalyani ko blackmail karke aise gandi bat bolne ko majboor kar raha hai . But is bat ka gussa hona quite natural hai ki things are being hiding from him . Chupane se use gussa ayega ! And rape in a unconscious state , yeh ek sangin jurm hai , rachit ne atleast yeh nhi kiya but uski tauhamat lag gayi . This also is unacceptable .

Di you rightly pointed kaka during 26 th track in which he failed most of the times. It was during that time atharv got back his memory and one way or the other the root lay there. I dont think his anger justified even now since the amount of mental torture kalyani and anupriya went through is nothing compared to dat he is feeling now. If riddhi is an integral part of him as he claim, then so do kalyani and anupriya. May be next time kalyani would take steps to unite them. Somewhere i feel kaka and kalyani relationship has been strained too much !

Originally posted by: Jaitreya23

Hiding information between husband and wife is the tactics the TV show writers use for creating drama. They are so uncreative and dull minds.

Not surprised that Kalyani is hiding. What is pathetic is the need of writers to keep creating situations which demand truth to come out but she keeps fibbing. This behaviour is dangerous. Malhar is now the desperate hurt guy. Sarthak is annoying. Anupriya hardly has a role.

Surely the master mind is Atharva. Who has now lost all humanity and become devil.

I also hate this medical drama of surrogacy. Its a serious life giving technique, respect that. For drama the police, the judge, the doctors all become corrupt and liars.

Killing is portrayed as fun. And not to mention knocking someone unconscious is child's play which is too much fun.

Exactly making mockery out of everything right from medical technology to judiciary. Pathetic thinking !!

Gayu ,And what is the use of this lie ? No one will think that Rachit" s baby can b a medium of BMT for Pillu? Jis pillu ki vale k ke liye kiya agar woh yeh kehegi yeh baby ka father rachit hai toh BMt kaise hoga ?

And aj vi kalyani punishment ki bat kyun karti hai....Yeh malhar ka jo anger aur trust issues tha uski consequences hai yeh. A part of her soul is scared with that Malhar will punish her and she will face her wrath . Yehi dar hai shayed jiske liye kalyani chizien hide karti hai .