there was a point a while back, when people had started to despise rb, for his actions, but he has turned it around, and no body hates him hun. they pity him.
the fact is that he is the 3rd wheel. and this drama is yug and vrindas love story, and no matter how much of a saint rb will be, he will not be accepted.
its like saying, that if juliet married paris, then she should have given up romeo, and hun that would never be accepted.
in the same way, NO MATTER WHAT, we all believe that yug and vrinda are meant to be together.
yes, to a certain point, vrinda is to blame, because she did not yell out that she didnt want to get married to rb, she cud have stopped the wedding, but she didnt because she was overwhelmed with all the emotional blackmail she was recieving from her family. this doesnt make her a bad person, nor does it make her love for yug any less, coz she didnt comit suicide for him.
you dont HAVE to die, to stay faithfull to ur love.
vrinda still confessed everything to rb on the 1st night, and he cud have let her go then, like any normal man who wud have discovered the same. but NO. rb , made her stay for his personal reasons, furthermorer he willingly promised to unite her with yug, she never ASKED HIM TO. so rb is at fault.
he asked vrinda to wait for 6 months, but what i dont understand, is that if he was gonna do this drama, then why didnt he do it then, it would have been less shamefull then. as they say, strike while the iron is hot.
but no, rb wanted 6 months because he didnt want his mum to get wind of this. but 6 months are not over yet, and ammu has still got cancer, so why is he not worried anymore what this will do to his ammu. all that worry for her happiness has gone out the window now has it ?
rb, made vrinda stay for his ammu, and now he himself doesnt care about the consequesnces it will have on his ammu. if he said to vrinda wait 6 months till she dies, then why is he doing this drama now.
he has messed vrinda around.
he didnt let her go back then, and he is makeing it harder for her now. vrinda is like dhobi ka kutta, na ghar ka na ghaat ka.
rb's biggest problem is that his charachter is not consistant. if he was then maybe people wouldnt insult him.
rb would have had to face shame when vrinda would have left him, but he has only made this shame far worse for himself, by prolonging things like this. so he isnt blameless in all of this.
yug and vrinda are not destroying his life, if anyone is responsible for that then it is DB and VA. they are responsible, for rb, vrinda and yugs torture !!
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