My View on YuVi and RB Scenes of Drunk Episodes - Page 2

When u are in love with someone then arranged marriages do not work, it is more of a compulsion to stay with each other.... because u are married to each other.

In a marriage I think one partner should be able to control and love the other. If that is not there then u just live together for the sake of it...

@ Neetu u welcome

Originally posted by: nikita_88

Mages I totally get ur view

Yes, yug shouldn't be going after a married women and marriage is scared but the marriage was forced which ruins it sanity which should occur with consent from both sides. Therefore I am with Yug still being in love with Vrinda, and he should get her back in his life.

I like you blame Vrinda for this situation because she shouldn't have gotten married but then you can't do much about it if you are forced to.

Yes RB did say he will get Vrinda and Yug together even when he was drunk and yes he will have problems once Vrinda leaves but if his fallen in love with her it does cause a problem for YuVi not because of his feelings but if doesn't let Vrinda go then.

Therefore even though I want to feel sorry for RB I can't because he had the choice of letting go fo Vrinda instead of asking her for six months because it would have saved himself and his family turmoil and he could have been given a wife that loved him and cared for him. He can be the nice man on earth yet everyone is selfish and will think about themselves at one point so why won't RB when it comes to Vrinda. Vrinda did tell him straight away I don't love and I don't want to be here if he was nice enough he would have let her go then.

Nikita

Originally posted by: pwincess kanzi

my view on this is from Kanan point of view, not from YuVi fan point of view.

Yug: I totally agree with you on Yug's view.I know he truely loves Vrinda and cant live without her or watever it is, BUT watever he is doing currently and has been doing since the tme Vrinda got married is WRONG. I can understand that he loves Vrinda and feels that he can get her back, BUT he can't! It's absoutly wrong what he is doing. Vrinda is now married, she WAS his, but now Vrinda is someone else's. After marriage an indian women belongs to her husband, so though he loves her, he has no right on her what so ever. she USED to belong to him, but not now, she is someone else's. Though not from heart, but by rituals and traditionaly. Although i feel its good that he heard RB confessing.

Vrinda: I am sorry but i disagree with you on vrinda's view. I don't feel vrinda is at fault for this mess at all. what could she do? she had no option. she did try to run away with Yug, but she culdn't. she even went at his house, that showed her love for Yug clearly. DB and preeto found a guy for her. Did they even ask for her opinion or agreement? However the generation might have change, but things are still not changed alot in the vilages and being in the village, she had no right to say anything. Anyways if she had said something would they have even listened? her engagement and marriage were done so quickly and her and RB didn't even talk, infact she didn't even showed us RB. did they? After getting married, she was completely trutfull and honest to her husband and told her the truth, her family hid. I felt she did really good by telling him the truth, she atleast didn't betray him, like her family did. Yes, i agree this temproray thing of 6 months is wrong, but she'd ask to go right then. Infact what was her fault in saying she wished to go? she was just fully and deeply in love with Yug, that all she could think of is Yug. All she felt to do, be is to be with Yug. She did what her heart told her to do. is it wrong? True, now 2 families honour is in Vrinda's hand. Ofcourse she would be confused, i wouldn't blame her, even i would be confused. What can she do? go to Yug or stay with RB? If she goes to Yug, then RB's life is ruined and both familes honour. Yes her family's honour will come back and they will forgive her eventually, but what about RB's? If she stays with RB, then what about Yug? He has clearly said he will wait for her. And everyone knows the consequence if she don't go back to him, his life will be ruined to. What can she do? Infact keeping myself in her position even i am confused. She is just stuck between the two, what is her fault? shhe was dragged into this, despite everyone clearly knowing how much she loves Yug.

Rajbir: I agree with you on RB's view. since he has entered the show, i have been feeling sorry for him since then. i truely feel for him. I believe he is the best life partner any girl could wish for, despite his looks. What is his fault? he got married and on his wedding night his just married wife tells him she can never be his, because she loves someone else and wishes to still go back to him. All he has been trying to do is give her happiness; give her back to yug; whus what is bad about him confessing his love? why can't he fall in love with his wife? just because his wife still loves and wanst to go back to her exBF? It's not like he is getting anything in return, except his family's honour in mud and his life in mud. I don't blame him to wish for Vrinda to stay with him or confess his love that aswell in drunken state. he has always wanted other's happiness and never thought about himself. If he wanted or if it was someone else than that person would either stop Vrinda from even coming out of house or broke the marriage itself on its day.

YUG, VRINDA AND RB: I feel injustic is happeing to all of them and none of them are faulted, its fate.

wow!!! everyones feedback is greattttttttttttttt-GOOD JOB!!!!

it sucks most of you guys said what i wanted to say lol but as promised earlier i am back and will say something hehe even if its repeating....so dont minda ya'll =)

if i were to watch this show not as a yuvi fan i would still not say that yug needs to move on just cause vrinda is married- its easy said than done hun....seee everything from the get go was wrong:

vrinda never wanted to marry she was sorta forced to marry and literally didnt talk or anything basically was a statue while doing her saat phere- so technically her body was there but her heart wasnt lol so is that even considered being married?? thats like a person getting married while they are asleep? so litereally she breaks down infront of RB and was ready to leave/walk out.....

RB is a good guy with gd heart etc etc but somewhere ITS HIS FAULT see when a girl on your wedding night tells you i dont want to be with you i love someone else-YOU LET HER GO. he was only married like what couple of hours??? he could have easily said okay fine lets end this. but instead of his OWN selfish reasons like his grandma dying he holds vrinda back....so come on? this is some business deal here not marriage... promising vrinda he will get her back with yug...so okay all vrinda has to do is "act" basically everything is going wrong here....this is just a business deal....

having said that in a business deal its work/act and thats it. to begin with Rb had no right over vrinda so if he hates her or loves her it doesnt matter but yah he was drunk and it came out but really its his fault he knows its just a buiness dealll(which made yuvi lovers mad) so lets not get personal here. he has no right to say i will miss her or what will happen to me etc etc only cause vrinda to begin with had made a deal and will leave...cant feel sorry here now cant u

Vrinda in a lot of ways cant be blame for anything- in the midst of all the fight she was the one hit badly- her grandpa gets her married within a day- which was way too fast so she never really met RB before marriage and only saw him after so it made sense when she finally got her senses back she said hey i cant be with you and wow no more yug lol--- but technically any other guy would have kicked her out but RB didnt. so whatever RB is goin through it doesnt bother me cause he brought it on himself by keeping vrinda.

so now RB has to suffer meanwhile yug and vrinda will suffer ...and lets not forget US- we are suffering toooooooooooo ='(

i am all for rajbir! he's a good hubby, he never mistreated vrinda and i agree he only confessed his love for vrinda.

im tryin hard but still can't feel sorry for RB...may be my love for yuvi has overwhelmed me......but this RB was never meant to be in this show..this show was all about yug and vrinda...what is he doing there in the first place i can't help but hate him....it can be that my hatred for him is not justified but what can i do....i see him as a barrier between yuvi and i want this barrier should be removed ASAP..........

Seriously i m totally on the side of Neetu. You spoke all my words, all my feelings regarding the three. Very well said Nikita Neetu has made us speechless.