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blueflames

@blueflames

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Posted: 7 years ago

Hey there all the lovely people!!
Me is back with a very brief issue that bothered me watching yesterday's episode.

Marriage is a union of Two people coming together... every individual has an identity of their own.. some are introvert, some extrovert and some textovert - each individual has its own set of traits and personality, the uniqueness of each makes us different from each other.
Uma has lived under a rock for years, he is not updated with the latest tech and a lot of other gadgets - but that doesn't make him inferior to others. He is changing, he is accepting opinions and views of others with much more open mindedness. If he thinks that he has to work to improve his quality of life then it's a different approach, but if he is changing just to be modern, extrovert to be able to joke like vansh and playful like Kanak then it might not be he right approach... to be equal to ones partner is one thing. But to overhaul a personality due to inferiority compels is something that raises some issues. How people are forced to be at a certain level to be acceptable in the society.

Uma's confession to Kanak was beautiful, referring to the issue that not only a woman has to change, the man can change to be her equal too. A man should be capable of accepting change for the betterment of their relationship.

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Bhaana

@Bhaana

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Posted: 7 years ago

Hi blue

It sounds like he feels inferior, changing one for the betterment of life is good but we shouldn't loose our chram.

I loved his expressios, guilty feeling though wish our uma retains his strength being unique and following good dharam😃

Thanks for sharing your thoughts, always love to hear you🤗

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TSMSPfan

@TSMSPfan

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: blueflames

Hey there all the lovely people!!
Me is back with a very brief issue that bothered me watching yesterday's episode.

Marriage is a union of Two people coming together... every individual has an identity of their own.. some are introvert, some extrovert and some textovert - each individual has its own set of traits and personality, the uniqueness of each makes us different from each other.
Uma has lived under a rock for years, he is not updated with the latest tech and a lot of other gadgets - but that doesn't make him inferior to others. He is changing, he is accepting opinions and views of others with much more open mindedness. If he thinks that he has to work to improve his quality of life then it's a different approach, but if he is changing just to be modern, extrovert to be able to joke like vansh and playful like Kanak then it might not be he right approach... to be equal to ones partner is one thing. But to overhaul a personality due to inferiority compels is something that raises some issues. How people are forced to be at a certain level to be acceptable in the society.

Uma's confession to Kanak was beautiful, referring to the issue that not only a woman has to change, the man can change to be her equal too. A man should be capable of accepting change for the betterment of theirelationship.

the only positive thing I see is a man willing to change to be a good partner for his lady. Good but I love the way Uma is I don't think he needs to change. Very good post thank you.

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JayashreeV

@JayashreeV

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Posted: 7 years ago

My personal opinion regarding this is no need to change his originality rather then he impose something which he want to show like progressive thought and he is well known the world revolutions and what happening in the world. That is the only thing he want to do.

No need to change the whole thing and their is no need for every person should know using mobile and laptop and changing the cloths are not at all progressive things.

Just know how world is moving and the understand situation and know how to tackle it that all what he need now.

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Manasa Rekha

@manasa.123

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Posted: 7 years ago

Interesting post blue.

I think Uma is not going to change himself to some one else but probably going to update himself with new technologies.

As a person who is away from them, it will be interesting journey for him specially when he is an adult.

That's one trait in Uma which I dearly love that, when he thinks something is correct or better, he won't hesitate to act.

It may look that he is feeling little bit low, but Uma is determined to close the gap that Massisa's upbringing made to the outer world.

There's goodness and purity of the soul which won't be changed by this determination.

Very much looking forward to this beautiful journey of Uma.

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deejagi

@deejagi

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Posted: 7 years ago

Hi blue nice post. Yes everyone needs to change and even Uma needs to update h8s iNiwledge in this era of technology is very good fie hia professional front. But here he is planning to change himself to be his wife's modern level in terms of talking, looking etc. is not at all required. She fell in love qith Him foe that simple difference ans individuality.

But we can't blame him for that as he needs to carry the legacy od the PH. Bhabo had taken a challenge of 15 days { to get Suraj married}, then suraj took a 15 daya challenge to get his mother accept Sandua's IPS dream. Oue hero is of next generation, hence he took 12 days challenge 😊😊

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Divyaamurali

@Divyaamurali

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Posted: 7 years ago

Lovely post Blue

I don't think so uma is going completely change. His unique traits will remain the same. He is definitely not inferior to kansk he is just outdated from real world So he wants to get updated he wants to enhanse his skills more he actually wants to be competent with the real modern world. I really appreciate that uma wants to change for his soulmate. He wants to prove he is perfect jeevan sathi for kanak. He wants to make him compatible with her. Actually uma was the one who wants to change and make cimpatilble life partner for him. But now after realizing his drawbacks he wanted to rectify those blunders he did in his life unknowingly. He wants to redeem himself. Actually Blue I believe uma becoming modern changing his lifestyle attires is not the actual change his mindset becomming broad and his thought process are changing this is only actual transformation of umashankar. And as you said why only wife has to change always a husband can also change for his wife. Adjustibility should be from both sides than it makes a marriage perfect. One aspect I admire about uma is if he feels he is doing wrong he will immediately accept without any ego and he will try to rectify it. Waiting to see this big transformation of umashankar in this twelve days according to me this is an agnipariksha for uma to face the real competitive world. Kanak will be always with him to support encourage and motivate him more. He will become man of modern era.

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RaniQueen

@RaniQueen

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: manasa.123
Interesting post blue.

I think Uma is not going to change himself to some one else but probably going to update himself with new technologies.

As a person who is away from them, it will be interesting journey for him specially when he is an adult.

That's one trait in Uma which I dearly love that, when he thinks something is correct or better, he won't hesitate to act.

It may look that he is feeling little bit low, but Uma is determined to close the gap that Massisa's upbringing made to the outer world.

There's goodness and purity of the soul which won't be changed by this determination.

Very much looking forward to this beautiful journey of Uma.

Well Said Dear.Agree With you

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RaniQueen

@RaniQueen

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Posted: 7 years ago

Thank you Blue Nice Post dear

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