18/12 Episode Discussion!!

Hey there all the lovely people!!
Me is back and super late.. my apologies.
Direct to discussion.


The fight for the mangalsutra is still in going. Uma threatens to use force but Kanak is as always a step ahead of him, she places it in her mouth and challenges him to take it... Uma steps forward his hand ahead his fingers hesitant, he wants to get it but the temptation is high, to touch her would be to lose his mind, his fingers curl and he jerks his hand back and leaves, with a typical this girl would be the end of me attitude.

Fast forward to Haldi ceremony, while all the ladies had to wear yellow, Uma was paraded around shirtless... why is so much ang pradarshan even allowed - I have no issues to bake my eyes on his six packs abs but there should be a limit for him to be around bare chested every now and then, especially in front of Palomi - the still parayi stree. He sits for the ritual while Kanak stand scrunching her hand and a smile plastered to her face... more tightly she curled her hands that the nails dug in her palms the more widespread her smile was - that's how she is feeling at the moment, her world is falling apart right in front of her and she is supposed to play cool. Kanak is sent to the store room as per Massi plan to kill Kanak with gunpowder - she wants a guy Fawkes Accident right in the house to finish off Kanak.
Uma awaits for Kanak to bring the Haldi and Palomi has to say something - she is right there confessing her bhakti turned love for him, and her fear of Kanak ruining her dream of marriage... Uma shuts her down that all this is happening due to Massi's promise. - that woman was confessing of adharm of loving a married man, yet he couldn't use his brain, he has sympathy for the poor lady that she is scared, to hell with her and her fears - the fear would haunt her for the rest of her life, for when people try to steal things not meant for them, the fear of losing is inevitable. It's that feeling that things would slip from ones hands, because not all hands are the same to fit the glove. She can ask for a mangalsutra by gaining sympathy but not a place in his heart, she cannot replace Kanak in his life for that place can never be vacant. Palomi has chosen to have hand me down for herself, second hand husband and second hand mangalsutra. The way Uma walks away to get the mangalsutra is like the ladies have gone crazy and I can't do this game anymore, I will get it and throw it in her face.

Uma walks in and Kanak teases him with a song, he replies that he is no one to him... she asks him that he is concerned about Palomi and Massi but not about her, for she loves him and a piece of paper can't change their love for each other. She holds his arms trying to shake some sense into him - but he is a creature of habit, he has to repeat stuff like a robot - I told you so Kanak, but she had to put a price on their relationship, Kanak answers that every relationship has a price, which she has paid for but their relationship cannot be broken... it's understandable that Uma is hurt, he is still not able to accept the fact that he is divorced from Kanak, Kanak is dancing right in front of him, teasing him, flirting with him, challenging him yet he ignores the obvious and runs behind promises that don't matter... for promises are from the heart and commitment from the mind, when his mind and heart, his soul is entrapped with Kanak how could he even fulfill a single promise. Is he in a way punishing Kanak? For he doesn't ask the reason but is shutting her down, her attempts to reach out to him coldly.

All the while Kanak and Uma were in the store room the cord to the gunpowder is lightened... it's burns as slow as KanUm track in the show - once the spark is lit it should be crackling away, but it's as slow as cvs brains and KanUm romance.

Nice post blue

I found it filler episode
Their convo in store room looked so soulless

When kanak tried to reveal about palomi love for uma in past he lashed out at her and now when palomi herself was confessing i wanted him to remember what kanak told him back then

I didn't like him snatching her mangal sutra like that
But wouldn't have mind one passionate encounter

M literally waiting for some romance in the show
😆




Just saw the epi again
He was so emotional when he was sitting next to palomi ki bas ansu nikal ne ki deri thi

Haha and kanak was funny in starting
When she placed mangal sutra in her mouth

The guy whom she has biten twice was shy to take out that mangal sutra
😆

Originally posted by: foram.

Nice post blue

I found it filler episode
Their convo in store room looked so soulless

When kanak tried to reveal about palomi love for uma in past he lashed out at her and now when palomi herself was confessing i wanted him to remember what kanak told him back then

I didn't like him snatching her mangal sutra like that
But wouldn't have mind one passionate encounter

M literally waiting for some romance in the show
😆

Hey there Foram
Thank you for reading and commenting.

Indeed it was a filler episode, seems like the whole track would be as slow as the cord leading to the mini bomb... the store room conversation lacked interest, the certain scenes which showed the lit cord from behind were added later on, they looked out of place and repetitive...
The way he had pulled the mangalsutra out could have been way more passionate and sensual, like the OLV picture which raised expectations... but it was just tugged and left to hang... they are still on different level of understanding and approach. In dono ka kuch nahi hoga, sab Mahadev bharose hai.

Just edited the above post

Yes editing was bad in store room scene
I read that haldi will fall on both of them ? When? Hope they don't edit out that scene

Originally posted by: foram.

Just edited the above post

Yes editing was bad in store room scene
I read that haldi will fall on both of them ? When? Hope they don't edit out that scene

Haha read the edited version, he is tired of the games played by the ladies in the house. Everyone is smashing him like a tennis ball and he is on the verge of tears now.

Yes the haldi would fall tomorrow, Kanak would climb up to get the box and he would pull her and she would fall in his arms and the haldi will come flying down as Bholenath's ashirwad to KanUm.
And when Massi and Palomi will open the door they would be cringing at KanUm lost in each other's eyes and drenched in haldi 😉 😆 #KanakKNaamKiHaldi

Did I just get too dreamy 😆

Hi blue

You are a star today and looks like you are in dreamland and no matter what you are making us as dreamy as you.

I didn't have any doubt that we will get haldi scene yesterday and the episode is a dragged one with out our star moment. The team fully deserve some kind of award for this wonderful team work.

I want to say so many things but I don't think I will get enough time to put them all through. I will try to post in between so I may say all I want to say.

Please note that most of this post could be nonsense and completely off track. Please bare with me blue and forum friends.

1 Why expressions are so important?

There are so many ways of expressions or communication. Why so many ways?
Different people or living beings communicate according to their nature and feelings.

It looks like most common method of communication is through sounds. We use words and language instead of sounds. But when we fell down and hurt ourselves severely, we scream, shout or yelp.
Our first reaction would still be sounds. Feelings are our learnt behaviour which we will learn through society, our surroundings or education.

Please don't be mad at me blue now but would love your take on it.

Love is also a feeling and so a learnt behaviour?

Love can be something that can be manufactured? (I know you got your pan ready to hit it on my head)
I myself want to hit myself because even with all these weird thoughts, I believe in true love 100% without doubt. And stupid enough to read all romantic novels and will feel cloud nine when true love wins.

We cannot see love then how the world can take advantage of this commodity?

What about Valentine's Day?

What's the relationship between love and chocolates and red roses. Why red roses became symbols of love. Again this been manufactured or developed by society. The same way Mangalsutra is also a thing which will symbolise the love or relationship in fact it actually miniature of the actual other half.

At the end of it when Mangalsutra became more important than man himself?

Please don't throw anything at me.




Both the marriage and Mangalsutra are society products. When you can throw off one what's the point keeping the other one and giving importance to it.

Thanks blueflames!

Hi Blue for ur awesome analysis .I loved kanak boldness and her antics when uma threatened her that he will use force to take it out from her helpless uma cannot do anything he cannot touch her as he very well know he will loose his control.But I am surprised why this uma is not even thinking once why she is not removing even after divorce.He is mad on her for pushing him to divorce her but hecis failing to understand why she has taken this drastic step of sacrificing her life as he very well know its not for the property uma is not even joining points now he has stopped thinking and analysing the situations what happened to our Antharyami uma .Its very hard to see our uma is getting manipulated by all the woman's of the house I can accept massisa becos he respects massisa he has devotion towards her so he listens to her command but this palomi is just a refugee how much guts she has to ask uma to remove the mangalsutra from kanak knowing very well he is loving kanak who gave her this much confidence to reveal her feelings directly to uma I am shocked uma was not even reacting even after knowing that she was eyeing a married man which is meant to be adharam .I was surprised by Uma 's reaction is he confused or he was so much hurted by kanak that he cannot even apply his mind to think further.But he clearly said he is marrying her for only to fulfil his vachan given to massisa and nothing else he does not have a any feelings towards her even even after knowing very well of uma's feelings she is still ready to accept him how shameless she is palomi wants to marry him forcefully will love can be bought by force.Even she is trying to manipulate uma by using massisa How disgusting she is moreover she is comparing herself with bhakt meera .

Hello blue
The episode was indeed a filler episode. But I liked when uma didn't take mangalsutra from kanak's mouth as he would lose control 😆
But palomi uma convo i don't like uma talking to her a bit specially about love and all...uma gave correct expression to palomi like what the hell is she talking about!!! And i was like what the hell are you doing?listen to your heart and break the promise!😆
And you said so right that palomi can never take place in uma's heart coz that won't be vacant anytime! Hope that cvs will speed up kanUm track sooonish...
Nice post :)

Even I don't understand why this much ang pradarshan...why uma keeps roaming shirtless most of the time and also in front of that palomi..there should be a limit of it!!!

Originally posted by: Iceblue

Thanks blueflames!

Loved your last sentence that the gunpowder spark was as slow as the CWs brain! For sure! Kabhi normal hothi hai speed aur kabhi turtle speed!

And tell me how Massi sa plans to make this gun powder explosion look like an accident to the police or Kanak's family. She says it will look like an accident. Does everybody store gunpowder in their house ? Ridiculous! I understand Uma will believe whatever Massi sa tells him to believe but what about the police and Ved? Nobody in their right mind will believe this crap. Pretty stupid on Massi sa's part!

Kis kis baath ko roi! Baath Nikli tho hur baath pay Rona aya!

Hey there Ice

You asked a question and answered it yourself, by quoting Sahir Ludhyanvi
The verses go as follows
~ Kabhi khud pe kabhi halat pe rona aaya
Baat nikli to har ik baat pe rona aaya
Hum to samjhe the ki hum bhool gaye hain unko
Kya hua aaj kis baat pe rona aaya
Kis liye jiite hain hum kis ke liye jiite hain
Barha aise sawalat pe rona aaya
Kaun rota hai kisi aur ki khatir ai dost
Sab ko apni hi kisi baat pe rona aaya ~


As for Massi plan, Aditya plan, Palomi plan, Kanak plan, Uma dummy - the questions are infinite it's just one has to shut down all logical expectations, questions.