Why To Fall In Love ?! - Page 2

Originally posted by: hindifan

Dear Diamond, I was not supporting Uma and his rude behavior. As I said, I didn't want to express an opposite point of view since I even hated Uma lately even if I could understand the circumstances that changed him.

I just wanted to remind Uma whom Kanak fell for. He is the same Uma who stopped Maasi to slap Kanak, who praised Kanak for enlightening him about woman education and who didn't admit Palomi to touch him.Enough reasons to strengthen her feelings for him after coming back. Kanak purposely and assumed challenged him in order to to change his views. What is quit drinking tea when it's about a child's education?

He is the same Uma who himself jumped in fire to save her and assured she is back in her senses before taking back his rude mask.

In other words i tried to understand Kanak.

Meanwhile I totally agree with u that the moment of love realization was too dramatic. And jumping from fire to teddy bears, flowers and balloons- what a poetry! 😛 It would have been more natural to show Kanak intrigued by her feelings and trying to deny or controll them.

Now comes my positive view that you mentioned before and I say that maybe cvs will justify her romantic mood by the future track. I'll give them this credit. 😉

Originally posted by: Iceblue

dear vividiamond,

Please don't be offended by views that contradict yours. You are completely right from where you are standing and hindifan where she is standing in perception and perspectives. In no story or reality is it ok for a woman to choose to be a humiliated martyr over a life of self respect. But I knew this would happen even everybody was sure that kanak would leave or there would be a leap because the drama cannot continue without kanak and uma being in the same place. More than ethics and morality, the CWs have to continue this serial. That's their prerogative above all. I don't think the story was rushed at all! In fact what sadist could take any more of this shit that we have had to put up with for the last two months. So much vile! I actually have to watch two other serials just to wash TSMSP down when before this drama was all I needed for a beautiful day.

Hindifan is correct. Kanak was already in love before she chose to come back to Ladno with Uma from Pushkar. And this love was earned by Uma. She just realized it now. And had Massa not told Kanak about Uma being beguiled by Massi sa , I think she would have left. Don't know what the CWs would have allowed but at least Kanak was getting frustrated and would have considered leaving. After Massa told Kanak , it stirred the sandhiya rathi genes in her. Kanak is on a mission. See and understand her as a (Cop) not an oppressed victim. Remember how she has to always advocate for others and fight for what is right. She is not one to give up. We have been shown that crazy side of her time and time again. Remember when she spoke so many times for Payal or suman or saras, jeopardizing everything for herself ! And like kanak said earlier, " jab may kisi say Pyar karthi hoo tho us kay liay kuch bhi kar sakthi hoo ". So why wouldn't she do something for the family she considers her own or the man she considers her husband and now realizes she loves!!??

There should be some punishment for Uma but we should not forget he is a victim who has been abused since he was a child. He has had to live this life of an orphan who lives on the alms of love that massi sa cunningly throws his way. However I hope Uma will make it up to Kanak for all this bull shit he has been putting her through!

I just realized how all this is one sad story of two orphans who have been deprived of love one way or the other ! I have a slow brain don't I friends? 😆

Originally posted by: Parmeen

Originally posted by: savithp

Originally posted by: VividDiamond

I hated Uma when Kanak was being thrown out, however after Uma stopped Aditya and Payal from sharing room, kanak said irrespective of what all Massi tried to fill Umas brains with, his respect for women couldn't be manipulated. She acknowledged Uma's respect for women. I guess she knows Uma can be redeemed, so she doesn't stop from acknowledging her love. She had controlled her love, now she is opening up to save her relationship as Uma can be redeemed.

Originally posted by: Parmeen

Hii Savith P !! 😊

Yes, Kanak is very good at heart and is a positive soul too. I understand that. At the same time, we cannot deny the fact that her self-respect and self-identity is being challenged each and every time. This is not what she wished for.

Arrey yaar Uma, why you soo stupid right now ? Just ask for forgiveness to Kanak. What's such a big deal about it ? You've done wrong to her not just once but numerous times. Asking for forgiveness just once will all do it. Atleast I will forgive you. I will also agree with Kanak's feelings for you then.

I'll also stop pissing people on this forum, with my off the expectations posts...😆😆

Originally posted by: VividDiamond

Awwiee Hindifan !! You're too cute ! Take that as a compliment. ⭐️

I wasn't oppossing Kanak too. I was oppossing her love for the present Uma. Anyway, you've tried looking at the positive side and thanks a lot for explaining it to me...❤️

But I still don't understand the point behind all this...😕😭 Atleast Uma should have asked for forgiveness to her, and she should have then realised her love. The old gentleman Uma ko dekhkar mera bhi dil pighal jaata...

Originally posted by: hindifan