Weird Questions - Page 2

Originally posted by: ziah

On a very realistic level, a relationship like that could not work. When people are such opposites they might get attracted, but it doesn't work. I would personally, leave such a man. Period.

It's really really really hard to change habits, let alone beliefs. Hence, realistically Palomi is well suited to be his wife. I know, no matter how hot a person like that looks, I would not want to have a relationship with him.

Yes, we don't always get the kind of person we wanted, but a person like Uma is impossible to live with. If a woman was forced to become like Uma when she was modern, she would be depressed and a person who isn't happy themselves can't make anyone happy.

And I believe that is the sad reality of life. Uma-Kanak pair is impossible, very realistically speaking. But exceptions are always there. xD

Originally posted by: desigal2017

I would wear my high heels and run!

Originally posted by: Iceblue

I was honestly trying to imagine all kinds of scenarios that would let kanak eradicate some of the mistrust that has developed and bring Uma out of this insanity and brainwashed avatar.

1) I think kanak should clear the mistrust first. Maybe she could have sworn on Bhabho's head or her brothers that she had nothing to do with it. Because Saras saying it wasn't enough!

2) Maybe Bhabho should have a talk with Uma.

3) Maybe kanak could find something from the shaastars and do an Agni pariksha to prove her innocence. But then I had an image of her walking over hot coals and I got shivers.

4) maybe she could go to his guru not Baal brahmachari but someone he got education from or jeno ( the string around his torso) and ask how she can get trough to Uma.

5) try to speed up the recover process with Massa and maybe she will bring everyone to their senses.

6) tie up uma and cover his mouth and gen make him listen to what saras and vansh have to say about this whole thing happened. Maybe meena and Bhabho can defend her to.

I don't think Uma is in the mood to be convinced by kanak the way she has been able to in the past. I think at the end only prayers might work!

Originally posted by: savithp

Uma will come to his senses only if Kanak walks out on him or Maasa raising her voice for Kanak! No other logic or reasoning is possible in this anger state, so kanak should leave for pushkar asap.

Originally posted by: hindifan

I would like to see the warrior Kanak speaking out loud the truth and not permit him or anybody else to stop her. Then tell him to check up for truth as she is tired to prove her honesty and devotion as a wife again and again, whilst he only speaks like a dharam pati but he doesn't act like one. She should leave to Pushkar and tell him to come after her only when he is absolutely convinced about her innocence, not before and not for other reason.

Also she should assure him that Saras will live a happy life at Rathis, as a free woman, like she has never been in Toshnivals.

Kanak doesn't need anybody to defense her.

Originally posted by: zazu123

MY best suggestion for kanak is to Manage uma's anger first.

He will be able to connect the dots if he remain calm..rest like, trust, plot game will be solved on its own...

kanak dear..plz stop acting like MR. TRUMP..pressurizing him TO PEEL his dharma ki pati ..he needs to awaken his common sense first.😲

Originally posted by: Calypso05

Before doing anything, Kanak should leave Uma alone, let his mind calm down because maasisa poisoned his mind. He's super angry with her. Whatever she will say or she will do Uma will not care about her.

Kanak's missions :

- Firstly, she should prove her innoncence in Saravansh wedding and in the police complaint.
- Secondly, she should advise Vansh and ask him to live happily with Saras.
- Thirdly, she should talk to Uma about his childhood, why is he soo obsessed with dharam ?
- Fourthly, she should learn about maasisa's and the Toshniwal's past. What happenned to Uma's father ? , the reason behind maasa illness, details about Suman's and Shiv's parents death and why and where did Adhithya run away ?
- Fifthly, she should discover who is Palomi ? why Uma refuge her in his house ?

NA RONA, NA DARNA, NA HICHKI, YAAD RAKH KANAK TU BETI HAI KISKI !

Send positive waves to Kanak, she needs them

Originally posted by: Kaanum

I wouldn't have accepted Uma as my husband straight away after the arrest in Pushkar. I was safe in my own home and had family support.

Even though i started having feelings for him etc I would've said maybe we were meant to be but we need to sort some important issues before we give this marriage a chance. I'll say what i expect in this marriage and ask him the same and see what can be compromised and what not. at that time I would've pointed out my issues with his extreme dharam and if he says no etc. I would say challo its up to you, go back ladnu and let me know. No pressure, Im still young I can wait, if not i can marry someone who is on my level with life.

Because of his other good qualities and my sanskar and of his hot and sexy looks i am in ladnu back to him and tolerate what has been going on so far, as I thought i could change his unjust dharam. But after all these allegations today and keep proving myself by now I would flip but keep cool as im in the temple and got my elders bhabo etc with me and say let's go back home and discuss this.

I would clear and prove that I had nothing to do with saras and vansh before i go. It also involves my brother and accusing bhabo. Then after that say to Uma that if i have to keep proving myself here im sorry but I don't think this marriage will work. Im going puskar with my family and you can stay here with your family and dharam as ive had enough. And if he keeps pointing his finger at me and shouting then I start on my swears and if need be say F*** off all of you and go.

This is the best time for bhabo to take Kanak to pushkar for few days so Uma can feel the separation from kanak.

But I wouldn't divorce him now as I know its not Uma doing all this its Masisa and her tricks and feel for him and worry that masisa may feed him more nonsense about me etc but a separation is needed soon so Uma can miss me and want to be with me. 😆😆😆