14/10 Episode Discussion!!

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Without doubt "any wrong-doing (not in Kanak's case) will be held against one not realizing the effort they made to make it up for. The police announces that making a woman a sevika is against the law and against women rights, as per complaint they have to arrest Uma. Uma says that he is a responsible citizen and nothing is above law - duh dude you live under a rock, you decided for your sister, you going to send her off with some baba... that time you didn't realize the law/qanoon and today you are ready to surrender.
Kanak steps in front of Uma, saying that she won't let him get arrested, - that's a wife's duty, her passion and commitment towards her husband. She knows that what he is doing is a crime, she wants him to stop, she wants saras to be saved but not at the cost of Uma being in jail - that shows the either the maturity that a woman is up to protect her man, the belief that she would be able to convince him to cross over to the other side or its sheer stupidity to not make use of the opportunity. - Kanak's action shows her effort towards keeping the relationships intact, Uma is different and difficult but he is only hers to change. All the women who have been oppressed one way or the other by Uma come forward to protect him.
The complaint was supposed to be anonymous, yet Uma gets a copy of from the commissioner... all the while Suman steps up thinking that Kanak complained against Uma, taking the blame of herself.. Palomi egging annoyed by her lies comes to slap her and Kanak holds her hand puts her in her place... how dare she hit the daughter of the house, how dare she interfere in the matters of the family. Palomi is a refugee and should stay in her limits - my only reaction was *burn B*tch burn* it was high time Palomi was shown her limits. If she is to be with family then should behave like family. Suman sides with Kanak for she is bringing positive change in the house. Palomi looks on in spite while everyone leaves - that's the difference between being Apna and paraya... being selfless and greed - Palomi wants to be part of Uma's life, she has lived so long with family yet she cannot tolerate being called out that also when she is on the wrong.
Uma is upset with Kanak and brings back the past to ruin their present. He reminds her cruelly of how she had him arrested in Pushkar and now she tried it again. He screams at her, he is expressing his anger and questions her methods of changing him... Kanak all the while try to deflect the blame, but Uma is not ready to listen and just shuts her down saying that nothing can stop saras from being a sevika.
Massa rings her bell and everyone rushes to her side... she points out to Kanak's hand which has haldi on it, indicating that Kanak was at home taking care of her while the complaint was lodged - haldi the color saved Kanak... massa despite being invalid comes to the rescue of her daughter, a daughter she knows is on the right... it's a beautiful scene when a saas takes over the role of a mother to protect her daughter. While Kanak was unable to defend herself, massa rescues her from Uma's wrath. Uma apologizes in an instant, saying that he is sorry - Kanak says it's okay but she is hurt nonetheless that he called her a liar.. but the more important issue is who was the imposter.

Thank you blue for the posts every day

Originally posted by: manasa.123

Thank you blue for the posts every day

I liked today episode especially Massa saving Kanak.

I also liked the way Kanak reminded Palomi of her position.

Hope Uma and Kanak will find out about the Palomi duplicity..

Hey there Manasa
Thank you for reading and commenting 😊
Massa's intervention was indeed a relief. But the way Uma went nuclear on Kanak was something to watch out for... everything was said and done by him and Kanak was left repeating herself that she didn't do it - massa brought sense into Uma and he apologized for his behavior towards Kanak. But Kanak should have dragged it a bit but as the occasion calls they just hushed it after raising a lot of hue n cry.

Ohhh you have no idea how satisfying it was when Kanak came in between Suman and Palomi - I mean like she was throwing daggers at Palomi by her eyes only and Palomi had to step back burning.

I think it's a start towards Kanak standing up to Palomi. She didn't bother with Palomi since day 1, but during the whole police issue Palomi was instigating who did what. Kanak should start keeping an eye on her.

Kanak should not leave this matter easily with Uma.

I agree with you that she should make the most out of it.
She should point out to Uma how he is not ready to even listen to her and get a promise from him that atleast in future he should give her benefit of doubt.

Uma is always shown in objectivity in anger too even in previous episodes. I guess he is going difficult time just like us with all the twists. I also think that Dharma became his solace as Massa is invalid and he didn't get much emotional support from Massisa. He is still unaware that his understanding of Dharma is wrong.

One good thing to note that he is not egotistical. I am glad that he asked apologies and it's Kanak turn to make him realise on how such things could have handled better in future in more appropriate way. They are not kids to lash out to each other but role models to each one of the family as often pointed out by Uma.

I do think there's huge contradictions in Uma's thoughts and actions before and now.

Originally posted by: blueflames

Hey there all the lovely people!!
I am adat se majboor to make posts everyday.
Apologies for being late.
Direct to discussion.



Without doubt "any wrong-doing (not in Kanak's case) will be held against one not realizing the effort they made to make it up for. The police announces that making a woman a sevika is against the law and against women rights, as per complaint they have to arrest Uma. Uma says that he is a responsible citizen and nothing is above law - duh dude you live under a rock, you decided for your sister, you going to send her off with some baba... that time you didn't realize the law/qanoon and today you are ready to surrender.
Kanak steps in front of Uma, saying that she won't let him get arrested, - that's a wife's duty, her passion and commitment towards her husband. She knows that what he is doing is a crime, she wants him to stop, she wants saras to be saved but not at the cost of Uma being in jail - that shows the either the maturity that a woman is up to protect her man, the belief that she would be able to convince him to cross over to the other side or its sheer stupidity to not make use of the opportunity. - Kanak's action shows her effort towards keeping the relationships intact, Uma is different and difficult but he is only hers to change. All the women who have been oppressed one way or the other by Uma come forward to protect him.
The complaint was supposed to be anonymous, yet Uma gets a copy of from the commissioner... all the while Suman steps up thinking that Kanak complained against Uma, taking the blame of herself.. Palomi egging annoyed by her lies comes to slap her and Kanak holds her hand puts her in her place... how dare she hit the daughter of the house, how dare she interfere in the matters of the family. Palomi is a refugee and should stay in her limits - my only reaction was *burn B*tch burn* it was high time Palomi was shown her limits. If she is to be with family then should behave like family. Suman sides with Kanak for she is bringing positive change in the house. Palomi looks on in spite while everyone leaves - that's the difference between being Apna and paraya... being selfless and greed - Palomi wants to be part of Uma's life, she has lived so long with family yet she cannot tolerate being called out that also when she is on the wrong.
Uma is upset with Kanak and brings back the past to ruin their present. He reminds her cruelly of how she had him arrested in Pushkar and now she tried it again. He screams at her, he is expressing his anger and questions her methods of changing him... Kanak all the while try to deflect the blame, but Uma is not ready to listen and just shuts her down saying that nothing can stop saras from being a sevika.
Massa rings her bell and everyone rushes to her side... she points out to Kanak's hand which has haldi on it, indicating that Kanak was at home taking care of her while the complaint was lodged - haldi the color saved Kanak... massa despite being invalid comes to the rescue of her daughter, a daughter she knows is on the right... it's a beautiful scene when a saas takes over the role of a mother to protect her daughter. While Kanak was unable to defend herself, massa rescues her from Uma's wrath. Uma apologizes in an instant, saying that he is sorry - Kanak says it's okay but she is hurt nonetheless that he called her a liar.. but the more important issue is who was the imposter.

Hi Blue

Originally posted by: Parmeen

Hi Blue

Great write up once again.😊😊

It about time Kanak showed Paulomi her place , maybe Suman is slowly starting to realise how nice Kanak is & that maybe she maybe be able to change the stone man

good for massa saving Kanak. Uma really needs some grey matter though.

I guess Kanak will never be allowed to forget that Uma was arrested because of her

Hey there
Thank you for reading and commenting.
I loved that Kanak came in between Palomi n Suman, a daughter/son shouldn't be hit on... violence should never be a means to an end, especially not to shut someone up.
Suman is currently st Kanak's side, for she knows only Kanak can get her a different future.
Uma's jail yatra would be a memorable event always.

Hi blue,

Originally posted by: Mansi_jg

Hi blue,

Wonderful analysis as always!!

Today's episode was awesome...i like the scene when sumn stands for kanak and she gave right answer to palomi .Kanak show palomi her real place that suman is the daughter of house and it's their personal matter so she should not interfere in this and not to forget that she is a refugee and stay in her limit👏👏I was waiting for this scene. The real star of the episode was the masa, Masa was kanak's saviour today, she knows that kanak is the who can change uma and toshniwal household. Can't wait to see her to get well and support kanak. I remember that uma said that as soon as he get to know the real culprit who filed police complaints he has to leave the house...can't wait to see that seen, I know it will take a while but it will worth it.

Hey there Mansi
Thank you for reading and a wonderful comment.
I have this personal perspective that if a person be it a refugee or some distant relative who lives in the same house, does the same chores becomes a part of the household... the family treats the person almost equal but things go haywire when that person starts to assume authority. When that person turns vengeful on the family itself. That's when the need to put them in their place comes up and Kanak has done it brilliantly and in the process added more hatred in Palomi
Massa recovery has been speeded up as Massi turned negative. Hope to seee more entertaining drama.
But I loved when massa saved Kanak. Not all MIL are negative. Some are good too.

Aah would love to see Uma throwing Palomi out of the house.

Hi Blue - Your discussions keeps me in the loop :) And its often waaay better than the episode.