14/07 Even in silence there is chaos!!

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hey there all the lovely people.
Direct to the episode today, as I am already late in posting.


Today's episode was all about betrayal. How things are in front on the eyes, right in front of one and one is unable to see through it. Two parts for the episode

Nirmohi --- word of the day. Kanak walks towards the pooja, not as a participant but as a general viewer. She had to attend the pooja for her little devar shiv. She sees her picture besides Uma... she is taken back in disbelief, a horror strikes through her soul and she utters in bewilderment that there is no difference between a human and a picture. She composed herself and walked to the pooja, smiled at shiv and took a place in the last row. All the ladies moved away inches from her, leaving her in a space that left her unwanted. She looks at Uma and he looks back, their eyes asking a million questions, the hurt, the pain, the disappointment, feeling unwanted Kanak said it all with silence. Uma couldn't take his eyes off her, he wanted her besides him, yet there she was lost, hurt and distant to him. Their eyes spoke volumes but I don't think 'they could understand each other' they could see the surface but not the storm hiding beneath that calm, they both had expectations from each other, and both failed each other. None stood for the other and they are there sitting and looking at each other, wanting to scream, hold and comfort other, yet distant and miles away from each other.
Kanak was sad, depressed, silent today yet when shiv's ceremony was progressing she was happy for him. Her joy made her overlook the betrayal she felt... she even smiled when Payal was asked to be shiv's gurumaa. But the way Uma looked at Kanak said clearly that he wanted this title for her...Kanak too desired it, but she was happy for Payal nonetheless.
Uma gives a 'damru' pendant to shiv, saying that this is a start to be like him. Shiv goes to Kanak and asks for a gift, but she is hesitant, shiv takes ashirwad and says your love is enough for me -- this little kid is wise and smart beyond his age. For him materials should be enchanting but there he is happy with just Kanak present there, her love, affection and ashirwad is enough for him... this shows how important Kanak is to him. A place earned in his life with care n love. Payals mother taunts sweetly that Kanak has forgotten the gift... but Kanak gives it back to her by presenting a gift to shiv, she hesitantly brings the pendant out and it's revealed that Uma and Kanak had bought similar gifts. Shiv is overjoyed and states that these two think so much alike, While everyone else look impressed with Kanak.. Kanak and Uma look towards each other.

I was wondering yesterday how would the ice be broken... Kanak was silent, everyone moving away from her. But today I think that having a similar gift,made a dent in that ice. Kanak would be more silent maybe, more focused on doing the challenge.

Coming to the second part : it's Golu weds Rani. Why are all the weddings in this show either forced or secret. Rani has kinda forced Golu into this marriage.. it might seem as a comic relief from more serious issues prevalent.. but is it really comic. I understand Golu and Rani are interested in each other, they love each other and Rani was instigating him to express his love towards her, to accept her in front of the world, in front of his mother... but what did they do today. They got married secretly, and when meenakshi and babasa reach there Golu is terrified of being caught and they both hide the fact that they are married now.
Golu betrayed his own mother, instead of waiting for her approval he jumped the gun and got married, and now when his mother right in front of him, he still can't accept it to her. Rani on the other hand wanted acceptance in front of the whole world, a confident man who would love her cherish her, be with her as strength and support, one who would make her a real Rani -- by real Rani I mean 'his queen'. But what did Rani settle on today, secrecy, a man who tremble at the mere mention of his mother. A mother whom he loves devotedly and is scared of hurting. She settled on a man who is scared of accepting her, their relationship a secret. -- how do these two intend to move forward is beyond me. What was the dire necessity to get married today itself. Why not wait for acceptance from family... why the secret.. what are they waiting for now, to have kids. Meenakshi might comes as a jovial lovely person, but she has seen a lot of pain in life, betrayed by her husband, her house broken, her family torn apart, she invested herself in Golu and how does Golu pay her back. Atleast be decent enough to be truthful to ones mother.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Shiv going to kanak his fav bhabhisa for his gift, and when misunderstanding that kanak might have not actually gotten a gift for shiv.. and still shiv with a heartwarming smile and with all the love he have for his kanak bhabhisa states that, her love and ashirwad is alone enough for him and such materialistic things doesn't matter. That was like a slap on payals face, she might have become shiv's guruma as per ritual but through shiv's heart, kanak will be the only one who he will think as his guruma.

Lovely take on the whole epi like always blu.
Edited by zaisha1 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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very nice analysis blue 👍🏼
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Awesome post blue.
Rain and golu marriage seemed rushed to me. Why the urgency in getting married ? Golu can ask meenakshi 's approval. Can persuade her. But no, rain was determined in getting married, so she blackmailed golu into marriage, I feel bad for meenakshi.
For me, Kanak stole the show. I felt her sadness, her happiness for Shiv, her eye locks with Uma , her every emotion was bang on. I loved how Kanak showed her gift to Shiv especially when Payal's mom taunted that she might have forgotten.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Star_Wonder

Awesome post blue.

Rain and golu marriage seemed rushed to me. Why the urgency in getting married ? Golu can ask meenakshi 's approval. Can persuade her. But no, rain was determined in getting married, so she blackmailed golu into marriage, I feel bad for meenakshi.
For me, Kanak stole the show. I felt her sadness, her happiness for Shiv, her eye locks with Uma , her every emotion was bang on. I loved how Kanak showed her gift to Shiv especially when Payal's mom taunted that she might have forgotten.



Hey there - thank you so much.

Golu Rani wedding has definitely been rushed. It's rushed, secret and betrayal - all these ingredients are a recipe for a disaster. Golu had been so sweet and natural in previous episodes. The one who could speak his mind when the need arises but then he just became a puppet.

Kanak was definitely the star today. Actually nobody in US family had much dialogue today. It was just calm and silence. The way US couldn't take his eyes off Kanak was heart touching. Their eyes spoke for them.

Yeah the way Kanak held her head and showed the gift at the right moment was beautiful.. she kept control on her outburst, emotions is definitely commendable.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hello dear smurf, what can I say I had so many thoughts when i watched the episode...
their silent communication was splendid...no words to express...he can sense her disappointment and sadness...before that she was taken aback with her picture sitting next to him...which shook her to the core...so many disappointments for her...I do not know how to explain what I feel with that scene...but I felt a great deal...the other ladies moving away from her...it is what all do...Paloumi was making space for her...and the rest did not want to be touched her...which says abt their small thinking, which K will change..

She has so much love to give, even though shaken with the pic, Shiv's smiling face beckoned her, which she will never ignore given her nature, I like this track so far we are able to understand K so much more. K cleared it does not matter if you are a guruma or not...K's blessing's is all that matters...K was happy for her favorite devar...that was cute...US and K think alike, their ideologies do not match, but the love and care they have in their hearts is the same...

My toughts...Paloumi said no being the bad guy so they had to change Payal to be bad...she needs to go thru transformation too...

I really liked yesterday's episode...their silent communication did it for me 👏...and their love for Shiv...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I am ignoring writing on Golu and Rani they left a sour taste in my mouth...ignoring them the rest of the episode was good...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Blue - beautiful analysis.
Kanak n Uma both now see the gulf of differences btwn them...together yet apart.

Golu and Rani cheated themselves as well as their families today. Ashamed for them both.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hey nice take on epi as always

For golu rani they started off really well with blind date and all but after that they didn't really built their relationship well so most if the time I ff their scenes.

Coming to today's epi it was beautiful
Yest uma was hurt today kanak. She was taken a back, hurt but she smiled for shiv...
Their eye lock was beautiful... They expressed something which they never did in words... Coz they don't talk only
Today's epi was visual poetry... Less words but still everything was expressed beautifully... One reason to stick by this show no matter what is actors.
Felt bad when payal was made shivs guruma but payal can never take kanaks place for shiv ever... They bonded very well since very first epi
The gift was really beautiful.. i love this damru pendent... Even uma wears one and also kanaks mangal sutra...
This show is just beautiful man whether with cinematography or presentation


Also since this dharma patni mantra was used in tsmsp now every other show is using it.. i watch many other shows but never heard this karesu dasi mantra but now every other show is playing it... Even if it has nothing to do with the scene or story 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Blue once again you nailed it out of the park

The are so many quotes about the eyes. "The eyes are the window to your soul"

As a christian I was taught

"The eye is the lamb of the body" You draw light through you body by your eyes and lights shine out to the world. So your eyes is truth and today we saw Kanak & Uma truth through there eyes.

More for me was Kanak truth and Uma understanding it. Kanak wasn't just shocked by the photo but shaken to the core. I said out loud why does matter and my mother said are you blind don't you see kanak started caring for the family and her husband.

I guess you can't live, talk and have intimate moments with your partner and not feel anything for them. Uma family is Kanak too, cause what they think of her matters. So I understand kanak now why she gets affected with FB, of Uma saying if you don't pass this test our relationship is over. Or worry that family respect for her will fall if they knew what she did with the jalebi

I have no doubt Kanak still wants the shop, but I don't think is the only motivating factor now to pass dharampatni test. I also saw genuine smile from massisa when Kanak give Shiv his gift

Shiv & Kanak is beautiful and I have no words to describe it

Payal is a liar with cheap thinking like her mother, and I hate to think what massi sa will do if she find out the trick she played on kanak. It will be like when she lied about her eating onion.

Palomi, is still a liar and her mission to have Uma notice her isn't abandon.

Golu & Rani are selfish and cheaters

Sorry for my long post.


Edited by pyar-ishk - 8 years ago

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