Lost identity - your take - Page 10

Originally posted by: punjabi#1

I have actually seen a few families like that...you know the ones that don't try to Indianize there kids.

I actually believe parents should indianize there kids a little but not the way they are currently doing it by shoving it down our throats. Parents should make it a fun experience by taking their kids to the theatre to watch a indian movie or going to the temple or a indian party or anywhere they can interact with other indians and learn about their culutre at their own pace.

Bingo....healthy balance is the key here.👍🏼. Batcha, pehley bol detey na....itna lamba chauda post nahin likhna padta😆😆......🤗

Originally posted by: qwertyesque

I thought somebody was trying to prove something programmatically... 😊

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Originally posted by: sareg

funny we are talking about the people who might have lost identity, the intended target is the kids born and/or bought up in America, she is one(perhaps the only one😆) and everyone claims they are right and she is wrong😆

Vinit, read all her posts. She also thinks the exact same as some of us put in our posts. We all are speaking from our first hand experience. So, in a sense, we all are right from our perspective.

geez...looks like I was spamming up there 😕

Originally posted by: Gauri_3

Vinit, read all her posts. She also thinks the exact same as some of us put in our posts. We all are speaking from our first hand experience. So, in a sense, we all are right from our perspective.

you are talking from a parent standpoint, we all(barring a few children acting like adults😉, hopefully this makes Raunaq happy😆) look at it from the parent standpoint, that is the whole difference here😉

^^^excuse me excuse me 👎🏼 you think i am a parent? 😆 😆 😆 i am laughing so hard writing this 😆 😆 😆

Originally posted by: sareg

you are talking from a parent standpoint, we all look at it from the parent standpoint, that is the whole difference here😉

No, not really. Unlike many of the FOBs here, I actually did my bachelors from here too...and then masters. So I was not surrounded by all FOBs when I went to school here. Infact, there was not a single FOB in my class when I was doing my BBA.

I was surrounded by all american born and/or brought up kids of all races.....including desi. I did not come across any who were confused. Actually, some of them were very confident and creatively handled their parents' "no dating...no s**" rules. They were smarter than their gora counterparts. Parental support and secured family background provided them with the kind of emotional security that many "american-american" don't have.

Apart from this experience, I am raising two daughters here..one in 7th grade and other in 1st.....so puhleez....trust me when I say that I know these desi kids....at least whom I know....are not confused. They are more secured than other races.

Originally posted by: sareg

you are talking from a parent standpoint, we all(barring a few children acting like adults😉, hopefully this makes Raunaq happy😆)look at it from the parent standpoint, that is the whole difference here😉

whaaaaaaaat? 😡 😡 😡 dont call me a kid,i am offended now, where is the report button 😆 😆 😆

Originally posted by: raunaq

whaaaaaaaat? 😡 😡 😡 dont call me a kid,i am offended now, where is the report button 😆 😆 😆

Its to the left of what you just hit..May be you hit this by mistake..Now hit that left button.. 😃

Originally posted by: raksha.l

Its to the left of what you just hit..May be you hit this by mistake..Now hit that left button.. 😃

You girls are silly 😆 😆 😆