Why is Abhira Poor - Page 5

Originally posted by: India_TV

I believe that it is a personal choice to work...jaise ruhi is not working...and neither has any ambition except becoming Mrs Armaan Poddar...Rohit bhi nahi hai...and ruhi is still in poddar house...

Madhav and Vidya, are married....bahar kaam to Vidya bhi nahi karti hai....and neither r they shown happily married.....woh bhi Poddar house mein hain...

Dadi and Ruhi dono ke hubbies nahi hain, but both r staying the the PH.....

Abhira is married...and is staying with her hubby.....

Abhira and Armaan are married.....legally Hindu religion ke hisaab se bhi....Armaan has emphasized on this while Abhira was in the hospital....To Abhira work kare ya na kare...she can not b tagged as a free loader....uss hisaab se to saari married women, jo bahar work nahi karti hain free loader ban jaayengi...

But yes, Abhira has been shown working since young age...apni mamma ki help karti thi...resort run karne mein bhi and legal cases mein bhi...she is an intern and earns a salary...usi salary se she was shwon bringing gifts for all these family members..she was shown as the most efficient intern....may b because she has had practical experience by helping her mom....

she is expert in multitasking.....arman ke thru makers ne ise specify kiya hai...😂

.she cooks breakfast for the whole family...which in one of the three main meals of the day....ghar mein 4 ladies hain...dadi and kajal ko chod kar....even when fufa ki family is shown eating here...to 1 meal to woh banati hai.....even when she is not allowed to eat with other members on the dining table...

She has been keeping track of all the expenses (AirCon, etc etc) so she has intentions of even repaying that.....

so, makers have made sure that no one can tag her as a free loader...baki jise jo kahna hai uska kya....😂

exactly freeloader Toh woh ruhi hain..  she does not even have the ability to go and check a man for herself ..  
her Old grandparents got swindled of a large sum of money but she has not moved an inch .. freeloader Kee sath sath bad omen bhi hai Jo bhi usey ke sath legal connection ho woh duniya se Tata bye 👋 ho jata hai

her dad mom , poppy and now poor Rohit ..  what was his fault why did Ruhi strike her bad luck on him .. 
bechari Vidya .. 

Originally posted by: Swathiyaa

Bharathi if u see ruhi is biggest freeloader.. Dadisa has freed her from that house and given her permission to go and findanother guy for herself , her own family is calling her but she is not going.. Kya sikaya uske so called father ne.. 

Originally posted by: Aadi04

exactly freeloader Toh woh ruhi hain..  she does not even have the ability to go and check a man for herself ..  
her Old grandparents got swindled of a large sum of money but she has not moved an inch .. freeloader Kee sath sath bad omen bhi hai Jo bhi usey ke sath legal connection ho woh duniya se Tata bye 👋 ho jata hai

her dad mom , poppy and now poor Rohit ..  what was his fault why did Ruhi strike her bad luck on him .. 
bechari Vidya .. 

ruhi ke intentions hi wrong hain...s\rohit se shaadi karne ke...poddar house mein rahne ke....uska bas ek hi motive hai..armaan ke paas rahna...whether this is right or not, isse use koi farak nahi padta...isse kisi ko kitna hurt hota hai....she is least bothered....even after rohit left home. his family has lost hopes of him bein alive...fir bhi use koi guilt nahi hai...and she is still here.....even when her own old folks needed her....she did not budhe at all.....yeh woh hi hain jinhone uski khushi ke liye pregnant akshu ko jaane ke liye kaha tha...

to ruhi ka characetr is pura dheela......

warna IMO, even is she stays with poddars, to bhi theek hai...bahuu hai ghar ki...jsie dadi is staying, dadaji nahi hain to...ruhi can stay to.....she will ot b a free loader...IMO 

Originally posted by: sandhir.candy

In that case, Abhira chose most useless person to use & throw! The only condition of deal was Armaan helping Abhira complete her education & giving shelter & protection from Yuvraj for a year.

Here she had to do everything on her own to even start her college & internship! The supposed use & throw person was unable to even open his mouth to say that Abhira will complete her studies & will do job in the future in front of his family. & she didn’t even expect him to do so.

She is the one who with the help of police, gets Yuvraj arrested. Agreed the person she was supposed to use & throw came at the last moment.

But I guess, Abhira is not even talented enough to utilise her use & throw marriage well.

Abhira started helping her mom from a very young age. she is working as an intern she pays her college fees, am loving the writers the way they r giving befitting reply on the faces of those  who r calling her a FREELOADER by showing the elobrated details how  she is keeping the details of all expenses she have to pay to poddar’s , including the electricity bill. Lamo . Still Abhira is a free loader because we know why , RS and DKP she is the bahu of poddar’s like other bahus except free loader Ruhii. She is married to Armaan legally and traditionally. LOL they also showed their marriage certificate 🤣

 Naira might be feeling proud of her granddaughter her Akshu and Abhinav’s cutie Abhira Sharma  for being such a strong and independent women at such young age. 
      Ruhi ijithi jagthi example of a  free loader,1st on Goenka’s and now on poddar’s. Everyone left her so is an orphan and also  became a free loader in Goenka’s house where Abhira has equal rights too. And now she have nothing to do with Poddar’s as Dadi gave her all the freedom  ..but still this free loader wants beech ke rastha ,EMA with her jeth, apne married jeth ke liye night mein dinner leke jathi hai and she stays outside AA’s room. Sam said this in the latest IV 😂😂 She wears heavy make up and then goes on morning walks to tang adana in everyone’s matters. She does nothing at home or outside. All the other bahus including Abhira does house hold chores in the house  unlike Free loader Ruhi who just sit at home , eat and fight. Ruhi ko kya characterless bana diya hai makers ne. They literally showing 2 contrary characters Abhira Sharma and Ruhi 
  Anyone who is watching the show will agree with this as these r not false narratives but shown in the episodes.

edited for hate speech

Edited by LizzieBennet - 1 months ago

Originally posted by: sandhir.candy

In that case, Abhira chose most useless person to use & throw! The only condition of deal was Armaan helping Abhira complete her education & giving shelter & protection from Yuvraj for a year.

Here she had to do everything on her own to even start her college & internship! The supposed use & throw person was unable to even open his mouth to say that Abhira will complete her studies & will do job in the future in front of his family. & she didn’t even expect him to do so.

She is the one who with the help of police, gets Yuvraj arrested. Agreed the person she was supposed to use & throw came at the last moment.

But I guess, Abhira is not even talented enough to utilise her use & throw marriage well.

Ofcourse she is not talented that’s why she fought case from both the side in court  

@bold : that’s why someone here said that abhira is not independent yet. That’s the whole point that here independent woman is not self sufficient as of now that’s why there is a need of deal/contract marriage like use and throw! After all jisko useless bola ja raha hai ussi admi se shelter , protection and education help mil rahi hai still that admi is useless! As I said , classic example of use and throw 

Edited by sweet_tania - 1 months ago

Itna ladai kaiko? Topic hi galat hai. Abhira is not poor 

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

“ Contract marriage “ word is the main thing in abhira’s case. There is a difference in between “contract marriage “ and “marriage “. 

Poddar house mai baki sab couples chahe khush ho chahe dukhi ho chahe akele ho lekin sab ki “marriage “ hui hai and abhira khud he openly shaddi ko “contract marriage “ category mai daal rahi hai. 

“Contract marriage “ is like use and throw that’s why abhira ka poddar house mai rehna, khana , pina  can’t be compare with all those daughter in laws who have not done “contract marriage “ like vidya or that chachi or ruhi. 
Since “contract marriage “ is condition based use and throw arrangement, abhira is not looking independent. 

Since writers yaha whole day ghumte rehte hai, I hope contract term ko future mai cover kar le. 

aur toh aur abhira also had an opportunity to help her mother financially by staying calm in hotel. But all she did was disrespected her guests made them to question her mother and even made armaan to make that swan with towel. Either she was helping her mom so that clients can throw case at hotel and her mom can take up the case and owner gives her extra money or she clearly don't liked doing that job. 

I have never seen kids interfering in parents jobs. I have helped my parents when i was small but i never went and humiliated customers 

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

“ Contract marriage “ word is the main thing in abhira’s case. There is a difference in between “contract marriage “ and “marriage “. 

Poddar house mai baki sab couples chahe khush ho chahe dukhi ho chahe akele ho lekin sab ki “marriage “ hui hai and abhira khud he openly shaddi ko “contract marriage “ category mai daal rahi hai. 

“Contract marriage “ is like use and throw that’s why abhira ka poddar house mai rehna, khana , pina  can’t be compare with all those daughter in laws who have not done “contract marriage “ like vidya or that chachi or ruhi. 
Since “contract marriage “ is condition based use and throw arrangement, abhira is not looking independent. 

Since writers yaha whole day ghumte rehte hai, I hope contract term ko future mai cover kar le. 

@bold What is a contract marriage?

A marriage contract, or prenuptial agreement, is a legal document outlining the rights and responsibilities of each spouse on property, finances, among others. It is signed before the wedding ceremony and is considered a form of protection for both parties in case of separation or divorce.

Is there anything like "use and throw" in an actual marriage contract? A marriage contract is not as regressive as use and throw. It benefits both parties so how can it be termed use and throw? Arman will forever be indebted to Akshara for saving his life & sabotaging hers, therefore, he married Abhira, who needed protection from Yuvraj & to fulfil her mother's last wish she agreed to marry Arman. 

Did they get married and their marriage get registered for 1 year only? NO. Infact it was a legal marriage registered with witnesses. They didn't mention any contract or fake marriage while getting married. They got married for real as nobody mentioned or brought up any contract while getting married. After getting married Abhira verbally addressed it as a "contract marriage" according to her Akshara died while saving Arman or because of Arman, that's why she declined to accept her marriage with Arman. Did Arman mention contract marriage or did he refuse to accept the marriage? No. He merely agreed to stay married with no time duration mentioned earlier (till she gets a job) as per Abhira's condition though he wanted to fulfil his responsibility towards Akshara (stay married to her) until he is alive. Did they sign any contract for 1-year marriage even after getting married? No.  Can a marriage contract be verbal? No, as it is difficult to prove the contract & conditions associated with it in court.  So, until they legally divorce after 1 year or 10 years they will be a married couple according to law.

Edited by ShadowImbue - 1 months ago

In Iss pyaar ko kya naam doon Arnav & Kushi did have a contract marriage where they both signed the contract for one year.

Here nothing like that happened. They did signed marriage registration certificate in the hospital

Abhira said she will leave after she become lawyer & Armaan agreed.

Edited by Veenapai - 1 months ago

Originally posted by: Aadi04

But Ghum Me Toh hero fell in love with heroine very very fast …   And maintained the status quo till his death … the heroine never believed it .. that was his problem .. others were never in doubt that he only has eyes for The FL .. yaha par Toh Armaan is still not in love .. and claims it as responsibility .. and Abhira is getting drawn to him .. slowly slowly why Abhira .. why Abhira why 

Yehi difference hai in the story ..  

Armaan has also fallen for abhira..he’s very attached to,her..if she goes missing ..he goes crazy ..when she’s not laying in the bed next to him..he misses her..remember that scene how he wanted her to move back from.the guest room to their bedroom..he even went and fetched her stuff 😂..so they both have fallen but their mentality is zimmedari and 1 year contract ..but they are fooling themselves and everyone can see they care for each other..only Ruhi is in delusion..because she’s obsessed with getting Armaan back so she doesn’t want to see the truth. Armaan and abhira won’t be able to live without each other. They are very attached to each other..but they will only realise this when they have to say goodbye..then they’ll acknowledge that they don’t want to..

Originally posted by: Indira1211

Armaan has also fallen for abhira..he’s very attached to,her..if she goes missing ..he goes crazy ..when she’s not laying in the bed next to him..he misses her..remember that scene how he wanted her to move back from.the guest room to their bedroom..he even went and fetched her stuff 😂..so they both have fallen but their mentality is zimmedari and 1 year contract ..but they are fooling themselves and everyone can see they care for each other..only Ruhi is in delusion..because she’s obsessed with getting Armaan back so she doesn’t want to see the truth. Armaan and abhira won’t be able to live without each other. They are very attached to each other..but they will only realise this when they have to say goodbye..then they’ll acknowledge that they don’t want to..

yes I know the progression in their relationship is coming across as like a couple now .. platonic nods are fading .. today’s episode.. when krish called them love birds they were not awkward.. plus when he thanked Arman for getting Abhira in their lives .. Abhira was amused .. like an indulgent bhabhi ..  

They are comfortable touching each other ..,attraction is not visible but awareness and attachment to each other is there ..