Why is Abhira Poor - Page 4

Originally posted by: Winterberry08

 

I missed all Generation 3 and pre- Rohit generation 4 episode story ka idea nahi hai mujhe. Abhira acts like a baby is a good reason for her to rely on others for money. I started working when I was 18 

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

As u r saying u haven’t watched episodes ,let me tell u what happened! Abhira started working from a very young age ,she used to help her mom in running the resort and also with her court cases. Even now she is working as an intern , she pays her own fees. May be Cv’s visit the forum and read the posts they gave a strong reply to  everyone who says she is a free loader showing how she is even keeping a note of all the expenses like food and other expenses and she will pay them when leaving. After Court case she said she will leave PH and go live in hostel but Armaan didn’t let her go. Anyway  she is legally wedded wife Mr.Armaan Poddar. If her husband and she falls in love with each other in this 1 yr they will live happily in PH together.

   Nice u r find her as a baby,yeah she is cute and acts very mature  than anyone else when needed. She is a strong ,independent FL ever in Rishta! No wonder everyone is so much interested in her show and the amount of love she is getting and the new montage says how she is the only imp person in the show. If Abhira is replaced instead of the other two actors they would never give solo montage to anyone else. Leave Ruhi ,she will be gone from the montage may be by next time if not this time ,even Armaan will not get a solo montage ever. 

I believe that it is a personal choice to work...jaise ruhi is not working...and neither has any ambition except becoming Mrs Armaan Poddar...Rohit bhi nahi hai...and ruhi is still in poddar house...

Madhav and Vidya, are married....bahar kaam to Vidya bhi nahi karti hai....and neither r they shown happily married.....woh bhi Poddar house mein hain...

Dadi and Ruhi dono ke hubbies nahi hain, but both r staying the the PH.....

Abhira is married...and is staying with her hubby.....

Abhira and Armaan are married.....legally Hindu religion ke hisaab se bhi....Armaan has emphasized on this while Abhira was in the hospital....To Abhira work kare ya na kare...she can not b tagged as a free loader....uss hisaab se to saari married women, jo bahar work nahi karti hain free loader ban jaayengi...

But yes, Abhira has been shown working since young age...apni mamma ki help karti thi...resort run karne mein bhi and legal cases mein bhi...she is an intern and earns a salary...usi salary se she was shwon bringing gifts for all these family members..she was shown as the most efficient intern....may b because she has had practical experience by helping her mom....

she is expert in multitasking.....arman ke thru makers ne ise specify kiya hai...😂

.she cooks breakfast for the whole family...which in one of the three main meals of the day....ghar mein 4 ladies hain...dadi and kajal ko chod kar....even when fufa ki family is shown eating here...to 1 meal to woh banati hai.....even when she is not allowed to eat with other members on the dining table...

She has been keeping track of all the expenses (AirCon, etc etc) so she has intentions of even repaying that.....

so, makers have made sure that no one can tag her as a free loader...baki jise jo kahna hai uska kya....😂

Edited by India_TV - 2 months ago

Originally posted by: India_TV

I believe that it is a personal choice to work...jaise ruhi is not working...and neither has any ambition except becoming Mrs Armaan Poddar...Rohit bhi nahi hai...and ruhi is still in poddar house...

Madhav and Vidya, are married....bahar kaam to Vidya bhi nahi karti hai....and neither r they shown happily married.....woh bhi Poddar house mein hain...

Dadi and Ruhi dono ke hubbies nahi hain, but both r staying the the PH.....

Abhira is married...and is staying with her hubby.....

Abhira and Armaan are married.....legally Hindu religion ke hisaab se bhi....Armaan has emphasized on this while Abhira was in the hospital....To Abhira work kare ya na kare...she can not b tagged as a free loader....uss hisaab se to saari married women, jo bahar work nahi karti hain free loader ban jaayengi...

But yes, Abhira has been shown working since young age...apni mamma ki help karti thi...resort run karne mein bhi and legal cases mein bhi...she is an intern and earns a salary...usi salary se she was shwon bringing gifts for all these family members..she was shown as the most efficient intern....may b because she has had practical experience by helping her mom....

she is expert in multitasking.....arman ke thru makers ne ise specify kiya hai...😂

.she cooks breakfast for the whole family...which in one of the three main meals of the day....ghar mein 4 ladies hain...dadi and kajal ko chod kar....even when fufa ki family is shown eating here...to 1 meal to woh banati hai.....even when she is not allowed to eat with other members on the dining table...

She has been keeping track of all the expenses (AirCon, etc etc) so she has intentions of even repaying that.....

so, makers have made sure that no one can tag her as a free loader...baki jise jo kahna hai uska kya....😂

Bharathi if u see ruhi is biggest freeloader.. Dadisa has freed her from that house and given her permission to go and find another guy for herself , her own family is calling her but she is not going..  

edited for gen 3 character ref

Edited by LizzieBennet - 2 months ago

Originally posted by: Swathiyaa

Bharathi if u see ruhi is biggest freeloader.. Dadisa has freed her from that house and given her permission to go and find another guy for herself , her own family is calling her but she is not going.. Kya sikaya uske so called father ne.. 

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Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

As u r saying u haven’t watched episodes ,let me tell u what happened! Abhira started working from a very young age ,she used to help her mom in running the resort and also with her court cases. Even now she is working as an intern , she pays her own fees. May be Cv’s visit the forum and read the posts they gave a strong reply to  everyone who says she is a free loader showing how she is even keeping a note of all the expenses like food and other expenses and she will pay them when leaving. After Court case she said she will leave PH and go live in hostel but Armaan didn’t let her go. Anyway  she is legally wedded wife Mr.Armaan Poddar. If her husband and she falls in love with each other in this 1 yr they will live happily in PH together.

   Nice u r find her as a baby,yeah she is cute and acts very mature  than anyone else when needed. She is a strong ,independent FL ever in Rishta! No wonder everyone is so much interested in her show and the amount of love she is getting and the new montage says how she is the only imp person in the show. If Abhira is replaced instead of the other two actors they would never give solo montage to anyone else. Leave Ruhi ,she will be gone from the montage may be by next time if not this time ,even Armaan will not get a solo montage ever. 

we don’t need to justify Abhira..as the writers have written her to be a strong confident independent young woman..she’s a fantastic yrkkh heroine and better than the other 3.  Even the actress is better than the other 3.  Frankly in the real world..it’s very hard to,get a job that supports you completely financially staight out of school at 18.’ And when I talk of financial independence..it means having your own apartment..either rent or ownership , and you being responsible for all your amenities..food, clothes, water, electricity, car , etc..living with your parents and earning some pocket money does not entail financial independence..so nobody can achieve financial independence  unless they have a high paying job..which you usually get after tertiary education..which takes 4 years or more..then too starting salaries are not high enough to cover all living expenses..and most people only move out of their parents home after 24 years when they are fully financially independent.. living in your own apartment but your dad paying the rent..is not financial independence.. but abhiras story is different..she’s married..so she has every right to take financial assistance from.her husband like all wives do..when it’s required..  

edited for calling out fan opinions

Edited by LizzieBennet - 2 months ago

Originally posted by: Indira1211

we don’t need to justify Abhira..as the writers have written her to be a strong confident independent young woman..she’s a fantastic yrkkh heroine and better than the other 3.‘that’s a fact. Even the actress is better than the other 3. Like we said in the other thread that was made to bash abhira..this thread is also being used to bash abhira due to jealousy. Frankly in the real world..it’s very hard to,get a job that supports you completely financially staight out of school at 18.’ And when I talk of financial independence..it means having your own apartment..either rent or ownership , and you being responsible for all your amenities..food, clothes, water, electricity, car , etc..living with your parents and earning some pocket money does not entail financial independence..so nobody can achieve financial independence  unless they have a high paying job..which you usually get after tertiary education..which takes 4 years or more..then too starting salaries are not high enough to cover all living expenses..and most people only move out of their parents home after 24 years when they are fully financially independent.. living in your own apartment but your dad paying the rent..is not financial independence.. but abhiras story is different..she’s married..so she has every right to take financial assistance from.her husband like all wives do..when it’s required.. really..her father used to,be bashed for his job and financial,issues and now it’s starting with abhira. Does the jealousy and hatred for abhinav and his daughter never end..amazing how fictional characters can cause so much discomfort..🤦🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️😂

Nah Abhira financially independent kahan hai. She just have a job as intern while she's a student. She just have the confidence to work for a different firm and not freeload on her in-laws firm. Financially independent is only when you freeload on the institution your father, uncle, aunt built with so much effort and then mock them at every chance.  Everyone should be financially independent like that.

Edited by janecastle - 2 months ago

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

yes  now a days ppl become very independent at very young age. That's the major reason i can't connect with her as she never shown that independence which she gives bhashan of. Girls move out of town stay alone in random cities for education work etc but abhira was shown as someone who just speaks about career, independence but all were phuski bombs. 

Which is why she is very much dependent on AR.

“ Contract marriage “ word is the main thing in abhira’s case. There is a difference in between “contract marriage “ and “marriage “. 

Poddar house mai baki sab couples chahe khush ho chahe dukhi ho chahe akele ho lekin sab ki “marriage “ hui hai and abhira khud he openly shaddi ko “contract marriage “ category mai daal rahi hai. 

“Contract marriage “ is like use and throw that’s why abhira ka poddar house mai rehna, khana , pina  can’t be compare with all those daughter in laws who have not done “contract marriage “ like vidya or that chachi or ruhi. 
Since “contract marriage “ is condition based use and throw arrangement, abhira is not looking independent. 

Since writers yaha whole day ghumte rehte hai, I hope contract term ko future mai cover kar le. 

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

“ Contract marriage “ word is the main thing in abhira’s case. There is a difference in between “contract marriage “ and “marriage “. 

Poddar house mai baki sab couples chahe khush ho chahe dukhi ho chahe akele ho lekin sab ki “marriage “ hui hai and abhira khud he openly shaddi ko “contract marriage “ category mai daal rahi hai. 

“Contract marriage “ is like use and throw that’s why abhira ka poddar house mai rehna, khana , pina  can’t be compare with all those daughter in laws who have not done “contract marriage “ like vidya or that chachi or ruhi. 
Since “contract marriage “ is condition based use and throw arrangement, abhira is not looking independent. 

Since writers yaha whole day ghumte rehte hai, I hope contract term ko future mai cover kar le. 

True, but I think you don’t watch the show properly

There was never once “contract marriage” word used.

Their marriage is as real as it gets, yes they made a verbal deal that they will part ways in a year after Abhira becomes independent & is protected from Yuvraj. But the word used is always “deal” & not any “contract marriage” as there is no such contract written or signed by either party.

So, you are so right that she is not financially independent bcz this is India, here you need proper education to actually become independent. So that is what Abhira is doing right now, finishing her education to actually become independent & taking note of all the expenses that she needs to pay after a year’s completion.

Jeez, these never ending jibes of being poor or being free loader!

Abhira is a student & is unaware of her own roots. & even when she comes to know about it, she will most probably chose to be independent & will not inherit those properties. Which means she will not become rich overnight even after she starts practising law.

Originally posted by: sandhir.candy

True, but I think you don’t watch the show properly

There was never once “contract marriage” word used.

Their marriage is as real as it gets, yes they made a verbal deal that they will part ways in a year after Abhira becomes independent & is protected from Yuvraj. But the word used is always “deal” & not any “contract marriage” as there is no such contract written or signed by either party.

So, you are so right that she is not financially independent bcz this is India, here you need proper education to actually become independent. So that is what Abhira is doing right now, finishing her education to actually become independent & taking note of all the expenses that she needs to pay after a year’s completion.

Contract marriage and deal marriage both have same context I.e “use and throw”. Kuch verbally execute karte hai and kuch on paper. Neither deal marriage nor contract marriage context doesn’t fall in normal “marriage” category. Deal marriage /contract marriage se better tha sirf typical arrange marriage tak baat rakhte jo Akshara apni beti ki kara kar gayi. Deal/contract is like use &throw marriage. 

I think Akshara apne death bed par apni beti ki arrange marriage kara kar gayi hogi lekin uski death ke baad abhira converted it to deal marriage or contract marriage from arrange marriage due to her whatever reason. Har arrange marriage deal marriage nahi hoti jaise season 1 ki Akshara ki arrange marriage hui thi which was not deal marriage.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Contract marriage and deal marriage both have same context I.e “use and throw”. Kuch verbally execute karte hai and kuch on paper. Neither deal marriage nor contract marriage context doesn’t fall in normal “marriage” category. Deal marriage /contract marriage se better tha sirf typical arrange marriage tak baat rakhte jo Akshara apni beti ki kara kar gayi. Deal/contract is like use &throw marriage. 

I think Akshara apne death bed par apni beti ki arrange marriage kara kar gayi hogi lekin uski death ke baad abhira converted it to deal marriage or contract marriage from arrange marriage due to her whatever reason. Har arrange marriage deal marriage nahi hoti jaise season 1 ki Akshara ki arrange marriage hui thi which was not deal marriage.

In that case, Abhira chose most useless person to use & throw! The only condition of deal was Armaan helping Abhira complete her education & giving shelter & protection from Yuvraj for a year.

Here she had to do everything on her own to even start her college & internship! The supposed use & throw person was unable to even open his mouth to say that Abhira will complete her studies & will do job in the future in front of his family. & she didn’t even expect him to do so.

She is the one who with the help of police, gets Yuvraj arrested. Agreed the person she was supposed to use & throw came at the last moment.

But I guess, Abhira is not even talented enough to utilise her use & throw marriage well.