Anuj always hated Vanraj and Shah family !!

I always knew Anuj hated Vanraj and was only cordial with him for peace sake however his wife Anupama mentioned something important at SH his irritation with her Shah dynamic which his honestly never portrayed to the SHs and to a great extent on SS which I believe. Not to be right as much as it’s only Anupama entitled to know/see this as his wife I feel Anuj doesn’t need to behave over the moon around shahs when in reality his irritated by them 

Atleast that way even them will know where they stand and atleast act accordingly

That is NOT the poblem neither it should be a metter.

Why should a man be anything but cordial with his wife's ex?

The ectual poblem and metter is Anupama is NOT yet over her ex and works for them by making it her pseudo-mayka.

The ectual poblem is that Onupama does Not have a poblem with her abusive ex.

If he does that he would be looking at a rotten face of Upma who manipulates him by doing all this bullshit of being upset for her mayka.Full day she would be sulking around only thinking about Mishter shah n his filthy phemily..

If Anuj hated Shameless Shahs that much, he would not be doing their chamchagiri all the time.

Yes, AnupaMaid is obsessed with them but he also accompanied her to the shanty and took part in their useless phunctions. Who asked him to treat DukhLi as his parents? (Does he have no memory of his own parents.) Yes, he had an equation with her children especially winter and tried to help them, which is normal and appreciable but who asked him to go out of his way for old hags and especially VanRajan, and be pally with him. 

More than anything, he was always eager to be best friends forever with his wife's ex, a man who never leaves an opportunity to humiliate and insult his wife and him and even tried to manipulate his sister. Lost count of the amount of times, he tried to over extend for VanRajan, have dence performance etc. Like when Paadhik were exposed, he was busy having an indoor picnic at the shanty and this trend of partying always continued. He could have stayed away himself and let her go for all this. Khud ke koi friends nahi hai kya ki the only people in your life are your wife's ex-in-laws. If AnupaMaid doesn't have any self respect herself, why did he lose his own voluntarily. 

Does he have no agency and free will that he had to do everything for them because of her? (ironically same arguments of blaming Anuj for Anupamaa's decision are given by people especially for their marriage whereas it's an adult's free will and choice which she did and whatever he did for TamaShahs is similarly on him and not her everytime)

Truth is that Anuj Kapadia Majboor Shah is a weak willed, spineless and inept fool. And a pathetic parent because who lets their daughter around people who mistreat her, even after knowing about it. 

Solid action?? From a table?? 

You're expecting too much. 

If he hates the TamaShahs then why does he treat them like his phemli?

Why does he respect them so much?

Why does he treat DukhLi like his parents?

Why is he best friend with Vanar!

Why does he encourage and let Upma to visit them and serve them?

Why would he let Makkhi stay in his house?

Why does he visit their every function?

Why does he let them humiliate him?

If he really hated the Shameless Shahs then he would break all ties with them, stop Upma from meeting them and would show them their place if they dare to misbehave!

Anuj honestly brought all this on himself. He should've pushed Anupamaa to put boundaries with that family since the very beginning. Instead he was enabling her nonsense like getting married in the Shah House and writing 'Baa' on his mehendi. If he cannot stop her from keeping relations with that family, he could've maintained a distance and stopped her from taking CA there after knowing how Baa treated her. The truth is that he is a spineless man who only acts in simp mode and does not apply his mind.

Also, unpopular opinion: I cringe every time he starts saying 'Meri Anu'. I mean, come on! Everybody knows she is your wife! You do not need to remind us every 5 minutes like you've bagged a trophy and you are 40+ for God's sake! Not some nibba teenager in his school relationship. Honestly, everybody who comes in contact with this lady becomes brainless like her and dances to her tunes.

I thought Anuj is not dumb and can speak!!! Why didn't he say this to her while proposing her for marriage?? He talked to her about adoption but not about this?? Very very unlikely!! LOL 😆 🤣 😂 

He never hated them, he tried to mingle with them in every possible way for Maa’s sake, but they always treated him like an outsider despite using his money to save their pagalkhana, for treatments, for Samar’s dance project, for parties and so much other stuff.

If step father has some responsibilities towards step kids, or if step kids can claim any right to step father’s wealth, then they have to at least give him some respect which Shah kids never did, called him an outsider and threw him out of the house multiple times.

Why would he hate them if his wife drew boundaries and kept cordial relations with ex inlaws instead of serving them 24*7 and becoming their unpaid maid?

If he hated them he would never bring them to his house and give them so much respect, thing is respect and relations are a two way street but for Shahs its their way or highway. 

Its simple that he gave them numerous chances for Maa’s sake and now he is done, no one should keep toxic relations in their life even if its blood related, these are not related in anyway.

Actually, Fact is, Anupama hates MD and BB, but she has still kept them in Kapadia house so she can show how Mahaan she is, she doesn’t leave a single chance to humiliate them, show them knife, shut them up at every instance,  then why the hypocrisy and mask of acting nice and bringing MD to their house if she hates them so much? She could have simply told them to leave or asked Anuj to find them another place to stay but she is a double faced hypocrite aisa karegi to asli chehra saamne aa jayega na.

Why didn’t she do the Aapko Kya tashan in Anuj’s presence or why did she not do it with Mishter Shah 😂