Toxic or henpecked: No normal MLs in ITV

I do not understand why all male leads have to be either toxic like an vanraj

Or a henpecked shivering puppy like anuj kapadiya 

Look around you in real life rarely you will find both type 98% are normal males who are mature and deal maturely with wife or her ex hubby or his in laws 

No one behaves like anuj kapadiya at all misbehaving with own family be it sister, brother, neice, nephew, bhabhi but shivering in front of wife and her ex hubby and in laws etc even when they are wrong 

Is this some kind of fantasy story by writers that in every serial male is either highly toxic misbehaving with FL like vanraj shah than becomes jhoru ka ghulam like anuj kapadiya after falling for FL 

Have they never seen a male  behaving like anuj kapadiya in real being so scared of wifes ex hubby and ex in laws etc and falling at their feet and worshipping them although they humiliate his family and him again and again 

Imagine anuj wife ex husband has already done an extra marital affair with his sister Malvika to gain kapadiya empire and spilt up kapadiya family into half by instigating malvika against anuj and anupam aknew everything but was acting like a baby or mentally retarded who does not know anything to save vanraj 

Yet anuj best friend is vanraj shah and anuj mom dad are vanraj parents and vanraj sister is anuj sister dolly and his kids are vanraj kids not CA and whom he called bacchi always Malvika 

Even dreaded lion//tiger will attack if their sister is eyed upon badly by another male lion 

Even they will fight to death to save their wife respect or sister respect and we call them wild 

But anuj is human yet do not care for respect of his sister or wife or himself or even if his 7 year old child is abused by Shahs 

So this story writer wants to say to society and men 

1) if your sister is abused and attacked look other way let her be exploited 

2) If your wife goes to ex house everyday and gets humilated its ok its her mayka 

3) If your child goes to your wife ex hubby house and gets abused its ok ignore

4) Become best friend with man who did EMA with your sister to upsure her business and left her high and dry even when he already had a second wife kavya at home 

5) Make your family members to kneel in front of your wife ex hubby family feet to please your wife be it sister or brother or neice 

6) To all men married remember, your family they are always wrong your wife ex family always right ok do not forget this 

7) Like slave always bow down to wife orders even if she says humiliate your elder cousin brother who always supported you or your sister without whose parents adopting you would be uneducated person doing small errands and living in slums in india(most orphan fate is that only) now not educated US business man millionaire  

Poor Malvika. 💔 I really feel for her. 

Stuck with a loser brother who didn't even bother recalling her name on Rakshabandhan. All he cared about us his ungrateful undeserving so called wife and her ex sasural. 

We all used to dream about OG Anuj Kapadia back then. Now I feel every walking man on earth is million times better than him. Even Vanraj seems more logical than him sometimes although I totally loathe the former. 

They ruined Anuj kapadia to ww shah family . They introduced Maya and malvika track to weak Anuj character and they sucessful did. OG anuj would have throw shah unlike this majboor carapadia