First of all, I don't even know why I am doing this. Because some people are gonna conveniently pick certain sentences and is going to forget the context or the point of the post. Anyway.
Akshara
1. I do not have a problem with Akshara because since the beginning, I thought she shouldn't be with Abhimanyu considering, he is a bit of a psycho, has anger issues for which he hasn't taken medical help for yet and is too toxic and self obsessed for someone to share their life with. I was upset with Akshara when she danced according to his whims. Now I am proud of her, that she realised the true nature of her relationship and moved on. I mean that umarkaid was the perfect way to describe her relationship with Abhimanyu.
Now some people have issues with the fact that Akshara chose to marry and not be a single mom. I do not understand how she can be judged for that. Marrying does not make women weak, even though personally I think women should never marry. Lol. And she didn't think of marrying Abhinav until she came to know how he took care of her son when she was unconscious after her delivery. She probably saw the love Abhinav had for Abhir and figured Abhir deserves the love Abhinav can offer. I don't know what is wrong with that.
Again she was a divorcee, she could marry anyone. She could put anyone's name on the birth certificate of her son. She could be legally taken to court by biological father for doing so. But i don't understand how keeping herself and her son away from the son's biological father and his family who abused her is immoral and illegal. Any court in India would stand by her side. Especially on the top of it her ex-husband is a doctor. If they had a different face and changed the tone of the show, Abhimanyu would be nothing short of a villain. For some of us, irrespective of handsome faces, Bollywood music and dance, a villain is a villain only.
Aarohi
2. People feel Aarohi is matured because she has definitely shown growth. Today's episode especially was proof of that. She agreed she tried to interfere and ruin Abhira's life before. And post leap there wasn't a single scene where she imagined herself as Abhimanyu's rightful wife. She only looked at him as the potential papa for Roohi. These days, she isn't even shown that much bothered about Abhimanyu's flipping and meaningless promises like before, comparatively. (Comparatively being the keyword). More than that she is being the sister she never was and is supportive of Akshara'sife. She can clearly see her sister's happiness. Everything she says these days, screams of maturity. I just wished she also spoke to Manjari about, how till yesterday Manjari used to hate Akshara. And Manjari is so selfish that she suddenly forgot about Neil because she has only ever loved Abhimanyu and even then tried to manipulate his life in horrible ways and she was one of the main reasons why Abhira is not together today.
Manjari
3. I just cannot believe Manjari. Where did the hatred go? She cannot live without Abhimanyu and vice-verca. And she is saying, she realised it only today that Abhir needs his both parents? Really? Also, hasn't she seen how happy Abhir is with Akshnav? He has both his parents. And Abhimanyu also can be the father but for that he doesn't need to marry Akshara. So, she is not thinking of Abhir. She is thinking of Abhimanyu. Because he is probably happy again now and she wants him to have that. Even though he doesn't deserve it and he has no haq over Akshara. How low does she have to stoop to ask a husband to give his wife to another man? And again? Why ask Abhinav as if he is the hurdle? Why isn't she asking Akshara? Akshara is not Abhinav's or Abhimanyu's property that they can play catch with her. She is an adult and independent individual who has agency and who should be taking the decisions in her life even though it can be too stupid sometimes. People have so many issues with Akshara getting married according to her wish, but no issues when is treated like a thing owned by two men, by Manjari.
Abhimanyu
4. The problem with Abhimanyu is that he still hasn't shown growth. He hasn't apologised to Akshara yet for what happened on the day Neil died. Yeah, obviously he sly talks about the pain of losing his love and all, but definitely hasn't thought about and grovelled about it and apologised for it. And the Mandir confession scene. Should I even talk about it again? Maa like beta, right?
And when he came to know about Abhir. His first instinct or the last was not to apologise, but scream haq, haq and threatened Akshara and misbehaved with Abhinav instead of talking about it. I understand and agree Akshara was also on edge and wrong that she refused to make Abhimanyu part of Abhir's life, whatever fears she had, especially when she has been studying law and she should know legally the chances of Abhimanyu getting full custody is minimum. The max he would get is visitation rights. And now Abhimanyu is staying in Akshara’s house. Instead of keeping away, he is all over her family. Now Manjari is also here. How are they staying in Akshara's house. Of course, I blame stupid Goenkas for insisting it. But since there is a wedding going on, and they are invited, Manjari and Abhimanyu should've stayed in a hotel instead of treating Akshara's home as theirs and actively interfering in her life.
Abhinav
5. He is definitely an accha admi. For him to go through all this and still stand straight it takes effort. He is in a tangled web of relationship and he is handling them pretty well for a simple straight forward guy. Yes, his insecurities are there and they are pretty normal to be honest. And the relationship he shares with Akshara is amazing. I even like their fights and disagreements. When he does mistakes, he figures it out and apologises. The ego tussle is not for him, which is why Akshara had a peaceful relationship with him. Now that a certain ma-beta has entered their lives causing issues directly, it is taking a toll on them and I hope they will come out of it as stronger. I know there are so many people who is waiting for him to turn negative and calls him fake papa and has utmost disrespect for families that are not blood related. To them, I have nothing much to say.
Abhinav and Abhimanyu's insecurity
6. Abhinav's insecurity. I understand. His insecurities where also getting on my nerves in the beginning. But now both ma-beta are in house asking him to give away his wife and son, it's extremely normal for him to be insecure. Especially since Akshara hasn't gotten a chance after that to tell she loves him. Just for a split second, imagine Abhimanyu in Abhinav's place? He would have beaten up the guy and did so much thod phod and even misbehaved with Akshara also, for letting the ex-husband around her or trying to have a decent relationship with the father of her son. He would given baashan after baashan on how her ex-husband is an abuser and she should not even let her son meet his father. And if she didn't listen to her, he would gaslight her. This can be easily extrapolated from Abhimanyu's character arc. Just because once he tried to support her career or taught her to stand up to her evil sister only to mete out the same emotionally abusive treatment towards her doesn't make him good. He never was. Even in a grey world, Abhimanyu is way too toxic for someone to spen their life with.
First of all, I don't even know why I am doing this. Because some people are gonna conveniently pick certain sentences and is going to forget the context or the point of the post. Anyway.
Akshara
1. I do not have a problem with Akshara because since the beginning, I thought she shouldn't be with Abhimanyu considering, he is a bit of a psycho, has anger issues for which he hasn't taken medical help for yet and is too toxic and self obsessed for someone to share their life with. I was upset with Akshara when she danced according to his whims. Now I am proud of her, that she realised the true nature of her relationship and moved on. I mean that umarkaid was the perfect way to describe her relationship with Abhimanyu.
Now some people have issues with the fact that Akshara chose to marry and not be a single mom. I do not understand how she can be judged for that. Marrying does not make women weak, even though personally I think women should never marry. Lol. And she didn't think of marrying Abhinav until she came to know how he took care of her son when she was unconscious after her delivery. She probably saw the love Abhinav had for Abhir and figured Abhir deserves the love Abhinav can offer. I don't know what is wrong with that.
Again she was a divorcee, she could marry anyone. She could put anyone's name on the birth certificate of her son. She could be legally taken to court by biological father for doing so. But i don't understand how keeping herself and her son away from the son's biological father and his family who abused her is immoral and illegal. Any court in India would stand by her side. Especially on the top of it her ex-husband is a doctor. If they had a different face and changed the tone of the show, Abhimanyu would be nothing short of a villain. For some of us, irrespective of handsome faces, Bollywood music and dance, a villain is a villain only.
I'll probably quote more of this post later but I wanted to specifically talk about this.
People who judge Akshara for not being a single mom and having a friend/husband to help raise a child probably have zero clue about single moms. They have this badass version of them in their heads.. The strong, secure women who dont need no man to help.. Which they are btw. There's no denying that but man, they struggle. A lot. Society judges them and on top of that, they struggle with finances too if they are not well off.
So if Akshara had help, had a way to lessen those struggles and at the same time, found someone who loves her child as much as she does.. Why not? Why not marry them?
You know from where this whole 'Akshara should have been a single mom' conversation even sprouts out? It's from this strange need to romanticize and even glorify a woman's struggle to prove she's a strong woman. It's simple : more suffering means stronger. More struggle means stronger. Anything less is unacceptable.
ONLY A WOMAN SUFFERING MORE AND STRUGGLING MORE respects herself or deserves respect.
Not someone who thought 'hey.. I will give my child a FAMILY he deserves. He will have a loving mother and a father.'
Akshara was a practical woman who chose well. For herself and her son.
And if anyone judges her for less struggling and less suffering, and thinks that a second marriage out of convenience for herself and her son somehow lessens her worth as a mother and a strong woman.. Then they don't know a thing about single mothers. They want help, they need help. Whether it's from their families, friends or a new husband.
A woman or a mother's worth and strength isn't directly proportional to her suffering.
Edited by OnTheBlock - 5 months agoManjari is a vile selfish and cunning woman......
I am not able to trust arohi...especially after she blackmailed abhi for akshu's pregnancy issues....
But even if she is doing everything for her selfish motives, I m liking her talks...😂
I especially resonate with her....Kis haq se manjari ne yeh sab abhinav se kaha? has she talked to akshu on thi?
ab abhi ka ghar nahi hai todne ke liye...so she is hell bound of destroying akshu ka ghar.....I have developed a very strong dislike for this woman...
I foresee it going...akshu hate abhi way....arohi will reveal manjari's actions.....Not sure how abhinav will exit....But arohi will shift to goenkas along with akshu....alll against abhi....and abhi against manjari......I had hoped for this...Ki iss baar abhi akele rahe...and I think va may get this...😂
I'll probably quote more of this post later but I wanted to specifically talk about this.
People who judge Akshara for not being a single mom and having a friend/husband to help raise a child probably have zero clue about single moms. They have this badass version of them in their heads.. The strong, secure women who dont need no man to help.. Which they are btw. There's no denying that but man, they struggle. A lot. Society judges them and on top of that, they struggle with finances too if they are not well off.
So if Akshara had help, had a way to lessen those struggles and at the same time, found someone who loves her child as much as she does.. Why not? Why not marry them?
You know from where this whole 'Akshara should have been a single mom' conversation even sprouts out? It's from this strange need to romanticize and even glorify a woman's struggle to prove she's a strong woman. It's simple : more suffering means stronger. More struggle means stronger. Anything less is unacceptable.
ONLY A WOMAN SUFFERING MORE AND STRUGGLING MORE respects herself or deserves respect.
Not someone who thought 'hey.. I will give my child a FAMILY he deserves. He will have a loving mother and a father.'
Akshara was a practical woman who chose well. For herself and her son.
And if anyone judges her for less struggling and less suffering, and thinks that a second marriage out of convenience for herself and her son somehow lessens her worth as a mother and a strong woman.. Then they don't know a thing about single mothers. They want help, they need help. Whether it's from their families, friends or a new husband.
A woman or a mother's worth and strength isn't directly proportional to her suffering.
Absolutely agreed. But apart from that there is something else also in play here. The fact that the purity of the soul wala love is no more there. Because the heroine got married to someone else. She dared to forget her ex and moved on with another person. It would have been still okay for people, if it was Abhimanyu who is just married on papers, but how dare Akshara do that. And now she is moving on for real? She is in love and that is unacceptable. She should be lamenting and living thinking about the good times with her ex and never move ahead.
Beautifully summed up all the characters👏
Since the beginning mummy goes around begging for her son's happiness 🤪 It's shocking to what.level she can stoop. Abhinav is not aksharas part time servant who can walk in and walk out anytime . Now there is no Neil, no akshara the panauti talks , no ruhi,.no arohi meri beti talks , she goes straight to abhin and gaslights him into believing that abhira are soulmates 🤣 what a disgrace to women !
Being a dv victim, I thought she will stand by akshara when she knows how akshu was divorced that night . Not just her , nobody showed any sympathy to her for that day ..not her good for nothing maayka where everyone believed she shd take help from..
Don't bother with the independent talks ..on one side everyone wanted akshu to be independent while on the other they wanted her to take goenkas help ..akshu a cted independently for the first time (and she was the one doing family jaap constantly ) when she took the decision for herself and abhir ,, she kept the goenkas informed ..point is also that goenkas didn't want her bk to safeguard arohis life ..their dialogue was dono bachi khush rahe apne ghar mei which means it's good akshu stays away as birlas can't stand her.
And for all those who think that abhin akshu didnt go through 1% of problems which abhira faced , well, they never made these problems so big that it affects their relationship...situations will be there good and bad but how we react to it makes hell of a difference to our life....when one reacts impulsively the other is calm and vice versa ..when both r disturbed they apologize to each other later and try to understand the situation.
Absolutely agreed. But apart from that there is something else also in play here. The fact that the purity of the soul wala love is no more there. Because the heroine got married to someone else. She dared to forget her ex and moved on with another person. It would have been still okay for people, if it was Abhimanyu who is just married on papers, but how dare Akshara do that. And now she is moving on for real? She is in love and that is unacceptable. She should be lamenting and living thinking about the good times with her ex and never move ahead.
Ofcourse. But this other reason so nibba-nibbi grade childish,stupid and hopefully only obsessed over by teens and not adults that I don't even want to address it 😆
Soulwala love don't get divorced twice in 1.5 years. It's actually called a BAD DECISION wala love in real life. A failed marriage and union.
But that basic understanding is missing. I mean the whole notion Abhira deserve to be together cause AbhiM looks better and they have more chemistry 😭 like...what? What about their characters? Honestly it's rather insulting to even argue these things. Hopefully time will humble all.
Imagine how shameless can mj be to ask Abhinav to leave his wife.
She wanted Akshara to be out ,her son divorced her
She wanted Arohi as new daughter in law, her son proposed her.
Now shamelessly She again want Akshara back...She knows that her son will listen that's why she haven't even asked him(He is way ahead than her and begged Abhinav)...All these times she never cared what Akshara/Arohi wants....
Why don't she ask Akshara directly than asking Abhinav because he is the soft target. Infront of Abhinav she is crying but the min she noticed Arohi, she started running. How fake her tears are....
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This‼️Everything you said is true imo!
There’s absolutely nothing wrong in choosing to remarry someone decent enough for you and your child. Once you have a child in the picture, a mom will always put their needs and happiness first before hers. And I think that’s exactly what Akshara did. She observed AbhiN in those 6-7 months. She saw how concerned and caring he was during and after his birth. So what is so wrong if she wanted him to be in Abhir’s life? And so what if AbhiN also agreed to marry her and become Abhir’s father. Isn’t it how it happens in most marriages in our community after a divorce or widowhood? They at least had 6-7 months of time to get to know each other. That too up close! A lot of ppl don’t even get that.
Marriage is a beautiful thing if you find the right person, so why not? It’s not a sign of weakness or desperation. It should be your choice of how you want to live your life.And whichever life you choose, single or married is fine if it works for you and your partner. And it’s not like she married a horrible person or that she married for financial security. She married a nice guy who respects and loves her child. Why is it wrong?
And you said it correctly, ppl need to look beyond handsome looks and sensual romance and focus on their emotional compatibility and mental health of their partners, as that’s what will keep the relationship healthy. Hot looks and hot romance bhi ek time tak hi attract karte hain.
Coming to manjari😡 I don’t understand why she thinks others also have same thoughts as her about abhira belonging together because I haven’t seen any one besides her and AbhiN thinking about this. And I’ve also pointed out before that she should ask AK if she wants to become her daughter in law again. Why is she asking him? Why should AbhiN leave his wife for her son? She is only thinking about her son’s happiness. What about Abhir’s? Arohi? Roohi? And Ak? None of them are thinking about what Ak wants!
AbhiN is in a very complicated relationship. His emotions and insecurities are valid. It’s common for any partner(man or woman) to feel jealous and insecure around their partner’s ex especially if the exes are so cordial with each other AND living together. But that’s his fault too, he shouldn’t have asked AbhiM to stay with them. His generosity became harmful for him only. Im also like ppl were complaining that he’s too plain and vanilla but now that he’s acting like a human and displaying human emotions, ppl have a problem with that too. 🤷🏻♀️
you also have to give him the benefit of the doubt because he doesn’t know that AK is in love with him. In his head, he may be thinking that she considers him as her companion and cares about him. But doesn’t love him.
I also have a problem with one more thing that I have observed on this forum or on social media. On one hand we talk about empowering men on showing emotions, cry if they want to, be more sensitive but when we do come across a man like that he is labeled as chomu, Rotlu, and what not. I don’t understand this mentality. Asal mein toh Buss macho men dekhne hain sab ko. Jo cheekhte chillate rhe aur tod phod krte rhe! Lekin phir jab AbhiM zara Sa sad hota hai toh bht empathize Kerte hain. And then it’s Akshara this! AbhiN that! Why so selective?
But anyways. I hope Arohi tells all this to Ak and both AkshNav come out stronger. I hope manjari’s intentions and actions ussi pr flip ho jaye and only end up bringing them closer.🤞🏼
Again, a great post! 👏🏼
First of all, I don't even know why I am doing this. Because some people are gonna conveniently pick certain sentences and is going to forget the context or the point of the post. Anyway.
Akshara
1. I do not have a problem with Akshara because since the beginning, I thought she shouldn't be with Abhimanyu considering, he is a bit of a psycho, has anger issues for which he hasn't taken medical help for yet and is too toxic and self obsessed for someone to share their life with. I was upset with Akshara when she danced according to his whims. Now I am proud of her, that she realised the true nature of her relationship and moved on. I mean that umarkaid was the perfect way to describe her relationship with Abhimanyu.
Now some people have issues with the fact that Akshara chose to marry and not be a single mom. I do not understand how she can be judged for that. Marrying does not make women weak, even though personally I think women should never marry. Lol. And she didn't think of marrying Abhinav until she came to know how he took care of her son when she was unconscious after her delivery. She probably saw the love Abhinav had for Abhir and figured Abhir deserves the love Abhinav can offer. I don't know what is wrong with that.
Again she was a divorcee, she could marry anyone. She could put anyone's name on the birth certificate of her son. She could be legally taken to court by biological father for doing so. But i don't understand how keeping herself and her son away from the son's biological father and his family who abused her is immoral and illegal. Any court in India would stand by her side. Especially on the top of it her ex-husband is a doctor. If they had a different face and changed the tone of the show, Abhimanyu would be nothing short of a villain. For some of us, irrespective of handsome faces, Bollywood music and dance, a villain is a villain only.
Aarohi
2. People feel Aarohi is matured because she has definitely shown growth. Today's episode especially was proof of that. She agreed she tried to interfere and ruin Abhira's life before. And post leap there wasn't a single scene where she imagined herself as Abhimanyu's rightful wife. She only looked at him as the potential papa for Roohi. These days, she isn't even shown that much bothered about Abhimanyu's flipping and meaningless promises like before, comparatively. (Comparatively being the keyword). More than that she is being the sister she never was and is supportive of Akshara'sife. She can clearly see her sister's happiness. Everything she says these days, screams of maturity. I just wished she also spoke to Manjari about, how till yesterday Manjari used to hate Akshara. And Manjari is so selfish that she suddenly forgot about Neil because she has only ever loved Abhimanyu and even then tried to manipulate his life in horrible ways and she was one of the main reasons why Abhira is not together today.
Manjari
3. I just cannot believe Manjari. Where did the hatred go? She cannot live without Abhimanyu and vice-verca. And she is saying, she realised it only today that Abhir needs his both parents? Really? Also, hasn't she seen how happy Abhir is with Akshnav? He has both his parents. And Abhimanyu also can be the father but for that he doesn't need to marry Akshara. So, she is not thinking of Abhir. She is thinking of Abhimanyu. Because he is probably happy again now and she wants him to have that. Even though he doesn't deserve it and he has no haq over Akshara. How low does she have to stoop to ask a husband to give his wife to another man? And again? Why ask Abhinav as if he is the hurdle? Why isn't she asking Akshara? Akshara is not Abhinav's or Abhimanyu's property that they can play catch with her. She is an adult and independent individual who has agency and who should be taking the decisions in her life even though it can be too stupid sometimes. People have so many issues with Akshara getting married according to her wish, but no issues when is treated like a thing owned by two men, by Manjari.
Abhimanyu
4. The problem with Abhimanyu is that he still hasn't shown growth. He hasn't apologised to Akshara yet for what happened on the day Neil died. Yeah, obviously he sly talks about the pain of losing his love and all, but definitely hasn't thought about and grovelled about it and apologised for it. And the Mandir confession scene. Should I even talk about it again? Maa like beta, right?
And when he came to know about Abhir. His first instinct or the last was not to apologise, but scream haq, haq and threatened Akshara and misbehaved with Abhinav instead of talking about it. I understand and agree Akshara was also on edge and wrong that she refused to make Abhimanyu part of Abhir's life, whatever fears she had, especially when she has been studying law and she should know legally the chances of Abhimanyu getting full custody is minimum. The max he would get is visitation rights. And now Abhimanyu is staying in Akshara’s house. Instead of keeping away, he is all over her family. Now Manjari is also here. How are they staying in Akshara's house. Of course, I blame stupid Goenkas for insisting it. But since there is a wedding going on, and they are invited, Manjari and Abhimanyu should've stayed in a hotel instead of treating Akshara's home as theirs and actively interfering in her life.
Abhinav
5. He is definitely an accha admi. For him to go through all this and still stand straight it takes effort. He is in a tangled web of relationship and he is handling them pretty well for a simple straight forward guy. Yes, his insecurities are there and they are pretty normal to be honest. And the relationship he shares with Akshara is amazing. I even like their fights and disagreements. When he does mistakes, he figures it out and apologises. The ego tussle is not for him, which is why Akshara had a peaceful relationship with him. Now that a certain ma-beta has entered their lives causing issues directly, it is taking a toll on them and I hope they will come out of it as stronger. I know there are so many people who is waiting for him to turn negative and calls him fake papa and has utmost disrespect for families that are not blood related. To them, I have nothing much to say.
Abhinav and Abhimanyu's insecurity
6. Abhinav's insecurity. I understand. His insecurities where also getting on my nerves in the beginning. But now both ma-beta are in house asking him to give away his wife and son, it's extremely normal for him to be insecure. Especially since Akshara hasn't gotten a chance after that to tell she loves him. Just for a split second, imagine Abhimanyu in Abhinav's place? He would have beaten up the guy and did so much thod phod and even misbehaved with Akshara also, for letting the ex-husband around her or trying to have a decent relationship with the father of her son. He would given baashan after baashan on how her ex-husband is an abuser and she should not even let her son meet his father. And if she didn't listen to her, he would gaslight her. This can be easily extrapolated from Abhimanyu's character arc. Just because once he tried to support her career or taught her to stand up to her evil sister only to mete out the same emotionally abusive treatment towards her doesn't make him good. He never was. Even in a grey world, Abhimanyu is way too toxic for someone to spen their life with.
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Okay, I am actually confused
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I have to say this!
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Do you need to be drunk to say ILU to your husband of 6 years.
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Why Akshara should say sorry for Neil
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Hain? What did he say?
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