V was always toxic, just that many of us were giving him a long rope since its ITV and for a very long time many of us had hoped that he would be somehow redeemed. but its reached point of no return. not only has he not been redeemed he has been destroyed to the extent that now he is the villain in everyone's life and he is also not in the least bit introspective. he failed as husband but not even the father V has any sense of decency, maturity.
P is utterly pathetic and in all these years she has finally succeeded in her objective of snatching Sai's husband and child and possessing V as HER husband but it has come at the cost of losing Sam - a guy who genuinely who would have loved her, losing her self respect. And now after V married her she has suffered the same fate as Sai- getting cheated on, neglected by him and she also got the punishment of losing her uterus and the opportunity to ever have her own biological child in the process. she birthed Vinu but that child is Sai's no matter what anyone says. She was an illegal surrogate and even though she adopted Vinu and was his nanny /"mumma" ,Sai is Vinu's aai. period.
Despite all their crimes though, fate has been kinder to VP and CN losers than Sai. Even after all their kaands, VP had family backing. CN family has never paid the price for crimes- like torturing devi, giving Harinee away, kidnapping pullu, etc etc . P has her maternal family even though they have magically disappeared from show and V has his family as well. P got the genuine love and respect of Vinu also. and even the woman she wronged- Sai has never sought revenge from P or wished her ill. V got love and adoration of both kids and respect from Sai despite all he does to her because she is too morally upright to actually retaliate or wish any harm on him or his gfsaken family
Sai has only had her daughter but she needs to share her also with V and CN now. She has to tolerate her son not seeing her as his mother yet. And now she has Satya and Adhikaaris in her life who are supposed to be the progressive family who have all had their own baggage, pain and angst to deal with and therefore should love and value Sai inspite of her past- but its not exactly panned out as yet. They are more civil than CN losers but it will be a while before Sai truly sees them as HER family who will love and care for her, and whom she can confide in and before Adhikaaris realize that Sai is a precious person whom they are privileged to have in their lives.
As of now she is gradually starting to lean on Satya as her friend but if he gets swayed by Amba hysterics like V was swayed by the hysterics of his "gharwaale" then it will all go to the doldrums.
Satya has been shown to be better than V thus far by LEAPS and BOUNDS.
Both men married Sai for a deal arrangement. But V put a time stamp on it and was loose with his boundaries with his SIL whom he treated as pyaari cheez and later with Shruti and then again P. But he did all this by gaslighting and blaming Sai instead of taking ownership for his actions and his feelings. He was the one who first disclosed that he had a "deal" marriage with Sai to P and Sai merely reiterated it thereafter.
whereas Satya loves his dead gf Girija too but he doesnt hide it from Sai or make excuses and he is 100% committed to her as a friend and legal spouse now. he has not hidden anything from Sai and he has shown that he believes in being calm, mature , rational, and patient when it comes to things related to their marital equation and Sai values and respects that. They have mutual respect and trust which is worth MUCH MORE than what she ever had with V which was always lacking V respecting her as a person, as his spouse and as a human being and V never trusting her even though she always was upfront about her issues with P and Shruti and his gharwaale behavior. but he always was indifferent, brash, negligent with her. Sai and audience gave him umpteen chances to redeem himself and even bought it during the hunky dory phases where he'd promise to be a good spouse and even did stunts like taking Sai's name and becoming Virat Sai Chavan- we were tricked into thinking that he was a good guy despite all the kaands he did. but Sai and audience have now seen that he is truly hopeless.
Sai has cut herself off very definitively from V by marrying Satya but she will not be able to be rid of V and CN since they are biologically relao her children. and P also has signed divorce papers and left- finally choosing self respect all though she has completely disregarded preparing Vinu mentally for this stuff and left him- but then again- she is NOT his mother thats why he didn't factor in her plans. Finally atleast she chose her self respect though. I hope P will never come back in the show. this is the best outcome for her. A clean break without ever having to pay the price for all her crimes. Not everyone is so lucky.
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