Ak Vs Abhi drama! too long to post as comment so ....

Hey!

First let me say, I am enjoying 2nd leap very much.

Initial Glimpses of Ak’s new life was fun to witness. And the kid is super adorable. The connection Abhir has with Nav is for sure a past life connection, so he was there to bring in his birth, later pay his debts by helping to raise him.

But the child is much like his dad, Abhi. His relation with Nav is of that with a buddy or friend not like father-son.

Akshara is the ring master in the house- dictating terms n routine to all and she is very comfortable doing this. She has not changed one bit in 6yrs, she was always this way. In front of stronger personalities she becomes subdued. That is where her inferiority complexes n subsequently adamant nature turns up when she wants to show she is better, kinder, more helpful n considerate about others. (My observation) She thinks she can help all alone, solve problems or take decisions without consulting family. What behavior is that?

How can anyone say Abhi’s outburst on her is wrong? He was just as out of control emotionally and physically a rut, watching his mother throwing constant fit. News of dead babies and watching his brother's dead body while his mother puts all blame on him and Ak. He feels more responsible since it was he who married her. She is the love of his life.

And this guy was on anxiety pills. His doc told him not to stop taking meds but did anyone from his family bother. We never heard anyone ask him how he did but we wtched how he took care of Mj, Neil's outbursts, Ak's constant missteps. Aarohi's blackmail, Ak's pregnancy news, his fears.. the drama. one sec of happiness n again jungle drama which finally ended with Neil dead coz of trafficking track.

Was Abhimanyu wrong in his outburts. Only when he mentions Sirat's death, we gasp. But why? what wrong did he say? he said, I dont know what happened, kuch aisa hi hua hoga. he is right though. She was instructed not to follow by Aru. And it was coz of her Sirat ran down faster n slipped.

Akshara does not follow instructions and falls into deeper pits. (But if she didnt we would nt have this crazy F*** story)

Anyways,

So Ak running from home I understand. But Bp comes to meet her she refused to meet him why? If abhi refuses to meet her why blank out at Bp since he travelled all the way? Doesnt that make her an inconsiderate granddaughter?

She was not ready to live with Nav either. He literally forced himself into her business. That girl has no sense then and no sense after 6yrs.

He is a good man who risked his own to bring her to hospital and Lucky that she n the baby survived. But this is exactly the reason why Abhimanyu was mad at her. High risk pregnancy but instead of thinking of the baby she was fuming in her ego instead of coming back home so that she could have proper treatment she was roaming streets no money n living in low income.

If a friend of yours did this would you praise her guts that wow you did not come back home moreso lived with a stranger?

Whoever thinks her marriage is fake please accept the fact that Akshara got married to Abhinav. He asked him to be father jee... put his name on Abhir's birth certificate. So if she did not marry nav it would make abhir out of wedlock child. If she had put abhi's name this problem would nt happen since they got div. barely 7months before.

gosh I am tired... I wrote a lot n have lot more to write... blah.

All that I can say it's a crap .They gave nicely pregnancy with complications. Made her do kachra later he got riled up.ti adjust someone's place they threw ak away and put Ar and daughter on head. Decisions made in anger resulted for both.one divorced her immediately after MC he did t check she has DNC or not as he was in ddp of neil. Neil never got a recognition in that home as son till ak got truth out thru ar. So what sort of justice that mata says nera neil ka bacha anadh nahi honi hi .at that time ak could have gone to Goenkas and stayed keit quiet slowly her pregnancy is out to all and for sale of kid they all melted down. Her decisions in zidd and respect made her chose not to go to gv nor meet her bp. For all these only one answer rejection in life. Throughout she has blames and guilt trips so she kept all away. Abhinav is destined to be there as God sent one to help her out. The kid is kanhaji blessings so vasudev and Nand are the father's. I don't feel anything for what she did at the moment as he deserves to be father. There is no shadi there nor divorce done properly of abhira so it's all just a part of drama . Like always khoda pahad nikla chuha tracks. If abhi is that strong they are not meant to be he could have moved on easily. What on earth is stopping him. Ak is not strong string fl anytime and both are flawed. I got detached with the yuck given. For me he is inhuman to give divorce at that time.he cared his family like always. If she has no kids she is thrown like dirt in a minute. If she has no mc he could have kept her in gv saying take care of my kids i will handle my mom and family. If we find all mistakes throughout leads are flawed . He never understood or trusts her proof matter to him always. She never gave him the assurance that she loved him above all. Love is not enough to live undestanding, respect , trust in relationship should be there. Both failed as couple and ak didnt want to give a life of wrath there. Here she gave him stress free life and good man support in his parvarish.

I am detached from yrkkh but I cant get detached from Abhira.

They are simply too beautiful and even more together. There is so much of my household work I do dreaming of them n I dnt know when I finish up all the mundane chores simply cooking up stories in my head.

harshali n abhira ne poora dil aur dimaag hijack kar liya hai. I watch nothing else on TV.

So plz yuck mat bolo.... at this point I will watch anything they serve.

Originally posted by: Illuminatus.

I am detached from yrkkh but I cant get detached from Abhira.

They are simply too beautiful and even more together. There is so much of my household work I do dreaming of them n I dnt know when I finish up all the mundane chores simply cooking up stories in my head.

harshali n abhira ne poora dil aur dimaag hijack kar liya hai. I watch nothing else on TV.

So plz yuck mat bolo.... at this point I will watch anything they serve.

Originally posted by: Illuminatus.

Hey!

First let me say, I am enjoying 2nd leap very much.

Initial Glimpses of Ak’s new life was fun to witness. And the kid is super adorable. The connection Abhir has with Nav is for sure a past life connection, so he was there to bring in his birth, later pay his debts by helping to raise him.

But the child is much like his dad, Abhi. His relation with Nav is of that with a buddy or friend not like father-son.

Akshara is the ring master in the house- dictating terms n routine to all and she is very comfortable doing this. She has not changed one bit in 6yrs, she was always this way. In front of stronger personalities she becomes subdued. That is where her inferiority complexes n subsequently adamant nature turns up when she wants to show she is better, kinder, more helpful n considerate about others. (My observation) She thinks she can help all alone, solve problems or take decisions without consulting family. What behavior is that?

How can anyone say Abhi’s outburst on her is wrong? He was just as out of control emotionally and physically a rut, watching his mother throwing constant fit. News of dead babies and watching his brother's dead body while his mother puts all blame on him and Ak. He feels more responsible since it was he who married her. She is the love of his life.

And this guy was on anxiety pills. His doc told him not to stop taking meds but did anyone from his family bother. We never heard anyone ask him how he did but we wtched how he took care of Mj, Neil's outbursts, Ak's constant missteps. Aarohi's blackmail, Ak's pregnancy news, his fears.. the drama. one sec of happiness n again jungle drama which finally ended with Neil dead coz of trafficking track.

Was Abhimanyu wrong in his outburts. Only when he mentions Sirat's death, we gasp. But why? what wrong did he say? he said, I dont know what happened, kuch aisa hi hua hoga. he is right though. She was instructed not to follow by Aru. And it was coz of her Sirat ran down faster n slipped.

Akshara does not follow instructions and falls into deeper pits. (But if she didnt we would nt have this crazy F*** story)

Anyways,

So Ak running from home I understand. But Bp comes to meet her she refused to meet him why? If abhi refuses to meet her why blank out at Bp since he travelled all the way? Doesnt that make her an inconsiderate granddaughter?

She was not ready to live with Nav either. He literally forced himself into her business. That girl has no sense then and no sense after 6yrs.

He is a good man who risked his own to bring her to hospital and Lucky that she n the baby survived. But this is exactly the reason why Abhimanyu was mad at her. High risk pregnancy but instead of thinking of the baby she was fuming in her ego instead of coming back home so that she could have proper treatment she was roaming streets no money n living in low income.

If a friend of yours did this would you praise her guts that wow you did not come back home moreso lived with a stranger?

Whoever thinks her marriage is fake please accept the fact that Akshara got married to Abhinav. He asked him to be father jee... put his name on Abhir's birth certificate. So if she did not marry nav it would make abhir out of wedlock child. If she had put abhi's name this problem would nt happen since they got div. barely 7months before.

gosh I am tired... I wrote a lot n have lot more to write... blah.

Sorry can't defend abhis action on what he did on the day he divorced akshu! No matter how much grief he thinks he was going through, she begged him to stop but he did not listen!

How can anyone be responsible for anyone's death and if she was so at fault why is she roaming around free why haven't the cops arrested her? Birlas coming from an educated doctors family have acted the most regressive out of all three seasons. Inhumane is what you call that! There can be no justification! No mother is careless to cause her own miscarriage! Infact you can say she lost one of her babies because she tried to save Neil abhis first child!

Now talking about leap and akshu! The writers forgot about technology and its 2023 not the 1920s why in the right mind they didn't let her just be I have no clue!

Anyway her trauma is massive, she witnessed her best freind/brother get killed in front of her eyes, she miscarried, then got blamed by her mother-in-law, who by the way physically asulted her, her husband should've been her biggest support but he divorced her on the spot and accused her as a murderer triggering her biggest trauma! I'm surprised she sat in a bus not go in front of it!

When she got her senses back, she fainted and already very far away from home. She finds out one baby is still alive, contacts her husband who doesn't even listen to her. She repeatedly calls him but same response! The mental state she is in will obviously make her very lonely! Manish made it worse! Imagine hearing the person you loved the most doesn't care if you are dead or alive? What that must do to someone's mental state?

Pregnancy isn't easy! Hormones and feelings are everywhere! A stranger helps her, who is God sent! She suffered a lot during that time alone and everytime this stranger helped! He earned her trust. Through out this time she tried several times to reach out to abhi but he time and again refused to listen. (Don't know why the writers made her stay away from gohenka only flip knows)

Few months pass, without any contact from her love her husband who promised he would love her double in this second chance. Pregnancy already difficult, birth even more traumatic surrounded by strangers, mind body and everything is pain by then! She saw light in nice guy who did so much for her. But instead fatherjee I wished she said can you be god father 🤦

This fake marriage is away to forget that trauma, her running away from reality. Because reality is that, the love of her life ditched her and again she is blamed for causing a loved one's death. This illusion has helped bring up her child in a normal family setting. Because the other option would be to return to toxicity where she would be daily questioned, her baby may also be snatched! There is no guarantee how she would've been treated..she may not have been able to become the mother she is today!

I rant that akshu is stupid because fatherjee was just beyond idiotic in my books! But if you follow her story, living life in an illusion has given this kid the best chance of survival! What she going tell her child regardless of age your dad abandoned me refused to talk to me, accused me of killing off his whole family! Threw me out while I was in pain! His a doctor as well! And when that child asks mummy who did you kill, the story behind that is also filled with goodness, they saved children! So instead of being rewarded she was punished!

Now you have abhi going around doing stand up comedy and feeling sorry for himself, when he is the one who ditched her in the first place!

I wished the makers focused on akshu more than nice guy! I would rather see akshu and abhir connection! But instead majority of the time they wasting time establishing nice guy is nice guy!

I am just going to start off that we should probably agree to disagree here 😆

I totally see where Abhi was at his wits end and what he said to her made sense minus the Sirat Ma death accusations and the 9 lives deaths. His treatment after having that fight to pull out divorce papers and then let her go without at the very least make sure Bade Papa or someone took her home. She wasn't exactly in the best state of mind either after the miscarriage and seeing her brother-in-law die. So for that I have some issues with him on. Every time it is his anger that gets in his way and because of it he also shuts out any attempts from her side later when she tried to tell him that one child was still alive. But he's always like that. His anger festers for days and he won't listen to a word she ever says or even talk to her and instead allow others to fill his mind with all sorts of stuff fueling the fire.

I could follow why Akshu decided to just run away. She wasn't exactly in the right state of mind to think as so much just happened. She lost her babies (or so she thought at the time), she lost her brother-in-law, her in-laws thinks she is a murder, her husband also thinks she is burden, and her husband divorced her. All in the span of 1 day. No one can think straight after that. So I get it when she ends up in Pathankot and how the whole Abhinav thing came about. Akshu over heard Bade Papa also blaming her for Neil's death. I don't think she heard him say but he also wants to see her and hug her. So even in that state of mind I think she just decided to cut everyone else in her life out because she is a burden to everyone. I know there could have been tons of other logical ways in which Akshu could still be living away but with help of family. I don't know I just saw it as she didn't want the stress of the Goenkas or the Birlas on her back. She knew going back to either of those families would be inviting all the other stress and guilt of Neil's death. There would be no way she wouldn't have a run in with Abhi, Arohi, or Manjari.

To me the writers already had the setup of Akshu hiding Abhir and how Abhi will find out and be upset. There is your bone of contention already. What I think yesterday's episode did was make Akshu look even more foolish. I don't mind the contract fake marriage in front of society. Small village, people whispering etc. it make sense in some context. Fine writers want to write it like that I have no issues. I'm rolling with it. But to allow Abhinav to actually sign the father's name on the paper? That I think was wrong and quite frankly unnecessary to be shown by the writers. It's like in their detailed explaining it backfires on them or it's like they want to give something even more for the Birlas or specifically Abhi to blast Akshu with.

And now coming to the other issue of lying to Abhir about who his real father is. It may have been to protect him from the truth that his real father did not want anything to do with them. Or so she thinks because of his angry words on that call. There was some bitterness that entered into Akshu at that moment on that call. It was like she decided fine you want to do that then I won't talk to you. Pettiness for sure because he had a right to know. But when people are fighting you don't think pettiness or ego can get in the way? People say and do stuff all the time in anger whether rightly or wrongly. And again set up for Abhi to regret his words because of his own anger and reactions when the mother of his child was simply trying to tell him one child survived.

I also think Akshu has been hiding and running for so long that sometimes it is very hard to come back. So I can see why she is still putting distance between herself and her family. And we are seeing right now for both Abhi and Akshu it's been 6 years. How much longer can they keep themselves from truly moving forward? Manjari is now nipping behind Abhi's heels to get him married to Arohi 😡and Akshu is asking Abhinav is he happy? Does he want something else? (I don't really think she's interested in a romantic relationship but she may be concern that she has taken up 6 years of his life and hasn't been able to leave this fake family.) Abhinav I think is thinking to try and move forward with her if she is amicable to it. So we have the chess pieces set.

The sad thing in all of the this that the two people who are going to suffer the most are the children. Abhir is going to lose faith in his mom for lying to him. Roohi is going to have problems when Abhir enters the house all because Abhi in his guilt, in his own loneliness, and that promise he made has overly compensated and my opinion has really spoiled Roohi. What is this no sharing? And then agreeing with the child? How is he going to explain to Roohi who has up to this point indulged in almost every want and need that yeah that other grandchild he's going to be staying with us now. I am going to spend time with him. You have to be nice with him and share certain things.

Execution in seasons 3 just the worst. Sad thing is we have capable actors who can act but they are given a crap script to work with.

One word for Akshara- escapist.

agree when you say illusions are her survival tactics. will reply in details soon.

Originally posted by: Illuminatus.

I am detached from yrkkh but I cant get detached from Abhira.

They are simply too beautiful and even more together. There is so much of my household work I do dreaming of them n I dnt know when I finish up all the mundane chores simply cooking up stories in my head.

harshali n abhira ne poora dil aur dimaag hijack kar liya hai. I watch nothing else on TV.

So plz yuck mat bolo.... at this point I will watch anything they serve.

Loool your more of a gone case than me 🤣🤣

I love abhira so no matter how stupid they show akshu and how toxic they show abhi, I stick to them more loool

I know end game is abhira but I wish the end game isn't the last day 😕

I've already commented on this topic on previous topics too, so instead of that I am just going to address the stupidity of akshu being blamed for sirat's death.

For one, arohi wasn't actually required to go to mandir to sirat herself and order akshu to stay home, but arohi from childhood was dominating and acted like akshu's amma.

The weather was also bad that day so it was stupid that arohi even decided that she can go alone to sirat in mandir but order akshu to stay home. Then the biggest stupidity of all was that sirat didn't even need to run down the stairs to stop akshu from coming up the mandir steps just because of weather because akshu was in no imminent or grave danger.

That was just sirat being super overdramatic. Sirat caused her own death honestly with her clumsiness, but ridiculous arohi and now even fans of this show claim akshu was reason for sirat death, as if akshu wasn't running up the stairs, but about to be hit by a car or something, and as if sirat was running down the stairs to save akshu from a major mishap. That entire scene of sirat running down stairs to stop akshu from coming up and herself falling and dying was such a overdramatic and silly death.

Originally posted by: Choco_mint

Loool your more of a gone case than me 🤣🤣

I love abhira so no matter how stupid they show akshu and how toxic they show abhi, I stick to them more loool

I know end game is abhira but I wish the end game isn't the last day 😕

I am in the same boat with you. I just want Abhira together.

I hate how this entire show has become lets make our leads cry and look foolish to their entire family while the villainous side-ies get away with everything and made to look more practical.