I haven't watched any of the shows being discussed by others in this thread. I don't browse enough to find the best of current TV offerings, so it's mostly my fault that I perceive a decline in the quality of what I watch.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XVXssKgFgnE&list=PLu-K45j6-YpCtXdn-JHDT8hPpV-6j4uJn&index=302
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=liqy0EZ4xqc&list=PLu-K45j6-YpCtXdn-JHDT8hPpV-6j4uJn&index=303
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vjiLjfgsVNM&list=PLu-K45j6-YpCtXdn-JHDT8hPpV-6j4uJn&index=304
A decade ago, the Marathi show Uṃça Māzhā Zhokā had a story arc about marital rape. The creatives managed to tell this story in a nineteenth-century setting but make it relevant and progressive even in the context of India's laws in 2013. They dared to show a grandmother desiring intimacy and refusing to be a mere sexual object, and yet the portrayal was in good taste, without any gratuitous sensationalism.
Since then, instead of TV shows acknowledging the diversity of human intimacy, such as gay couples, older couples who benefit from vasectomy etc., the trend seems to be towards homogeneity and trivialization of nonconsent. Marriages take place forcibly but the supporting characters blithely insist on intimate rituals. He must carry her into the temple ... they must tie their legs to each other's and circumambulate the shrine ... they must both bite the same sweet at the same time ... she must give him a bath. Supporting characters get negative background music if they suggest that an unhappy marriage or unwanted pregnancy should end; they get positive background music if they insist that "she is HIS wife now," dress her up in family jewelry, and tease the couple about babies. Sure enough, the pair falls in love because family elders know best. They have another marriage ceremony and the whole town pranks their consummation.
On Hindi serials, there seems to be a disturbing fashion of the male lead getting up close to the female, deliberately taking off his clothes to make her uncomfortable, making suggestive remarks ... and it is passed off as banter. He's just being ṭaporī. In one scene, the female flutters with terror as the male flies into a destructive drunken rage, and in the next, she trades saucy remarks with him as if nothing happened. This sort of dissonance makes it impossible to grasp who the characters are, let alone cheer for their pairing.
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