Pakhi and Kinjal and double standard of Shahs

I will come to kinjal first 

Kinjal ran from home and married toshu against Rakhi wish. Rakhi was wild and tried to take revege by asking for loan immediately etc so what did anupama do - debar kinjal from going to own mothers house 

Pakhi ran off with adhik and married against Barkha wish (lets assume barkha is anupama place here) but Barkha should not even scream at adhik why because ahik has married the great anupamas daughter? Why should not barkha not debar pakhi from going to her myak atit for tat? Why is anupama and shahs having different rule for girls who run away their own family and outside women? 

Also same way kavya did affair with vanraj so shes still treated like outsider even 2 years after marraige at shahs. But vanraj also had affair with kavya and toshu had affair with another woman married so why not treat them like kavya? 

Next we come to Pakhi - pakhi loved and married adhik like kinjal and toshu but grand welcome by anupama for toshu kinjal by kick out for adhik pakhi why? Who is anupama to decide? Because she never allowed daughters mother to decide in rakhi kinjal case? So only barkha should decide to kick out adhik pakhi from kapadiyas no? 

The show has too many contradictions.

I am sure the writers and Production House have a LOT to introspect. Further, the format of years of drama and 7 days a week of overdose kills the actual esence of the show.

I read and saw an interview:

1.Once that a leading actress was severely impacted by the amount of negativity she was portraying on screen garnering so many nasty comments (she was clear that it was for the character alone) and she requested the Production House for changing it.

Her character was changed into a grey (tending white) shade.

2. A parallel lead was shown as a neutral character but when that character and actor became more popular than the lead and was shown to be more realistic, that the character was butchered and turned black 

I am saying again ki makers ka screen  space bahut kharaab hai 

In today Jub anupama  shah  house se nikli tub us samay 11 am buj rahe honge e they aur jub  anupama  Kapadia  house mein aayi when little  anu showing painting  us time  almost shaam ho gayi thi 

To makers ne direct 11 am se .direct  evening  scene mein jump Kiya. .inhone  beech. Ki timing  jaise  jub anupama  class  jaati hai office  jaati hai aisi timing ko skip kar diya 

Makers  directly jump from 11 am morning  scene to  evening  scene  fo makers  ki presentation  bahut  kharaab hai inhe presentation  editing  pe work karna chahiye  

And it happens  many times yeh makers  log anu anupama  ke jub yeh  log dance academy   office class  attend  karte hai woh timing woh  scene  yeh skip kar Rahe Hain 

Jaise  do din pehle  jub  dimple police station  gayi thi to identify  criminal  to criminal  ko identify   karne ke baad they should  have  shown anupama  going  to  financial  literacy  class  but  makers  did not bother  to show financial  literacy  class  scene but they directly  jump to scene where  anupama  asking dimple to join dance academy  when kapdaia eating  lunch  together 

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