Originally posted by: Sairat
You yourself said u r not on social media; then you should first come there and then write such long essays; frankly I did not read the whole thing ; you know why???
Simply because have you read comments on the post of Madalsa Sharma or any other actress playing vamp...???
Read them...then you will know what are bad comments!!
I know you are Aishwarya fan cause; I have seen you defending her before ; but I don't have any problem with that...
So understand this once; we simply dont care if Aishwarya Sharma lives or dies; marries or remains single or for the love of god just jumps of the balcony.
In my world she doesn't exist...She is irritating; attention seeker and what is your obsession with her life bro...
Oh boy, you couldn’t be more wrong. This is precisely why you should read the entire thing.
And thank you for proving just what my actual problem is with what is happening currently.
You guys, and I don't know why, are so hell bent on trying to simplify things that you want to sort them into two sides- the good and the bad, without understanding that there are other factors too. The one who speaks for Aish is bad, the one who speaks against her is good. The one who sides with Ayesha is good and the one who doesn't is bad.
Liking doesn't mean that someone will always praise somone and disliking doesn't mean that one will never agree with anything the other persons does.
I don't like Aish. I don't care about her. The reason why I said this now was because this wasn't about Aish. Her entire post wasn't even about her. I said this because people were targetting those who spoke with her, those who were her well-wishers. When we hate other fans for being toxic or for unnecessarily pointing fingers at Ayesha's fans then we must also see to it that we ourselves don't turn into one of them. This was a scenario of fans vs fans which she pointed out. Had this been just about her, had she said that please don't send such messages to me, I would have ignored it the same way I have ignored all her other remarks, or have reacted the same way as I have done before i.e. with irritation. But her this post was in defence and in favor of those who are her fans. She is pointing out that us fans shouldn't personally attack those whose opinions might not line with us.
Isn't this why we don't like Neil that much, because he never acknowledges that which his fans do, like the trends, or that when there is a fan war happening in his coment section, he never speaks for his fans or try to put a stop to these negative comments?
Then why is it that this one time when Aish did it, it felt like such an offense to everyone.
Hate her for her wrongs, but don't call out on the rights.
And, as for whether she exists in your world or not, or whatever else the equation is, I don't care. You like her, you hate her, your opinion. But if you have one, let others have one too.
This fandom isn't one nuclear family, it is an entire tree. Those who support Aish, thsoe who don't, those who like Ayesha, those who dont, those who ship Neiwarya, those who ship Neilsha, those who ship SaiRat, those who ship Virakhi, and all the hundred others, they are all part of ghkkpm fandom. If we wish for us to be acknowledged, then we must also stand to watch others being spoken for. Otherwise with which mouth will we say that a particular fans are getting toxic. With what right would we point out and say that those who send hate messsages to Ayesha are wrong?
And as for Madalsa, she is a strong woman and honestly, ignoring these is the best thing too. Aish hadn't ignore the ones that were sent to her and now everyone calls her an attention seeker...which maybe she is maybe she isnt. But this time it wasn't her being targeted. It was her fans and speaking against that isn't wrong in any way.
Edited by ShipIsSailing - 2 years ago
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