In your explanation of the ritual, I don’t see anything about the actual girl. Father is thanking the groom/Vishnu for getting an opportunity to bring up his ‘Lakshmi’ and handing her back to him. And for this the parents will get Moksha. WHERE the heck is the girl in all this?What is the girl getting I don’t know. But she is losing her home, her lastname, her gotra, her entire identity in fact and on the top of it she will have to go to a new home and learn their ways and face the obstacles there and so much more.
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