Posted: 2 days ago

Originally posted by msin


Sai checked her bag .. and saw that the mobile was not there .. she assumed taken by virat 🥲


That is what I am saying. Instead they should have kept her mobile with her rather than showing her climb down. 

Posted: 2 days ago

If FIR is to be filed against Virat then long back they would have shown Sai filing it when he threw her out,when he charecter assassinated her and when he manhandled her during Pulkit lunch fiasco.

At the same time FIR would have been filed against Sai for taking Devyani out without the consent of her legal guardian and 

Also for faking death and sending mock police.

Fault lies in both the charecters . So justice should be delivered on equal level.

Posted: 2 days ago
Originally posted by 404_NotFound


Didn’t they show Kaku and gang getting forced to do something they were against  by faking death and faking arrest by involving fake police  . It’s not the first time that the show had normalized such things and since it’s FL on the receiving end we have some focus on it otherwise it would be given a comical touch and forgotten. 


Edit : oh let me the disclaimer before it’s too late . I don’t support any kind of abuse even if it comes from my fav Virat or universal fav Sai . 


Edit 2 : rephrasing it to avoid shifting the focus from the real issue 


I have always tried to be unbiased .. stayed away from off screen drama ( not my concern) , stayed away from actors acting capabilities.. I always discuss the characters rather than the actors ..for me this is just a story written by the author .. it is immaterial whosoever is acting it out .. 


The character virat .. was not right today .. yes he wanted to control his wife .. he felt she was slipping away .. not understanding him .. yes he felt humiliated whenever she said this is a deal marriage .. most particularly in janmashtami night .. He was angry with her when she stopped his transfer exercising her spousal right with his superior .. so he acted irrationally.. and went out of control 

but they showed him going down .. and explaining to his family.. there was not any remorse in his action.. his family did nothing to dissuade him .

He himself felt no remorse to go back up and open the door after 10 minutes.. it happens you hurts your if control .. but you realise ur mistake and make amends .. if he had rushed back to open the door ..or locked himself inside with her .. things would have been different .. 

this type of extreme anger needs therapy .. 

Posted: 2 days ago

Originally posted by msin



I have always tried to be unbiased .. stayed away from off screen drama ( not my concern) , stayed away from actors acting capabilities.. I always discuss the characters rather than the actors ..for me this is just a story written by the author .. it is immaterial whosoever is acting it out .. 


The character virat .. was not right today .. yes he wanted to control his wife .. he felt she was slipping away .. not understanding him .. yes he felt humiliated whenever she said this is a deal marriage .. most particularly in janmashtami night .. He was angry with her when she stopped his transfer exercising her spousal right with his superior .. so he acted irrationally.. and went out of control 

but they showed him going down .. and explaining to his family.. there was not any remorse in his action.. his family did nothing to dissuade him .

He himself felt no remorse to go back up and open the door after 10 minutes.. it happens you hurts your if control .. but you realise ur mistake and make amends .. if he had rushed back to open the door ..or locked himself inside with her .. things would have been different .. 

this type of extreme anger needs therapy .. 

It’s the exact same thing I mentioned . It’s doesn’t matter who did it whether it’s X or Y . What is wrong is wrong . I never said Virat did right . Did I ? I merely stated the fact that it’s not the first time it’s happening in the show . It’s a bitter truth but it’s still a truth . 

Edited by 404_NotFound - 2 days ago
Posted: 2 days ago
Originally posted by msin



I have always tried to be unbiased .. stayed away from off screen drama ( not my concern) , stayed away from actors acting capabilities.. I always discuss the characters rather than the actors ..for me this is just a story written by the author .. it is immaterial whosoever is acting it out .. 


The character virat .. was not right today .. yes he wanted to control his wife .. he felt she was slipping away .. not understanding him .. yes he felt humiliated whenever she said this is a deal marriage .. most particularly in janmashtami night .. He was angry with her when she stopped his transfer exercising her spousal right with his superior .. so he acted irrationally.. and went out of control 

but they showed him going down .. and explaining to his family.. there was not any remorse in his action.. his family did nothing to dissuade him .

He himself felt no remorse to go back up and open the door after 10 minutes.. it happens you hurts your if control .. but you realise ur mistake and make amends .. if he had rushed back to open the door ..or locked himself inside with her .. things would have been different .. 

this type of extreme anger needs therapy .. 

This has been Virat's pattern since PD lunch...he has no control over his anger, he does awful things....but doesn't realise it even....needs someone/something to knock some sense into him. The fact that he has probably seen Ninad behave the same way makes him insensitive to the harm he is causing to the other party. 

 He is attentive when things are going fine with Sai...but when there is any crack in the relationship...he has this tendency to act inhuman. As a viewer one watches with dread every time he gets angry...if his Ninad-esque side is going to make an appearance. That screams red flag. He commits a mistake, expresses regret but repeats the mistake again and again. That's classic abuse. He needs therapy asap.

For all the values Ashwini has tried to instill in Virat...she hasn't managed to take the Ninad out of him. Happens in real life too....sons who resent their fathers for the way they treat their mothers ...end up treating their wives the exact same way.


Sai needs to get out of this abusive relationship asap. Every time this has happened, her pain, her sense of humiliation, the effect to her self-esteem has never been shown properly in the show. Nor does she have a family that will take on  the damaad and family....and give her a safe haven. 


It's time the show takes a deviation - show SaiRat divorce and go their separate ways.  Sai continuing her studies and finding a more suitable life partner. Virat can be shown taking therapy and trying to become a better version of himself.

Posted: 2 days ago

Just to put it out here, Sai did wrong by faking her death but she was in constant fear and guilt throughout the show. The first thing she did when she got the mic was publically apologise to everyone for faking her death and giving them such a big scare. There's no hint of guilt or remorse in Virat for locking up Sai in her bedroom. Infact, he's justifying this act of his. 

As regards taking Devi outside her home without her legal guardian's permission, well the legal guardian was drugging her for years and separated her from her newborn baby and husband. I can only imagine the situation if someone rescuing Devi from such abuse would stop to take permissions.

Posted: 2 days ago

Virat's behaviour is very much similar to real life situations that do happen.. I think that is where they cross that thin line reality and fiction. 


Whatever Sai did, though once again, please I do not condone it, it was stupid,  reeked of immaturity, stubbornness, arrogance. but it still falls in the realm of fiction. 

But whatever Virat does when he is angry can happen to women, and by normalising it, without him showing even a thought about what he did, how are they portraying their male lead, who is supposed to be the Hero of the show??  Do it for drama sake but give us a monologue that he is feeling bad about behaving this way. And wondering if he crossed the line?? At least to himself?? 


Have there been such situations in other shows, yes!! but they show a change in the male lead. Here, there is no change. 

IF Sai is the wrong girl, then Virat is the wrong person too. Please let them go their own ways. 

Posted: 2 days ago
Originally posted by msin



I have always tried to be unbiased .. stayed away from off screen drama ( not my concern) , stayed away from actors acting capabilities.. I always discuss the characters rather than the actors ..for me this is just a story written by the author .. it is immaterial whosoever is acting it out .. 


The character virat .. was not right today .. yes he wanted to control his wife .. he felt she was slipping away .. not understanding him .. yes he felt humiliated whenever she said this is a deal marriage .. most particularly in janmashtami night .. He was angry with her when she stopped his transfer exercising her spousal right with his superior .. so he acted irrationally.. and went out of control 

but they showed him going down .. and explaining to his family.. there was not any remorse in his action.. his family did nothing to dissuade him .

He himself felt no remorse to go back up and open the door after 10 minutes.. it happens you hurts your if control .. but you realise ur mistake and make amends .. if he had rushed back to open the door ..or locked himself inside with her .. things would have been different .. 

this type of extreme anger needs therapy .. 


Bold : ye aapne bahut sahi baat batayismiley20tabhi I like to see ur post.

Edited by Fruitcustard_9 - 2 days ago

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